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To be so fed up amd disheartened with all the xenophobia

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 21:56

Honestly, I’m just feeling worn out and heartbroken lately. It seems like racism and xenophobia are becoming more and more mainstream again, wrapped up in the same tired scare stories, whether it’s splashed across a tabloid or coming straight out of Farage’s mouth. Then you see stupid threads on here about civil war trying to stir up more hate.

Even my own brother has started sounding like Tommy Robinson. Ten years ago, that would’ve been unthinkable. It’s like people have completely forgotten the lies we were sold during Brexit—by Farage, Tice and their crowd—and yet they’re still lapping up everything they say. No critical thought, just blind anger pointed in the wrong direction.
I’m so fed up with the endless nonsense about small boats, “white minorities,” and all the rest of it. It’s all designed to divide us, stoke hate, and distract from the real culprits—rubbish politicians, broken policies, and the ultra-wealthy hoarding resources while the rest of us struggle.

But instead of looking upwards, it’s always “blame Johnny Foreigner.” It’s exhausting, and frankly terrifying how quickly people fall for it.

Is anyone else feeling this? How are you managing conversations when even close family seem to be buying into this stuff? I’m trying to stay compassionate, but it’s getting harder to bite my tongue.

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Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:21

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:20

Report it then. Who gives a shit. It's a bunfight between people who hate refugees and people that hate xenophobia. The grey area is being ignored.

Grey area? What nuance has been shown? I'm only surprised reparations hasn't shown its head.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:21

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:20

@skymagentatwo has shown exactly why we will very likely have a Reform government at the next GE. The sneering, the question dodging, the mealy mouthed appeasing. I think they all need to be congratulated on what a great job they’ve done in upping the chances of Farage as PM.

100%

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 23:21

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:19

Absolutely. They always resort to personal attacks. Every.single.time.

That’s rich. Your very first post on this thread was a personal attack and you’ve kept it up for seven pages.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:22

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:21

Grey area? What nuance has been shown? I'm only surprised reparations hasn't shown its head.

Well, nobody in engaging with my hard facts because it’s easier to pick on a dyslexic poster than it is to face up to uncomfortable truths.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:22

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 23:21

That’s rich. Your very first post on this thread was a personal attack and you’ve kept it up for seven pages.

Pot kettle black, hmmmmm.

TempestTost · 04/08/2025 23:23

I don't understand why there is this jump straight to the idea that people hate those from other countries, or of other races.

I quite enjoy other cultures, I've lived and worked in other countries myself, my dp is an immigrant and not the same race as me either. As is much of the extended family on that side, they've been here for 40 years or so. They are people who love their culture - which is itself a big mix of cultures.

And yet many of them are also worried about the state of immigration now and how it's affecting infrastructure, and jobs - many of them are working class people whose communities are being affected.

But no doubt according to the progressive spin, they are all racists and xenophobes too.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:23

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:21

Grey area? What nuance has been shown? I'm only surprised reparations hasn't shown its head.

It was you that started the personal attacks

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:23

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 23:21

That’s rich. Your very first post on this thread was a personal attack and you’ve kept it up for seven pages.

Sorry, did you answer my question about Antifa? I must have missed it, in amongst all the sneering.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:24

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:22

Pot kettle black, hmmmmm.

Just own it

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:24

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:23

It was you that started the personal attacks

Says the person who has thrown every insult they could muster out of the pram.

ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:24

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:22

Well, nobody in engaging with my hard facts because it’s easier to pick on a dyslexic poster than it is to face up to uncomfortable truths.

Odd, you had no answer to my valid questions either.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:25

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:24

Says the person who has thrown every insult they could muster out of the pram.

I've got plenty more for people like you but you're boring, sorry.

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:26

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:24

Just own it

In other words - you will do as demanded. As for personal attacks - is the use of being cards now personal?

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:26

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:24

Just own it

Own what exactly, you have showing everyone the type of person you are, nothing but spite, hot air and abuse.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:26

ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:24

Odd, you had no answer to my valid questions either.

What were they? I’ll answer now.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:27

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:25

I've got plenty more for people like you but you're boring, sorry.

Boring as in your insults are worthless words on a page, that one one gives a shit about and your virtuous moral standing is not getting more points.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:29

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:26

Own what exactly, you have showing everyone the type of person you are, nothing but spite, hot air and abuse.

Own your anger at the mention of xenophobic as though you're somehow personally attacked. Nobody summoned you. You descended here to attack

ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:29

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:26

What were they? I’ll answer now.

Read back and you will see.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:30

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:27

Boring as in your insults are worthless words on a page, that one one gives a shit about and your virtuous moral standing is not getting more points.

Yours too, in that respect

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:30

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:27

Boring as in your insults are worthless words on a page, that one one gives a shit about and your virtuous moral standing is not getting more points.

Nice slow round of applause for women's safety being put to the bottom of the pile. All in the name of signalling one's virtue. Shame those virtues don't extend to being in solidarity, with a gender that's literally fucked over by men x i

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:30

ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:29

Read back and you will see.

Can’t see anything just repost it.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:31

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:26

Own what exactly, you have showing everyone the type of person you are, nothing but spite, hot air and abuse.

Own the fact that you came here to claim xenophobia is okay

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:31

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:29

Own your anger at the mention of xenophobic as though you're somehow personally attacked. Nobody summoned you. You descended here to attack

Well its looks like the OP has done a runner and left you to hold the empty moral can that has a big hole in it. That must be very upsetting for some one with such a broken moral compass that they imaging is shiny and new.

Ill leave you to your label maker it must be running out of tape now and the glue is a bit shit anyway it no longer sticks.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:32

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:31

Well its looks like the OP has done a runner and left you to hold the empty moral can that has a big hole in it. That must be very upsetting for some one with such a broken moral compass that they imaging is shiny and new.

Ill leave you to your label maker it must be running out of tape now and the glue is a bit shit anyway it no longer sticks.

Nice try

Somerford · 04/08/2025 23:32

Hm17 · 04/08/2025 22:23

Wasn’t a woman working at a hotel housing asylum seekers murdered last year? By an asylum seeker? Do you just ignore the fact that the people coming on small boats are vast majority male?

There was another news story only yesterday about a Sudanese migrant, staying in a hotel at our expense, arrested for trying to abduct a 10 year old girl in a park and was only prevented from doing something horrific because the little girl's dad was close by. This is being foisted upon communities all over the country and these stories are very frequent. Objecting to it doesn’t make you a racist or a bigot, especially when the state is using your own money to do this to you. Its disgusting.

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