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To be so fed up amd disheartened with all the xenophobia

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 21:56

Honestly, I’m just feeling worn out and heartbroken lately. It seems like racism and xenophobia are becoming more and more mainstream again, wrapped up in the same tired scare stories, whether it’s splashed across a tabloid or coming straight out of Farage’s mouth. Then you see stupid threads on here about civil war trying to stir up more hate.

Even my own brother has started sounding like Tommy Robinson. Ten years ago, that would’ve been unthinkable. It’s like people have completely forgotten the lies we were sold during Brexit—by Farage, Tice and their crowd—and yet they’re still lapping up everything they say. No critical thought, just blind anger pointed in the wrong direction.
I’m so fed up with the endless nonsense about small boats, “white minorities,” and all the rest of it. It’s all designed to divide us, stoke hate, and distract from the real culprits—rubbish politicians, broken policies, and the ultra-wealthy hoarding resources while the rest of us struggle.

But instead of looking upwards, it’s always “blame Johnny Foreigner.” It’s exhausting, and frankly terrifying how quickly people fall for it.

Is anyone else feeling this? How are you managing conversations when even close family seem to be buying into this stuff? I’m trying to stay compassionate, but it’s getting harder to bite my tongue.

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skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:15

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:14

Careful, you're sounding woke now.

And another label. my my you are showing how intolerant you are aren't you. And this ladies and gentlemen is the face of the tolerant left.

LIGHTSNACKER · 04/08/2025 23:15

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:18

It's ridiculous so much media cover is given to illegal immigrants when the number of legal migration is significantly higher. For example about 150,000 people have come to to UK from Hong Kong alone since 2021.

How many immigrants from Hong Kong have raped or murdered women since arriving?

What percentage of migrants have raped and attacked women compared to the percentage of home grown rapists and women attackers?

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:15

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:14

Careful, you're sounding woke now.

Do only woke people have dyslexia?

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 23:16

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:15

And another label. my my you are showing how intolerant you are aren't you. And this ladies and gentlemen is the face of the tolerant left.

Are you the face of the goady and sneering right?

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:16

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ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:16

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:12

Please can you tell me which other religions have 80+ courts operating outside of our legal system? And also which religion is the most patriarchal, given Islamic countries are by far the worst for human rights abuses and terrifying misogyny?

You're complaining about the existence of Sharia councils which, as has been pointed out, aren't legal courts of law but exist to give religious guidance.
Religion is by its nature patriarchal. I mean, name one that isn't?

Are you equally opposed to Catholic tribunals and the Beth Din?

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:17

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 23:16

Are you the face of the goady and sneering right?

There we go again another from the left with the label gun, when it stops working what are you going to do? my sticker book is filling up fast 😂

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:17

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Below the belt.

ForWittyTealOP · 04/08/2025 23:17

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Oh dear. How very embarrassing for you.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:17

LIGHTSNACKER · 04/08/2025 23:15

What percentage of migrants have raped and attacked women compared to the percentage of home grown rapists and women attackers?

Well Afghan men are statistically 20 times more likely to commit a sex attack than British men, according to Home Office figures. Hope that answers your question!

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:17

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:17

There we go again another from the left with the label gun, when it stops working what are you going to do? my sticker book is filling up fast 😂

😆 🤣 ooh my sneery emoji must be stuck 😉

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:17

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Haha the true face of this poster is complete. 💯💥

Somerford · 04/08/2025 23:18

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:18

It's ridiculous so much media cover is given to illegal immigrants when the number of legal migration is significantly higher. For example about 150,000 people have come to to UK from Hong Kong alone since 2021.

How many immigrants from Hong Kong have raped or murdered women since arriving?

You'd be forgiven for thinking that people aren't actually frothing, foaming at the mouth racists and that they're actually liberal and tolerant to people who don't come here to fleece us and rape children.

jensondolally · 04/08/2025 23:19

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Don’t be an idiot. The nazi party were neither left nor socialist.

https://www.britannica.com/story/were-the-nazis-socialists

Were the Nazis Socialists? | Britannica

Were the Nazis socialists? No, not in any meaningful way, and certainly not after 1934.

https://www.britannica.com/story/were-the-nazis-socialists

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:19

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:17

Haha the true face of this poster is complete. 💯💥

Absolutely. They always resort to personal attacks. Every.single.time.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:19

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:19

Absolutely. They always resort to personal attacks. Every.single.time.

Exactly they always oust their true colours in the end.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:20

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 23:17

Below the belt.

Report it then. Who gives a shit. It's a bunfight between people who hate refugees and people that hate xenophobia. The grey area is being ignored.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:20

@skymagentatwo has shown exactly why we will very likely have a Reform government at the next GE. The sneering, the question dodging, the mealy mouthed appeasing. I think they all need to be congratulated on what a great job they’ve done in upping the chances of Farage as PM.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:20

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:17

Haha the true face of this poster is complete. 💯💥

Yours too, bingo queen. Go celebrate

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 23:20

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:20

Report it then. Who gives a shit. It's a bunfight between people who hate refugees and people that hate xenophobia. The grey area is being ignored.

‘Hate xenophobia so turn a blind eye to sex crime’

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 04/08/2025 23:20

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:35

You never hear people complaining about British people moving to parts of Spain and sticking with their own there and not learning Spanish. It's OK when we do it in a foreign country but God forbid any foreigners who do it here, pure hypocrisy

Or is completely different in every possible respect??

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 04/08/2025 23:20

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:35

You never hear people complaining about British people moving to parts of Spain and sticking with their own there and not learning Spanish. It's OK when we do it in a foreign country but God forbid any foreigners who do it here, pure hypocrisy

Or is completely different in every possible respect??

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 04/08/2025 23:21

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:35

You never hear people complaining about British people moving to parts of Spain and sticking with their own there and not learning Spanish. It's OK when we do it in a foreign country but God forbid any foreigners who do it here, pure hypocrisy

Or is completely different in every possible respect??

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 04/08/2025 23:21

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:35

You never hear people complaining about British people moving to parts of Spain and sticking with their own there and not learning Spanish. It's OK when we do it in a foreign country but God forbid any foreigners who do it here, pure hypocrisy

Or is completely different in every possible respect??

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 23:21

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 23:20

Report it then. Who gives a shit. It's a bunfight between people who hate refugees and people that hate xenophobia. The grey area is being ignored.

See the vitriol is strong in the one, the virtuous mask has well and truly slipped and all that's left is the very angry person behind the mask.

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