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Do you believe there will be a civil war?

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exhaustedandwholly · 04/08/2025 17:47

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and I wonder if others feel the same. With everything going on, from the arrival of illegal migrants in small boats to a government that seems powerless, and with Farage gaining popularity because people are fed up, it feels like tension is rising across the country.

People are frustrated. You try to raise concerns and are instantly labelled a racist or bigot, even when your worries are about integration, safety, and national identity, not race. It feels like any honest conversation is being shut down.

There are parts of the UK where people who were born and raised here no longer feel at home. In some areas, if you are not part of the dominant local community, you can feel completely out of place or even unsafe walking alone at night. That is not right in your own country.

It is not just about people coming from Muslim-majority countries or those arriving illegally. There are also large numbers of Eastern Europeans, including Bulgarians, Romanians, and Russians. Many work hard and contribute, but there are also communities forming where people keep to themselves, speak no English, and make no effort to integrate. Some of these areas are experiencing rising antisocial behaviour, crime, and a breakdown of community life.

You can find videos online showing the state of some of these areas, with rubbish piling up, people ignoring the rules, and no sign of enforcement. It looks lawless, and it often is. But speaking about it honestly is considered of limits.

I live next to a Muslim family and they are wonderful people. Friendly, respectful, hardworking. So this is not about judging individuals. This is about a wider pattern where people are arriving, not integrating, and changing the fabric of our country in ways no one voted for.

We are a Christian country with our own traditions, values, and way of life. Why is it seen as wrong to want to preserve that? If we moved to Saudi Arabia, Bulgaria, or Russia, we would be expected to adapt to their culture. So why is it unacceptable to ask the same here?

The anger and division in this country are growing. I do not want unrest or conflict, but I cannot ignore what feels like a serious shift. When ordinary people feel ignored for too long, things eventually boil over.

Is anyone else feeling this? Or are we just not allowed to talk about it anymore?

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Ticktockk · 04/08/2025 22:04

Going back to the original question : who on earth would be on the two sides of this civil war? Immigrants vs those with Saxon bloodlines? Or maybe Norman bloodlines?
or white people vs everyone else? Humanitarians vs racists? Left vs right, with those in the middle hiding in bunkers?

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 22:05

@Nasrine it’s easy. They aren’t racist. It’s just multicultural area = food with flavour.

Can’t desecrate the great tradition of chicken nuggets n chips with things like seasoning.

They want their white kids to eat white food in peace and not have this woke agenda of spice and taste forced on them.

I did actually hear someone refer to chicken nuggets as propah British food once. Of all the things to hate about immigration, food that actually tastes like something other than salt shouldn’t be one.

VintageMarket · 04/08/2025 22:05

Nobody ever mentions that the most common name for baby girls is Olivia.

By 2099 our children will be a minority of non Olivia's in their nursing homes, no longer feeling part of the community.

Don't get me wrong, I live next door to an Olivia and she's a wonderful hardworking and respectful woman. It's the other Olivias I'm talking about. The ones who don't integrate, who change the fabric of things in a way I didn't vote for.

Is anyone else feeling this? Or are we just not allowed to talk about it anymore?

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 22:05

Mygosh · 04/08/2025 22:01

I don't understand what you are trying to say. Perhaps this explains it to you?

The figures would mean that the conviction rate for foreign nationals is 5.75 per 100,000 of the population and 1.77 per 100,000 for the British population - a conviction rate which is 224% higher. In other words, foreign nationals are convicted for sexual assault on a female at a rate 2.24 times higher than the British population.

My point is that out of over 10 million foreign nationals, only 377 commit these offences each year.

That is a vanishingly low percentage of the foreign national population.

But it doesn't sound so dramatic presented that way, does it?

Wowwee1234 · 04/08/2025 22:05

Can Mumsnet @admin get to grips with these xenophobic threads popping up everynight? Same old, same old stirring rooted in half truths and scaremongering.

AWitchCalledMeg · 04/08/2025 22:06

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 21:53

@AWitchCalledMeg you might need someone to hold your hand when I tell you some of the things Britain did to indigenous people in their own lands, where their ancestors had lived for 1,000s of years, rooted in envy, avarice and wickedness.YOU expose YOURSELF more than you know.

What’s so nice about these threads is that the aphorism ‘projection is confession’ rings like a bell.

Have a think about why you are so afraid of people doing here what your ancestors did over there.

My ancestors were penniless peasants in the welsh hills, just trying to quietly scratch a living off the land and maybe live until their mid 40s if they were lucky. Don't try and tell me they were colonisers. It is a despicable thing to accuse the ordinary, honest Britons of the past of. You are a brainwashed bleater.

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 22:06

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:52

What makes it sound undesirable?

I love Streatham Hill btw! So many nice houses, Streatham common, some FANTASTIC schools. I don't live there btw - I live in a poorer part of London.

I suspect you're finding it a struggle to explain what it is specifically you hate about living in a multicultural area without saying something bigoted and racist. Just give it a go. What do you hate?

The 4 mosques, the 4 migrant hostels, the no white kids at school. I prefer more diversity. I’d wager it’s is a high social housing, high crime area where nobody wants to live unless they have to (including you) just like every other area like that.
Streatham hill was not nice when I lived there, I was an early gentrifier, I also lived in Streatham common towards the Lido. Also a hole,

BIossomtoes · 04/08/2025 22:07

Wowwee1234 · 04/08/2025 22:05

Can Mumsnet @admin get to grips with these xenophobic threads popping up everynight? Same old, same old stirring rooted in half truths and scaremongering.

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Dymaxion · 04/08/2025 22:08

2 in 5 people arrested for violent behaviour at last summer's riots had been previously reported to the police for domestic violence.

But that's the right sort of domestic violence, had too many beers/she asked for it/football team lost the match type, home grown and not imported, Christian country type of domestic violence ?

AWitchCalledMeg · 04/08/2025 22:09

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 22:05

@Nasrine it’s easy. They aren’t racist. It’s just multicultural area = food with flavour.

Can’t desecrate the great tradition of chicken nuggets n chips with things like seasoning.

They want their white kids to eat white food in peace and not have this woke agenda of spice and taste forced on them.

I did actually hear someone refer to chicken nuggets as propah British food once. Of all the things to hate about immigration, food that actually tastes like something other than salt shouldn’t be one.

Another despicable comment. Britain has an incredibly rich culinary history. Why do you hate the nation you are a part of?

Hihellogoodbye · 04/08/2025 22:09

PauliesWalnuts · 04/08/2025 17:58

Despite your "I have muslim neighbours...." - I think you're a racist, a plant, and trying to stir up racist conversation.

And you are a mug

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 22:09

Given this is a thinly veiled recruitment drive for Deform and Garbage as PM, can we also have a recruitment drive for the immigrants of mumsnet civil war team?

I have hefty legs, pass as English and am good at crosswords so should be able infiltrate the enemy lines for information, write coded messages and deliver them via rugby and footballs booted back into ‘enemy territory’ under the guise of playing good English sports.

MurdoMunro · 04/08/2025 22:10

AWitchCalledMeg · 04/08/2025 22:09

Another despicable comment. Britain has an incredibly rich culinary history. Why do you hate the nation you are a part of?

Oh this is getting silly now.

pointythings · 04/08/2025 22:10

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 21:38

Would you change your view on mass immigration if it was true that Britain would be a white British minority country by 2050?

No, because I don't care what colour someone is. I'm not racist.

Lifelover16 · 04/08/2025 22:10

TizerorFizz · 04/08/2025 17:54

I’ve often wondered if the Brits learn Arabic in Dubai or Spanish in Spain when they live in enclaves?

Yes all children of all nationalities in school in Dubai are taught Arabic, right from nursery upwards.

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 22:11

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 21:52

Nasrine, I am trying to do the EXACT opposite.

Please read my post again. I am demonstrating that only a tiny fraction of foreign nationals commit these crimes.

Edited

@nasrine, as I set out in my reply to the other poster, this is what I was trying to demonstrate:

Out of over 10 million foreign nationals, only 377 commit sexual offences each year.

That is a vanishingly low percentage of the foreign national population.

I hope that makes my intentions clear!

Westfacing · 04/08/2025 22:11

SixtySomething · 04/08/2025 21:34

I thought Mohammed was currently the most popular boys' name?

This is a claim bandied about and it's been explained many times. In fact it was explained a few years back by Radio 4's More or Less programme which delves into statistical claims.

Muslims choose their first born boys names from a very short list, and most settle on Mohammed; the rest of the population choose from all the variations e.g. traditional British, modern names, African, Irish, Celtic, European, Chinese, celebrity names, and so on. So Mohammeds actually make up a small percentage of overall numbers of babies born, but the name is popular in the Moslem community.

Jumpthewaves · 04/08/2025 22:11

Wowwee1234 · 04/08/2025 22:05

Can Mumsnet @admin get to grips with these xenophobic threads popping up everynight? Same old, same old stirring rooted in half truths and scaremongering.

Yes, this please.

Hihellogoodbye · 04/08/2025 22:12

Wowwee1234 · 04/08/2025 22:05

Can Mumsnet @admin get to grips with these xenophobic threads popping up everynight? Same old, same old stirring rooted in half truths and scaremongering.

🤣 are you feeling a bit threatened babe?

Mygosh · 04/08/2025 22:12

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 22:05

My point is that out of over 10 million foreign nationals, only 377 commit these offences each year.

That is a vanishingly low percentage of the foreign national population.

But it doesn't sound so dramatic presented that way, does it?

Ah well, ONLY 377 people raped or assaulted, bloody hell! You can try to make it sound acceptable but it's not, is it. I'm in no way against immigration but anyone committing crimes should be immediately sent back.

MarieAndTwinette · 04/08/2025 22:13

bagginsatbagend · 04/08/2025 21:52

If there were signs like that it would be all over social media & front page news on some papers. They’d absolutely love to have photos of something like that, if it was true it would 100% be in the news

And “no English” probably means they don’t speak English yet.

Wow the right wing are doing a number on people. And in some cases it seems to be working.

Hopefully I will be long gone (rip me) when the racist sh*t hits the fan.

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 22:13

@AWitchCalledMeg must be my wickedness, avarice and greed I guess. I am here as an invading force hellbent on destroying the indigenous population one chicken nugget at a time, after all.

gmgnts · 04/08/2025 22:13

YABVU - shit-stirring, like the Daily Mail and the Sun. They certainly talk about it - I don't know why you say we can't do so. And as for the faux naïve 'I just wish everyone would get on' what evidence do you have that people aren't getting on??

AWitchCalledMeg · 04/08/2025 22:13

Over40Overdating · 04/08/2025 22:09

Given this is a thinly veiled recruitment drive for Deform and Garbage as PM, can we also have a recruitment drive for the immigrants of mumsnet civil war team?

I have hefty legs, pass as English and am good at crosswords so should be able infiltrate the enemy lines for information, write coded messages and deliver them via rugby and footballs booted back into ‘enemy territory’ under the guise of playing good English sports.

You sound like someone that Prevent should be watching.

Dymaxion · 04/08/2025 22:13

@Over40Overdating well I think we need your culinary credentials first ? An army marches on its stomach and all that ?

What scran are you bringing to the cause ?

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