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Do you believe there will be a civil war?

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exhaustedandwholly · 04/08/2025 17:47

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and I wonder if others feel the same. With everything going on, from the arrival of illegal migrants in small boats to a government that seems powerless, and with Farage gaining popularity because people are fed up, it feels like tension is rising across the country.

People are frustrated. You try to raise concerns and are instantly labelled a racist or bigot, even when your worries are about integration, safety, and national identity, not race. It feels like any honest conversation is being shut down.

There are parts of the UK where people who were born and raised here no longer feel at home. In some areas, if you are not part of the dominant local community, you can feel completely out of place or even unsafe walking alone at night. That is not right in your own country.

It is not just about people coming from Muslim-majority countries or those arriving illegally. There are also large numbers of Eastern Europeans, including Bulgarians, Romanians, and Russians. Many work hard and contribute, but there are also communities forming where people keep to themselves, speak no English, and make no effort to integrate. Some of these areas are experiencing rising antisocial behaviour, crime, and a breakdown of community life.

You can find videos online showing the state of some of these areas, with rubbish piling up, people ignoring the rules, and no sign of enforcement. It looks lawless, and it often is. But speaking about it honestly is considered of limits.

I live next to a Muslim family and they are wonderful people. Friendly, respectful, hardworking. So this is not about judging individuals. This is about a wider pattern where people are arriving, not integrating, and changing the fabric of our country in ways no one voted for.

We are a Christian country with our own traditions, values, and way of life. Why is it seen as wrong to want to preserve that? If we moved to Saudi Arabia, Bulgaria, or Russia, we would be expected to adapt to their culture. So why is it unacceptable to ask the same here?

The anger and division in this country are growing. I do not want unrest or conflict, but I cannot ignore what feels like a serious shift. When ordinary people feel ignored for too long, things eventually boil over.

Is anyone else feeling this? Or are we just not allowed to talk about it anymore?

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AlpacaMittens · 04/08/2025 21:07

MurdoMunro · 04/08/2025 21:02

it does feel sort of relentless doesn’t it. It’s all gone a bit Facebook.

Yes. It feels relentless and very, very odd. Although I'm a bit biased as I'm a real life forrin. An Eastern European even.

SerendipityJane · 04/08/2025 21:08

Isn't there an old prophecy ? "As long as KFC has chicken, peace with reign"

LBFseBrom · 04/08/2025 21:08

TofuEater · 04/08/2025 17:52

"Is anyone else feeling this? Or are we just not allowed to talk about it anymore?"

The difficulty is to get people to stop talking about it

I agree. That sort of talk is rife in some facebook groups and fuelled by the media, especially the Daily Mail, but in real life I know nobody who feels that way. i think life here is pretty good.

When I read the first post I could hardly believe it. Civil war? Ridiculous.

SerendipityJane · 04/08/2025 21:09

Westfacing · 04/08/2025 21:06

We are sleepwalking into becoming a muslim country,

Can you please explain how that will happen?

There is a thread in AIBU explaining the arithmetic...

It's 125% increase, apparently.

rriffraff · 04/08/2025 21:10

Lonelycrab · 04/08/2025 21:02

That’s bollocks though.

What is the ethnic demographic of this country? I dare you to google it

Edited

At the moment it is 75% white british
Asian British 8.6%
Black British 3.71%

The non-white share will increase from 19.7 per cent to 34.8 per cent by 2050, 48.1 per cent by the year 2075 and to 59.3 per cent by 2100. The analysis suggested that the white population, including both white British and white other, would become a minority of the population in the year 2079.

I think that no one has a problem with migration but the speed of it over the last decade has been what has unsettled people.

Lonelycrab · 04/08/2025 21:11

Perhaps @exhaustedandwholly look at the people that are driving the “civil war is inevitable” narrative. Understand that they are generally foreign based millionaires and billionaires that will profit greatly from this narrative..

And learn to read between the lines. Many don’t have the intelligence or knowledge to do this, and they’re being manipulated like the pawns they are, towards their, and this country’s potential downfall.

Thankfully a lot of people somewhat intelligent and also too compassionate to let that happen.

EasternStandard · 04/08/2025 21:12

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 21:07

I think you might want you look at demographic predictions for 2050, ie when someone born today is 25. You might think it’s a good thing or be indifferent to it, but it most certainly is not bollocks.

Do people refute this? I see a lot of ‘it’s nonsense’ posts, but on this one is it?

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:12

@exhaustedandwholly

I live in an area where as a white British born person, I'm usually in a minority in local shops. My son was the only white (or white passing - he's 1/4th Caribbean) boy in his class at primary school from reception to year 6. There are two migrant hostels within a 20 minute walk from my home, and 4 mosques closer than that.

FWIW none of this has any impact on my quality of life, or my ability to enjoy what you might consider traditional British culture - music, literature, food, theatre. If I wanted to go to Church there are 5 Christian churches I could walk to.

Could you explain to me why you think that parts of the UK looking like this justifies racist riots? What's bad about the fact that the only people willing to take on the brutal hard work of opening a shop on our local high street are recent immigrants - because these shops need to stay open for 16 hours a day to make a profit.

You clearly think multicultural communities = terrible. As someone who lives in one, I don't agree.

Fleetheart · 04/08/2025 21:14

exhaustedandwholly · 04/08/2025 18:01

Yes, I’ve experienced this first hand. There’s a small town not far from where I live that I visit fairly regularly, and the situation there is quite different from what you describe. The area has a large population of Russians, Bulgarians, and Muslims, and there are even shops with signs in the windows that say 'no English.' This isn’t something I’ve picked up from social media it’s what I’ve seen for myself.

So yes, I have experienced it, and honestly, it isn’t a pleasant situation. I just wish everyone could get on!

Edited

which town is this?

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 21:14

Westfacing · 04/08/2025 21:06

We are sleepwalking into becoming a muslim country,

Can you please explain how that will happen?

Demographic changes, block voting along religious lines, introduction of ‘Islamophobia’ legislation.

ExtraOnions · 04/08/2025 21:14

rriffraff · 04/08/2025 21:10

At the moment it is 75% white british
Asian British 8.6%
Black British 3.71%

The non-white share will increase from 19.7 per cent to 34.8 per cent by 2050, 48.1 per cent by the year 2075 and to 59.3 per cent by 2100. The analysis suggested that the white population, including both white British and white other, would become a minority of the population in the year 2079.

I think that no one has a problem with migration but the speed of it over the last decade has been what has unsettled people.

…better get breeding then. Part of the reason we need migrants is due to low birth rates.

Where do mixed race people fall in this equation? Do you have to be a certain shade of White to count.

Just to also say .. plenty of Muslims aren’t particularly religious, even the ones that there are have different beliefs.

It’s like saying all Christian’s are Creationists, who go round bombing Abortion Clinics, and advocating Gay Conversion Therapy.

pointythings · 04/08/2025 21:15

Blackcordoroys · 04/08/2025 20:13

We are a Christian country! Our monarch is head of the church; bishops sit in the House of Lords; prayer is compulsory in schools; we have Christmas and Easter celebrations. Denying this is crackers

Our monarch is head of the church
With a pretty much symbolic function, and just because an ancestor of his threw a tantrum because he wanted a divorce. Not anything to brag about.

bishops sit in the House of Lords
True, let's sort that one out by having an elected second chamber!
Prayer is compulsory in schools;
It's not - parents can opt their children out. And many, many schools completely ignore the 'compulsory act of broadly Christian worship' requirement. The requirement itself is really quite Christian Taliban; the words 'compulsory' and 'worship' do not belong in the same sentence.

we have Christmas and Easter celebrations.
Which for the vast majority of us are about family gatherings, the consumption of ridiculous amounts of food and drink and not much more.

Although there is a move in Gen Z towards religion, this isn't all Christianity either. Evangelical Christianity is on the rise, but so is paganism and other forms of spirituality.

Your 'Christian Country' is mostly a matter of wishful thinking.

Mygosh · 04/08/2025 21:15

I don't think there will be because British people are brow beaten and scared to be called racist.

Lots of people on here must've lived a sheltered life to miss what's going on in most large cities.

25% of rapes/sexual assaults are committed by foreign nationals. Yes, English men do this too. But this figure kind of says it all, especially when comparing population ratio.

As for the 'No English' sign. I believe this. Where I used to live 2 men premeditated a murder on a white person. After killing him they sprayed the underground passage with 'no whites'. I see this with my own eyes. And I was racially abused myself in the same underground, as were many of my neighbours, and mugged.

The majority of people do want a peaceful life but the government is doing fuck all to vet these immigrants.

MurdoMunro · 04/08/2025 21:15

AlpacaMittens · 04/08/2025 21:07

Yes. It feels relentless and very, very odd. Although I'm a bit biased as I'm a real life forrin. An Eastern European even.

Tossing some darts in a generally eastern direction incase one of them hits - if you’ve got any pierogi, pelmeni, varenyky, manti or haluski then get over here, I’m a fiend for the dumplings!

PandoraSocks · 04/08/2025 21:15

LaundrySpin · 04/08/2025 20:54

A civil war here would entail thugs looting footlocker.

Did that in 2011.

Lonelycrab · 04/08/2025 21:16

rriffraff · 04/08/2025 21:10

At the moment it is 75% white british
Asian British 8.6%
Black British 3.71%

The non-white share will increase from 19.7 per cent to 34.8 per cent by 2050, 48.1 per cent by the year 2075 and to 59.3 per cent by 2100. The analysis suggested that the white population, including both white British and white other, would become a minority of the population in the year 2079.

I think that no one has a problem with migration but the speed of it over the last decade has been what has unsettled people.

by the year 2079

😂

Take it you’re not particularly up to speed on all the other factors that might influence the actual quality of our lives by then..

VintageMarket · 04/08/2025 21:17

happydappy2 · 04/08/2025 21:00

I don't understand how people are not more concerned about the fact white British children will grow up a minority in their own country. We are sleepwalking into becoming a muslim country, and our government isn't listening to valid concerns.

81.7% of the UK population is white.
94% of the UK population are not muslim.

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 21:17

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:12

@exhaustedandwholly

I live in an area where as a white British born person, I'm usually in a minority in local shops. My son was the only white (or white passing - he's 1/4th Caribbean) boy in his class at primary school from reception to year 6. There are two migrant hostels within a 20 minute walk from my home, and 4 mosques closer than that.

FWIW none of this has any impact on my quality of life, or my ability to enjoy what you might consider traditional British culture - music, literature, food, theatre. If I wanted to go to Church there are 5 Christian churches I could walk to.

Could you explain to me why you think that parts of the UK looking like this justifies racist riots? What's bad about the fact that the only people willing to take on the brutal hard work of opening a shop on our local high street are recent immigrants - because these shops need to stay open for 16 hours a day to make a profit.

You clearly think multicultural communities = terrible. As someone who lives in one, I don't agree.

Each to their own, I’d hate to live there.

pointythings · 04/08/2025 21:17

@rriffraff why does it matter to you whether or not people are white? Why is the colour of someone's skin important to you? Isn't that a bit... racist?

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:18

"The non-white share will increase from 19.7 per cent to 34.8 per cent by 2050, 48.1 per cent by the year 2075 and to 59.3 per cent by 2100. The analysis suggested that the white population, including both white British and white other, would become a minority of the population in the year 2079."

Why is that bad?

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:19

@NaicePeachJoker

Why?

Lonelycrab · 04/08/2025 21:21

pointythings · 04/08/2025 21:17

@rriffraff why does it matter to you whether or not people are white? Why is the colour of someone's skin important to you? Isn't that a bit... racist?

Yes we’re into some race purity bullshit now

Yes, it’s essentially racist, and the civil war that the op is worried about would only ever come into being, by everyone essentially being racist and kicking all the non English white people out.

And that isn’t going to happen, as thankfully as a country we are far better than that

NaicePeachJoker · 04/08/2025 21:22

Nasrine · 04/08/2025 21:19

@NaicePeachJoker

Why?

Why what?

AWitchCalledMeg · 04/08/2025 21:22

SerendipityJane · 04/08/2025 18:18

If we are talking about signs in shops.

What a thicko that protester with the placard is. If she had to choose between walking down a dark alley at night past a group of male reform voters or past a group of male refugees.. I think we all know which group she would take her chances with. What a virtue signalling, attention-seeking, privileged, naive, disingenuous twit.

Dymaxion · 04/08/2025 21:23

The non-white share will increase from 19.7 per cent to 34.8 per cent by 2050, 48.1 per cent by the year 2075 and to 59.3 per cent by 2100. The analysis suggested that the white population, including both white British and white other, would become a minority of the population in the year 2079.

54 years until they have 'supremacy' ? I wouldn't worry your pretty little head about it, you and me will be long gone, the planet will either be toast due to climate change or WWIII depending on which news channel you watch Wink

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