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AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 08:58

Dd has one of her artworks on exhibit at the Royal Scottish Academy’s Annual Open Exhibition. I don’t think I’m BU to be so proud of her, although IRL she doesn’t think it’s worth mentioning to friends! She’s the youngest in the show.
https://rubymitcham.com

AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
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Iloveasunnyday · 31/05/2025 20:08

Oh my days, that is incredible! You must be so, so proud. She has an amazing future ahead of her. Huge well done.

XWKD · 31/05/2025 20:08

The self portrait is particularly stunning.

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 31/05/2025 20:12

@TheeNotoriousPIG I don't mind you asking at all. She tried oil paints for the first time at age 15 and could just paint! The first painting she did was of her dad (on her website) and she's just taught herself pretty much since. She had 5 days at an atelier as a Christmas present too.

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CosyDenimShark · 31/05/2025 20:13

Oh my goodness, I thought that was a photo. Absolutely amazing talent!

SherlockHolmes · 31/05/2025 20:18

No wonder you're proud of her, what an amazing talent! Brag all you like OP!

Coffeemaster · 31/05/2025 20:36

She's amazing. I can't believe she's just 17! So talented. Such a bright future ahead.

Catladywithoutacat · 31/05/2025 20:39

That’s so good op I love art I’m a lot older than your daughter and would love this!

Goldusty · 31/05/2025 21:11

Proper talent and rare indeed. So nice to see this today.

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 31/05/2025 22:12

You are all so lovely; thank you!

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Motomum23 · 31/05/2025 22:44

Wow amazing! I have an aspiring artist daughter (13) and am in the tears stage of her thinking a fabulous portrait just isn't quite right. Your daughter should be very proud of herself!

healthybychristmas · 01/06/2025 00:23

She is incredibly talented. How exciting if she does get into an art school in Florence. Maybe it's time to look around for art scholarships. I'm sure there will be some around for people as talented as her.

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 01/06/2025 07:36

@Motomum23 Ah, I understand where you're coming from! Dd was advised at one point not to play her work down, as in 'it's rubbish', as it would make others feel worse and come across as disingenuous. But, we recognise now that there is a stage during most paintings where she doesn't think it's going well or hates it! At least, she can see now that it normally resolves. And we still disagree on one or two of her works, which are our favourites and her least favourites. Artists can be super critical of themselves and it must be so hard to have your work on display for everyone to critique. Good luck to your dd.

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Puddypuds · 01/06/2025 07:52

Wow!

MoistVonL · 01/06/2025 07:57

You are rightly proud of your talented girl - that’s absolutely amazing. I’d be shouting from the rooftops if I were you!

I hope your daughter realises how remarkable she is.

chillibuns · 01/06/2025 08:20

Wow. Incredible talent. Self taught as well. She’s obviously naturally talented. Congratulations to your daughter. You go right ahead and wear that proud mum badge with pride!

Ladyymuck · 01/06/2025 09:48

You’ve every right to be so proud! Your heart must be bursting. Your DD is an amazing and very talented artist. She has a bright future ahead of her Star

Dragonfly97 · 01/06/2025 09:58

Amazing, really talented, i hope she keeps up with this! She should be so proud of herself!

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 01/06/2025 10:42

Thank you all so much. This is her insta; so feel free to follow her. It won’t hurt having a few more followers when she applies for things 🙏🏽
https://www.instagram.com/ruby_mitcham?igsh=dnR5aHJ5ZWRmc29k

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/accounts/login/?next=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fruby_mitcham%2F%3Figsh%3DdnR5aHJ5ZWRmc29k&is_from_rle

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Ellmau · 01/06/2025 10:44

That's an outstanding painting regardless of age.

She has an exceptional talent.

Mary46 · 01/06/2025 10:50

Super op she so talented well done to her.

rainbowstardrops · 01/06/2025 10:51

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 01/06/2025 10:42

Thank you all so much. This is her insta; so feel free to follow her. It won’t hurt having a few more followers when she applies for things 🙏🏽
https://www.instagram.com/ruby_mitcham?igsh=dnR5aHJ5ZWRmc29k

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I’ve followed her on Instagram because her paintings are incredible!

Rosiepeta · 01/06/2025 12:03

Oh wow! Thats beautiful! Well done to her!

beetr00 · 01/06/2025 20:25

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beetr00 · 01/06/2025 20:27

Hidden? Why?

MNHQ, are gofund pages not allowed?