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AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 08:58

Dd has one of her artworks on exhibit at the Royal Scottish Academy’s Annual Open Exhibition. I don’t think I’m BU to be so proud of her, although IRL she doesn’t think it’s worth mentioning to friends! She’s the youngest in the show.
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AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
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KitTea3 · 31/10/2025 23:54

Why on earth would you be unreasonable??!!!

She's done amazing 😍 and you have every right to feel proud of her!

WishinAndHopin · 01/11/2025 00:26

Congratulations to your daughter, she's very talented.

It's good that it's "proper" art as well that everybody can appreciate, and requiring technical skill, rather than the funny shit that experts swoon over!

PigletIsWorried · 01/11/2025 03:10

She's absolutely astonishing OP - incandescently talented. No wonder you're proud, I would be bursting!

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 01/11/2025 09:42

Thank you everyone! @WishinAndHopin made the comment about ‘proper’ art - it seems very hard to find a Fine Art course at uni which aligns with this. But dd is, for the time being anyway, quite set against bananas on walls etc and has put quite a lot of effort in to connecting with more traditional artists and craftspeople. She’s just putting together her portfolio for uni and we have no idea how it will be received! There isn’t an obvious natural fit for after school, but we’ll see. Art schools now want to teach you how to think rather than any actual technical skills.

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WishinAndHopin · 02/11/2025 02:07

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 01/11/2025 09:42

Thank you everyone! @WishinAndHopin made the comment about ‘proper’ art - it seems very hard to find a Fine Art course at uni which aligns with this. But dd is, for the time being anyway, quite set against bananas on walls etc and has put quite a lot of effort in to connecting with more traditional artists and craftspeople. She’s just putting together her portfolio for uni and we have no idea how it will be received! There isn’t an obvious natural fit for after school, but we’ll see. Art schools now want to teach you how to think rather than any actual technical skills.

It's a real shame that art courses have been dumbed down like that. I hope she can find a proper course that is suitable. Best of luck for the future 💜

CamillaMacauley · 02/11/2025 06:02

Looking at her art I fear there’s not much a university lecturer could teach her about technical skills, I’d suspect she can paint better than a lot of lecturers.

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 02/04/2026 13:01

Hi all, I just wanted to give a little update on dd after all your lovely comments. She is thinking about uni a bit more and has an offer for Fine art at Edinburgh and direct entry to second year at Dundee. She didn’t apply to any where else in Scotland. She’s working on lots of A level coursework and has put commissions on hold until they’re finished, although she is doing a few photo sessions for future work. Maybe she will go to uni and just go crazy with her art and have some fun! If you’re in Edinburgh next month, she will have another painting hanging in the Royal Scottish Academy as part of their 200th annual open exhibition.

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Loobyloolovesandypandy · 02/04/2026 13:35

Such a lovely update. Congratulations to her and proud mummy. Nothing is as good as seeing your children achieving their hopes and dreams and enjoying life x

Thisisittheapocalypse · 02/04/2026 15:03

Brilliant update! Congratulations on her acceptances ... hope her A Levels go well.

HappyMamma2023 · 02/04/2026 15:06

Your daughter is very talented OP. You deserve to feel proud and so does she! Also lovely to have a positive post on here.

Silvercoconut · 02/04/2026 15:28

Wowzers amazing!!

BellissimoGecko · 02/04/2026 16:01

She is amazingly talented.

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