She ordered a Curry and hasn’t paid me

[OnePeachA]

Friend came to my house

I was going to cook but she asked if I fancied a curry. I said that would be really nice actually

Her JustEat app wasn’t working so I said have a look on mine for places that are open. She picked Indian.

I put everything I wanted in and she added hers. Total came to £52ish. Over 65% of that cost was hers.

I said I could just check out and sort it later. I have messaged to ask if she had the money today as a gentle reminder, and she said she thought it was my treat?

I said oh, we must have got crossed wires then. She said ‘I did cover the shop’

She went to the corner shop for wine and snacks. I got a Grape Fanta!

Where do I go from here? Leave it? Was it reasonable for her to assume it was in fact my treat?

Yeah, right. I’ll be crowned Miss Butlins 2025 before that happens.

Oh bore off!

How dare you call my eating habits questionable!

How dare I call your weight loss group a shaming group, I don’t believe you’re successful at all.

i think you’re talking absolute hog wash!

Define successful please

And you think I’m feeling ashamed for some reason (never done anything in my life I’ve been ashamed or guilty for, can you say the same?)

You thing that’s the way to deal with people who may feel “ashamed”, but it’s not me!

Self praise is no recommendation!

I haven't a clue what you eat and I doubt you and I will ever be sharing a meal in the same company so.... Why do you think I'm having a go at your eating habits?

I really want a curry with rice, naan bread and a poppadom now.

Explain what would indicate a successfuo weightloss group?

No thank fuck, you’d never be welcome at my table!

One of the best typos I’ve seen 😂

Someone who can spell
successful?

@Masmavi; Yeah, I'm sure her Just Eat app is all sorted out by now, and if not, she'll simply pay the delivery guy with all the shillings and farthings she hasn't able to take into the bank.

No answer then, cool.

Here listen, why don't you take another trawl through my old posts on other threads, see can you find anymore where I mentioned traumatic old life events and stick some more laughing emojis on them.

But please understand I could not give a damn what you or any other posters eat. Once everyone is happy with themselves that's all that counts. But please don't be idiotic enough to not realise that massive portions are contributing to the huge increase in obesity levels.

Damnit I was really hoping to attend that banquet thing with you on Thursday, I'm sure you and your mates are brilliant craic.

For someone who doesn’t care, you’ve spent a long time going on about it! And still continue, I don’t care BUT (insert another lecture)!

Boring!

Are you fat shaming me or Nigella? I do enjoy my food!

I'm saying this kindly, because I'm totally willing to believe you don't care what people eat, if you say so....
But. Dozens of posts saying you don't care what people eat (followed by mentions of blinkers, what is "normal" and frequent mentions of obesity) doesn't have the devil may care effect you're probably going for. If you're trying to give the impression that you don't care... Less is usually more.

I don't have any judgemental feelings about what people eat. Most people think they are doing the right thing. Definitely most people are trying to do the right thing by themselves.

I work with obese people everyday who are struggling so much with their own self esteem, physical restrictions etc.

I feel strongly about how society's new norms are making it harder and harder for most people to avoid ending up obese.

Please stop typing

Pretty please

Could we draw a line under this now and leave some room for OP to return and give us the conclusion many of us are still here for?

Although, I'm almost done waiting to be honest

Edited for typo's

I'm not fat shaming anyone. Nigella is gorgeous. Lucky you if you do look like her.

I also am not going for a devil may care attitude @jenrobin It's an anonymous forum, maybe other posters really get concerned with how they are received. If that's you then please don't project the same viewpoint into me.

I'm still waiting for you to explain what constitutes a successful weightloss programme. It shouldn't be a difficult question given you don't believe I'm running one.

I’m now going to disengage, because you’re becoming obsessive!

Hope you can deal with your obsession with food, it’s obviously a massive trigger for you.