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Alltheyearround · 05/11/2024 16:11

CabraCadabra · 14/10/2024 21:09

Most children who are abused and killed are in school/nursery. This isn't a home schooling issue.

Agree. Too often the signs are hidden in plain sight.

Chowtime · 11/11/2024 21:30

Yes all 3 of them were basically doing whatever they wanted to Sara. I can imagine what the uncle was doing. I pray they all go to prison for life.

Alltheyearround · 11/11/2024 21:51

Well, he's an absolute delight. isn't he?

Poor Sara, she was let down by so many people. What a short and dreadful life.

Good long prison sentences. let's hope, so they can reflect on their sins.

Almost makes me want to believe in Hell so they can go and have the roasting they deserve. Excuses for human beings.

Jukeboxjive · 11/11/2024 22:10

So he allegedly attacked three women before including putting a belt around one's neck.
Sarah was under a protection order the moment she born, he had the police called by three women several times and yet for some reason he moves onto his next partner has 4 more children and Sarah was left totally unprotected??

Inspite of 3 women claiming he was abusive, physically mentally and financially (he withheld bank cards) he was awarded custody of sara and her brother???

They noted when he visited her, she flinched when he hugged her.

I wonder what happened to the families child benefit and I wonder if batoul is his cousin and whether that arrangement came with money??
He's a gambler.

Chowtime · 11/11/2024 22:25

Maybe the person in authority who made the decision to award custody of Sara and her brother needs to be investigated.

I mean, what motive could you have for giving him custody?

MulinoDarco · 11/11/2024 23:22

"Mr Sharif was arrested for assaulting Olga and another child, which he dismissed as "false allegations".
The they put Sara with him, after three women complained about abuse.

I'm disgusted at this system.

howrudeforme · 12/11/2024 00:12

It is also reported on the guardian that previous girlfriends were Polish nationals and he married Olga when his student visa was due to expire.

he married to get uk nationality I bet. He does not come across well at all - rather a person who feels he’s very entitled.

Peonies007 · 12/11/2024 08:26

Can now be shared. Google translated from polish

Jesus Christ will this never end [Content warning: concerns child abuse]
Lalgarh · 12/11/2024 14:17

MulinoDarco · 11/11/2024 23:22

"Mr Sharif was arrested for assaulting Olga and another child, which he dismissed as "false allegations".
The they put Sara with him, after three women complained about abuse.

I'm disgusted at this system.

And he was still working as a cab driver, presumably BC he wasn't charged.

Jukeboxjive · 12/11/2024 19:00

" female social workers said he was coercive and abusive towards them"

😱.

He deliberately went to Poland to find someone to marry sw were concerned olga was vulnerable and may have learning difficulties.
He took an 18 year old passport and held a knife to her

Why oh why the fuck is this piece of utter scum in the UK?? He's even secretly married someone's else in Pakistan!!

Will he get deported??

Jukeboxjive · 12/11/2024 19:04

@Peonies007 this is mind boggling all this and yet it doesn't seem there was any involvement after sara living there?

I wonder, was this because he went to "good parenting classes"?????????????????

And looked like he was playing ball and didn't want to look people up in rooms or strangle them with a belt or put petrol on them?? He wanted to learn about nutrition and be a good dad.

Peonies007 · 12/11/2024 20:10

Jukeboxjive · 12/11/2024 19:04

@Peonies007 this is mind boggling all this and yet it doesn't seem there was any involvement after sara living there?

I wonder, was this because he went to "good parenting classes"?????????????????

And looked like he was playing ball and didn't want to look people up in rooms or strangle them with a belt or put petrol on them?? He wanted to learn about nutrition and be a good dad.

I would think there must have been SS involvement all throughout. I think if Sara was subject to child protection at birth, normally all the other kids would be checked on by SS too at their birth. I might be wrong but that's my understanding.
GP also sent him to anger management classes but he didn't complete them.

Jukeboxjive · 12/11/2024 20:12

But when the school reported the family it didn't seem like they knew about any sw involvement and sw closed the case

If that's so how did this man get left to run free with all those children.

If sw were involved then how did they miss such abuse

hotpotlover · 12/11/2024 20:13

Peonies007 · 12/11/2024 20:10

I would think there must have been SS involvement all throughout. I think if Sara was subject to child protection at birth, normally all the other kids would be checked on by SS too at their birth. I might be wrong but that's my understanding.
GP also sent him to anger management classes but he didn't complete them.

You're absolutely right - the stepmum would have to disclose to the midwife that there was previous ss involvement with her stepdaughter.

But maybe she didn't disclose it, so it fell under the radar that the father of her children was HIM.

Peonies007 · 12/11/2024 22:29

hotpotlover · 12/11/2024 20:13

You're absolutely right - the stepmum would have to disclose to the midwife that there was previous ss involvement with her stepdaughter.

But maybe she didn't disclose it, so it fell under the radar that the father of her children was HIM.

Oh yes, she might have done that. As it's a different mother so the SS file (I presume hospitals have access to data about SS involments?) probably wouldn't cover it.

Peonies007 · 12/11/2024 22:33

Jukeboxjive · 12/11/2024 20:12

But when the school reported the family it didn't seem like they knew about any sw involvement and sw closed the case

If that's so how did this man get left to run free with all those children.

If sw were involved then how did they miss such abuse

Eould much doubt they didn't know. They moved but only down the road, 5 miles or so. Still same SS office.
We were maliciously referred several times and each time SS wanted to check medical records, they had history of previous referrals (all from SEN dept of council 🙄), so it's linked well. They wanted to confirm parental details, so presume he would have flagged as risk.

Noodlepots · 13/11/2024 08:44

This case is genuinely sickening. I wish all the perpetrators a slow and painful death.
How dare they treat a child in such an appalling way.

TheTwirlyPoos · 13/11/2024 11:32

He's confessed and taken full responsibility but it wasn't his bite marks was it.

Peonies007 · 13/11/2024 12:40

TheTwirlyPoos · 13/11/2024 11:32

He's confessed and taken full responsibility but it wasn't his bite marks was it.

He confessed to everything apart from burn and bite marks

Lalgarh · 13/11/2024 12:50

Supposedly he got custody of sara after she was filmed (by him) stating her birth mum burned her and smoked cannabis .

Et voila

Peonies007 · 13/11/2024 12:53

Lalgarh · 13/11/2024 12:50

Supposedly he got custody of sara after she was filmed (by him) stating her birth mum burned her and smoked cannabis .

Et voila

maybe she (Sara) was threatened if she didn't say that.

Lalgarh · 13/11/2024 12:56

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Didn't he also have a marriage ceremony to a cousin? I'm assuming that's not her if he didn't already know her

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