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Totally disgusted by those rioting in Southport

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Bex5490 · 30/07/2024 22:18

Southport has experienced the most unbelievable tragedy.

Their emergency services had to respond to probably the most traumatic calls they’ve ever had, yet tonight they are being attacked by thugs?

The latest is that these people are destroying people’s homes to get bricks with which to throw at the police.

I am heartbroken, bewildered and disgusted. How dare they destroy the homes of that grieving town.

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DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:53

Lentilweaver · 31/07/2024 16:51

@SincerelyTabi OK. @DecusCulinae has since clarified that she believes in immigration, just not immigration from some countries. I am not the one being superior here.@

I believe in strict profiling and rigid border control force, as I’ve pointed out above. Nothing to do with countries religions or immigration in general.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:53

The worst murder rate in UK is NI. I can confidently assert that that isn't to do with the lack of integration of immigrants from Asia, Africa or wherever one wants to point the finger.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:55

justasking111 · 31/07/2024 16:48

Sounds like some football supporters always looking for a fight.

The common denominator being that they're mostly male.

That's exactly who they are!

Football is v expensive and tightly policed these days so this is the new hooliganism/ p* bashing etc

SincerelyTabi · 31/07/2024 16:57

I will leave this thread now as it's just pointless arguing. The rent a mob has done everyone a huge disservice. Racism is always wrong, stirring up hatred against any group is unintelligent. Toxic masculinity seems the biggest problem, the common denominator, no matter what umbrella it comes under. I wish we could deal with that.

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 16:59

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:40

Croatia, Malta, Poland, Norway, Slovakia and Slovenia, Switzerland - all have significantly lower rates of knife crime and killings. And apart from Croatia, all have insanely low number of migrants from Middle East and Africa.

you might not like my country, it’s freezing there during winters and sweltering hot in summers. Maybe that’s why they left to France…

Bit disingenuous to sing the praises of your utopian home but refuse to say where it is. Nowhere is perfect, if you don't want us to pick holes in your story just say that.

Omlettes · 31/07/2024 17:03

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:30

I am mystified. The worst countries have very low immigration ( obviously US aside). Scotland and Ireland are doing well, England and Wales still the 142nd worst, similar to many EU countries. Marginal differences at the better end of the list. You can't read immigration easily into actual rates. Some people might examine rises , and changes in crime types.

Ireland is not doing well with immigration at all.
The numbers are far too high for the population and infrastructure to absorb so quickly. You cant have already forgotten the riots after the same kind of atrocity in Ireland, just months ago
www.theguardian.com/world/2023/nov/23/dublin-knife-attack-children-stabbing-ireland-parnell-square

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 17:12

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 16:59

Bit disingenuous to sing the praises of your utopian home but refuse to say where it is. Nowhere is perfect, if you don't want us to pick holes in your story just say that.

Swiss obv. Just to add some data on crime, because Switzerland publishes it and well. I’ve already added it to another forum but out of interest.
When crossing the number of people arrested on droit pénal charges with the amount of foreign population by nationality in Switzerland, it turns out that the crime rate (arrested people over the total population in the country of that nationality) by nationality is:

Algérie 84.59%
Maroc 18.48%
Nigéria 11.79%
Tunisie 7.06%
République dominicaine 4.25%
Afghanistan 4.14%
Cameroun 4.12%
Irak 4.06%
Somalie 3.38%
Brésil 2.96%
Congo (Kinshasa) 2.74%
Syrie 2.70%
Érythrée 2.21%
Türkiye 2.20%
Roumanie 2.09%
Iran 1.98%
Kosovo 1.91%
Serbie 1.89%
Bosnie et Herzégovine 1.64%
Slovénie 1.59%
Macédoine du Nord 1.57%
Sri Lanka 1.49%
Bulgarie 1.44%
Croatie 1.43%
Slovaquie 1.27%
Portugal 1.18%
Hongrie 1.16%
Tchéquie 1.14%
Thaïlande 1.12%
Espagne 1.12%
Italie 0.98%
Pologne 0.92%
France 0.88%
Autriche 0.86%
Allemagne 0.84%
Russie 0.82%
Pays-Bas 0.63%
Grèce 0.61%
Chine 0.56%
Royaume-Uni 0.42%

Swiss' crime rate would be around 0.6%.
Since there are huge differences between different nationalities, I can only assume that the correlation with poverty does exist but there is also something else, as the differences in poverty are probably not as large as the difference in crime rates. These are my assumptions though
A small footnote: for nationalities with small populations the percentage can vary a lot from year to year. One main trend that always appears, however, is the strong crime rates of people issued from the 3 maghreb countries.
Another small footnote: the data also includes breach of refugee law, but law nonetheless.

Code pénal (CP) : Personnes prévenues selon le sexe, l'âge, le statut de séjour et la nationalité - 2009-2022 | Tableau | Office fédéral de la statistique

https://www.bfs.admin.ch/bfs/fr/home/actualites/quoi-de-neuf.assetdetail.24368362.html

ASimpleLampoon · 31/07/2024 17:13

EDL should be proscribed as a terrorist group and banned. There should be severe sentences for taking in part in their events.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/07/2024 17:18

...Public needs to be manipulated to keep order...

The riots are a direct result of the public being manipulated into spreading lies and creating disorder. Every person who spread Russian lies about the suspect is responsible for creating division, pain, terror and a shit load of damage. They allowed themselves to be manipulated by Putin and told themselves they were doing it for their country.

Putin's useful fucking idiots!

bombastix · 31/07/2024 17:20

@DecusCulinae would you be the poster a while back with another goady attitude to race? I think you got deleted under another name but also declared themselves to be Swiss

AngelusBell · 31/07/2024 17:22

SallyWD · 31/07/2024 14:46

I just find accounts like this incredible. 80% of my children's friends are from ethnic minorities and we've never experienced anything like this. We have sleepovers and play dates with our Muslim friends, birthday parties. They have pets too!
I wouldn't say your experience pf Asian neighbours is typical.

I have Muslim friends who own cats. Dogs are considered haram unless they are working dogs such as guide dogs.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 17:24

bombastix · 31/07/2024 17:20

@DecusCulinae would you be the poster a while back with another goady attitude to race? I think you got deleted under another name but also declared themselves to be Swiss

I’m the one who told you above the story about my Azerbaijani friend and no, never been deleted of MN 😊 don’t play racism card in me, I’m sharing statistics and experience growing up in another country with a Muslim friend.

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 17:31

AngelusBell · 31/07/2024 17:22

I have Muslim friends who own cats. Dogs are considered haram unless they are working dogs such as guide dogs.

not haram! lol. how can a living creature be haram

dogs can be kept as pets as well as working dogs. Just their saliva is considered dirty so they are normally kept outdoors. in warmer Muslim countries it us common to have dogs but because it's cold here and dogs can't be kept outdoors, many uk Muslims don't grow up with dogs and hence end up being anxious around them

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 17:33

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 17:12

Swiss obv. Just to add some data on crime, because Switzerland publishes it and well. I’ve already added it to another forum but out of interest.
When crossing the number of people arrested on droit pénal charges with the amount of foreign population by nationality in Switzerland, it turns out that the crime rate (arrested people over the total population in the country of that nationality) by nationality is:

Algérie 84.59%
Maroc 18.48%
Nigéria 11.79%
Tunisie 7.06%
République dominicaine 4.25%
Afghanistan 4.14%
Cameroun 4.12%
Irak 4.06%
Somalie 3.38%
Brésil 2.96%
Congo (Kinshasa) 2.74%
Syrie 2.70%
Érythrée 2.21%
Türkiye 2.20%
Roumanie 2.09%
Iran 1.98%
Kosovo 1.91%
Serbie 1.89%
Bosnie et Herzégovine 1.64%
Slovénie 1.59%
Macédoine du Nord 1.57%
Sri Lanka 1.49%
Bulgarie 1.44%
Croatie 1.43%
Slovaquie 1.27%
Portugal 1.18%
Hongrie 1.16%
Tchéquie 1.14%
Thaïlande 1.12%
Espagne 1.12%
Italie 0.98%
Pologne 0.92%
France 0.88%
Autriche 0.86%
Allemagne 0.84%
Russie 0.82%
Pays-Bas 0.63%
Grèce 0.61%
Chine 0.56%
Royaume-Uni 0.42%

Swiss' crime rate would be around 0.6%.
Since there are huge differences between different nationalities, I can only assume that the correlation with poverty does exist but there is also something else, as the differences in poverty are probably not as large as the difference in crime rates. These are my assumptions though
A small footnote: for nationalities with small populations the percentage can vary a lot from year to year. One main trend that always appears, however, is the strong crime rates of people issued from the 3 maghreb countries.
Another small footnote: the data also includes breach of refugee law, but law nonetheless.

This is so disingenuous . You shared a Wiki page and that was murder rates.

Switzerland is an exceptional (ist) country On many ways.

I still don't believe it has had zero stabbings.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 17:34

By the way, Switzerland isn't in the EU.

The Swiss football team seemed rather successfully multi ethnic .

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 17:37

Bur, also, waaaait. Isn't Royaume Uni rather beautifully low on your list? Unless I am misunderstanding it.

I know a bit about this stuff and the UK as an entity doesn't have crime figures so not sure where your Swiss list is garnering it's stats from.

Paul2023 · 31/07/2024 18:04

ErrolTheDragon · 31/07/2024 09:00

In this case the term seems to be correctly applied. Why don't you want it used?

Because being right wing doesn’t mean you have to be violent or resort to mob rule.

Like being left wing doesn’t mean you have to do extreme things either , including violence.

These were just mindless thugs who wanted a fight..

TheDogIsInCharge · 31/07/2024 18:15

Uricon2 · 31/07/2024 11:30

Muslims are the current favourite target of the far Right but it has been and could be again Sikhs/Hindus/anyone black/Eastern European/Jewish (not an exhaustive list)

Basically, anyone who doesn't conform to their narrow, blinkered definition of "white Britishness" and provides the excuse to hate and riot. This stuff is not new and has not just been going on since 9/11.

So true.

Back when I was 11 we moved to London from Scotland and ended up on an exclusively white council estate not far from the upper regions of Ladbroke Grove. If you know what that area is like you'll know how unusual that is but my dad, who had extensive professional dealings with the RBKC, knew that they zoned their estates, keeping the more scummy ones for non white residents and Irish families.

A huge number of people we came in to contact with on that estate were fully fledged members of the National Front and/or British Movement. Skins would zeig heil in the youth club disco or the terrace of Queen's Park Rangers. They had swastika tattoos. They hated everyone who wasn't white English. Everyone - including us, because despite being British we weren't Engerlish from Engerland. Me, my parents and even grandparents when they came to visit, were told to fuck off back home many times. They had no time for education, most teens leaving school before exams. Jobs were manual labour or shops. There was a lot of petty theft, things fell of the back of a lorry, lots of violence. My mum once met one of the skins heading off "down the lane to beat up some cxxxs." Apologies for the language but that it what it was like day in, day out. Even my so-called friends would tell me I'd be deported when the National Front got in. They were vile and we were all very happy to escape from there.

I thought people like that had died out or been shamed into hiding their extreme racism. I remember watching a pathetic EDL march going past a friend's balcony in London and there were about 6 desperate skins surrounded by police being ridiculed by passers by. This was the early 2000's.

But no - they were all just keeping their nasty racist views on hold until they could be blatant. Thanks to Nigel, Lawrence, Tommeh etc they are out and proud. These people blame every little miserable thing in their life on immigrants, on black people, on Indian and Pakistani people, on Eastern European people, on Jews... you name it. They. Hate. Everyone. Everyone who isn't white and English. It isn't their lack of education, ignorance and criminal behaviour that's stopping them becoming a success, buying a house, getting a job...it's all the immigrants.

There was no talking to them back then - believe me my dad tried, he ran the local community centre, offered all sorts of fabulous events, courses, club, music, sports, art nights etc. He ended up having to ban so many of them for blatant racism and violence. Every time I see images of rioting white men like those we saw yesterday, I get such a visceral reaction because I know what they are like and I'm a white Brit. I cannot imagine what it must be like if you're not and have to deal with those scum. I'd rather live next to a hundred immigrants than people like that.

Scirocco · 31/07/2024 18:20

AngelusBell · 31/07/2024 17:22

I have Muslim friends who own cats. Dogs are considered haram unless they are working dogs such as guide dogs.

Dogs aren't haram.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 18:30

TheDogIsInCharge · 31/07/2024 18:15

So true.

Back when I was 11 we moved to London from Scotland and ended up on an exclusively white council estate not far from the upper regions of Ladbroke Grove. If you know what that area is like you'll know how unusual that is but my dad, who had extensive professional dealings with the RBKC, knew that they zoned their estates, keeping the more scummy ones for non white residents and Irish families.

A huge number of people we came in to contact with on that estate were fully fledged members of the National Front and/or British Movement. Skins would zeig heil in the youth club disco or the terrace of Queen's Park Rangers. They had swastika tattoos. They hated everyone who wasn't white English. Everyone - including us, because despite being British we weren't Engerlish from Engerland. Me, my parents and even grandparents when they came to visit, were told to fuck off back home many times. They had no time for education, most teens leaving school before exams. Jobs were manual labour or shops. There was a lot of petty theft, things fell of the back of a lorry, lots of violence. My mum once met one of the skins heading off "down the lane to beat up some cxxxs." Apologies for the language but that it what it was like day in, day out. Even my so-called friends would tell me I'd be deported when the National Front got in. They were vile and we were all very happy to escape from there.

I thought people like that had died out or been shamed into hiding their extreme racism. I remember watching a pathetic EDL march going past a friend's balcony in London and there were about 6 desperate skins surrounded by police being ridiculed by passers by. This was the early 2000's.

But no - they were all just keeping their nasty racist views on hold until they could be blatant. Thanks to Nigel, Lawrence, Tommeh etc they are out and proud. These people blame every little miserable thing in their life on immigrants, on black people, on Indian and Pakistani people, on Eastern European people, on Jews... you name it. They. Hate. Everyone. Everyone who isn't white and English. It isn't their lack of education, ignorance and criminal behaviour that's stopping them becoming a success, buying a house, getting a job...it's all the immigrants.

There was no talking to them back then - believe me my dad tried, he ran the local community centre, offered all sorts of fabulous events, courses, club, music, sports, art nights etc. He ended up having to ban so many of them for blatant racism and violence. Every time I see images of rioting white men like those we saw yesterday, I get such a visceral reaction because I know what they are like and I'm a white Brit. I cannot imagine what it must be like if you're not and have to deal with those scum. I'd rather live next to a hundred immigrants than people like that.

Sadly, they are the children and grandchildren of the men you encountered .

You missed Tate off your list of inciteful charmers.

TheDogIsInCharge · 31/07/2024 18:30

Lentilweaver · 31/07/2024 12:33

How many generations would you like people to live here to be British, I wonder?

according to many of the racists I grew up with, you needed three generations of white English to make you a proper English person... I think they were quoting some British movement bollocks at the time. Of course the British movement lovers actually hated other Brits who were't English...

MissAmbrosia · 31/07/2024 19:25

SallyWD · 31/07/2024 14:46

I just find accounts like this incredible. 80% of my children's friends are from ethnic minorities and we've never experienced anything like this. We have sleepovers and play dates with our Muslim friends, birthday parties. They have pets too!
I wouldn't say your experience pf Asian neighbours is typical.

My dd's primary school had probably 40% Muslim children. They came to parties and sleepovers and I just didn't do Haribo and checked re lunch whether pasta or fish fingers were fine etc like I would for anyone. And there was no issue whatsoever. Sounds like extrapolating one possibly awkward family to all "asians" Her secondary school had 40 different native languages I think. Racism and xenophobia is a barrier to people integrating for the most part. I am an immigrant elsewhere and appreciate that it IS hard to get fully integrated. I try though. If people were constantly slagging me off for watching the BBC and seeking proper sausages it would hardly encourage me. My daughter though not born here is full on local.

Uricon2 · 31/07/2024 19:37

TheDogIsInCharge · 31/07/2024 18:15

So true.

Back when I was 11 we moved to London from Scotland and ended up on an exclusively white council estate not far from the upper regions of Ladbroke Grove. If you know what that area is like you'll know how unusual that is but my dad, who had extensive professional dealings with the RBKC, knew that they zoned their estates, keeping the more scummy ones for non white residents and Irish families.

A huge number of people we came in to contact with on that estate were fully fledged members of the National Front and/or British Movement. Skins would zeig heil in the youth club disco or the terrace of Queen's Park Rangers. They had swastika tattoos. They hated everyone who wasn't white English. Everyone - including us, because despite being British we weren't Engerlish from Engerland. Me, my parents and even grandparents when they came to visit, were told to fuck off back home many times. They had no time for education, most teens leaving school before exams. Jobs were manual labour or shops. There was a lot of petty theft, things fell of the back of a lorry, lots of violence. My mum once met one of the skins heading off "down the lane to beat up some cxxxs." Apologies for the language but that it what it was like day in, day out. Even my so-called friends would tell me I'd be deported when the National Front got in. They were vile and we were all very happy to escape from there.

I thought people like that had died out or been shamed into hiding their extreme racism. I remember watching a pathetic EDL march going past a friend's balcony in London and there were about 6 desperate skins surrounded by police being ridiculed by passers by. This was the early 2000's.

But no - they were all just keeping their nasty racist views on hold until they could be blatant. Thanks to Nigel, Lawrence, Tommeh etc they are out and proud. These people blame every little miserable thing in their life on immigrants, on black people, on Indian and Pakistani people, on Eastern European people, on Jews... you name it. They. Hate. Everyone. Everyone who isn't white and English. It isn't their lack of education, ignorance and criminal behaviour that's stopping them becoming a success, buying a house, getting a job...it's all the immigrants.

There was no talking to them back then - believe me my dad tried, he ran the local community centre, offered all sorts of fabulous events, courses, club, music, sports, art nights etc. He ended up having to ban so many of them for blatant racism and violence. Every time I see images of rioting white men like those we saw yesterday, I get such a visceral reaction because I know what they are like and I'm a white Brit. I cannot imagine what it must be like if you're not and have to deal with those scum. I'd rather live next to a hundred immigrants than people like that.

This is absolutely right, I saw very similar growing up in the Midlands and TBH, I should have acknowledged that it isn't really "Britishness" but "Engerlishness"

I've done a lot of family history and gone many, many, generations back on many lines. I have yet to find an ancestor from anywhere more far flung than Yorkshire (I live in hope) and I probably have "White English Person" going through me like a stick of rock, but I absolutely do not share the views of people who hate someone for being " different" and I abhor their actions. We all came here from somewhere, some more recently than others, and the thing that makes me proud to be English is the sense of inclusion, welcome and fairness that usually prevails somehow.

Anyone citing their black/Jewish/Muslim family members and friends while making veiled racist comments, perhaps out of anxiety or fear, know this. The Far Right mean them, all of them. They make no distinctions other than the ones they choose to apply, which makes all of those you like or love lesser in their eyes. They don't care if someone's Jewish great grandparents escaped a progrom in 1880, or a Sikh family needed refuge from Idi Amin, or a kid from Syria crossed the Channel last week. All hated just the same. That needs to be remembered.

Waffle78 · 31/07/2024 19:51

justasking111 · 31/07/2024 14:41

It's so difficult we live in a cul de sac of ten. Nine white Welsh families. Then a mixed race Asian family moved in at first everything seemed fine, but slowly we realised our Welsh children aren't welcome to play in the cul de sac.

Five of us have dogs and cats which are considered disgusting 💩 on four legs

. A couple of properties have come up for sale at prices that they think ridiculous, they'd have bought if they'd been cheaper.

Their oldest went to the local secondary and hasn't excelled like his cousins elsewhere. So he's in trouble. They're very critical of our Welsh schools which ain't perfect I'll admit.

My grandchildren play with them at school but are shunned by them when they visits us. Very confusing for a six year old. They're lovely kids but not allowed to birthday parties or play dates ever.

They are just so angry about everything these days. We're all walking on eggs here.

But honestly we haven't done anything.

So because you know one family like this that means all immigrants are the same does it? I'm sure there are white British families similar to what you are describing. It's basically like saying all white British dog owners don't pick up after their dog's.

justasking111 · 31/07/2024 20:00

Waffle78 · 31/07/2024 19:51

So because you know one family like this that means all immigrants are the same does it? I'm sure there are white British families similar to what you are describing. It's basically like saying all white British dog owners don't pick up after their dog's.

You really can't fix.....

We are a multi cultural family ourselves 🙄

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