To ask if you would date a guy who...

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• Has visited a brothel in the past and paid for services?
• Does recreational drugs with friends every few months (weed, MDMA, mushrooms, coke)
• Has a cross dressing fetish?

Interested to hear others thoughts on the above points to help me move on from being dumped by this guy.

YABU - Yes. I'd date him.
YANBU - No. You've dodged a bullet.

I'd snap him up. 🙄

Oops pressed wrong one. Absolutely not OP

No. No. No.

you’ve dodged a bullet.

I have dated men in the past who smoked weed but that was at Uni.
The brothel thing would be a no for me.
The cross dressing would depend on what and when.

Easiest no ever.

He sounds like a total catch.

What a prize.

I’m genuinely concerned that you feel the need to even ask! Is your bar really that low?

Each of those in complete isolation would be an automatic no. Absolutely no thought process required.

I mean this in the nicest possible way… but the F is wrong with you?!! Just look at the list you have written - no need to ask randoms on the internet

Trash took itself out didn't it. Byeeee.

Brothel... as long as it was in the distant past, then it would not bother me.
Drugs... once every few months would not bother me. If it was regularly, then yes. I have gone out with weed smokers, and they are so boring.
Cross dressing... as long as it was not when we were out together, then I would not care.

But that is me though. I most certainly have my own red flags, so I tend not to judge too much.

No to all three.

The brothel would be it for me, that’s a hard no - wouldnt even get to the other two (which are less nasty but still not for me).

He'll no

Good grief woman

Jeeze. Absolute no. Raise your standards, he sounds like the dregs of humanity.

No, sorry.

Daily Mail slow news day?

Not for me but it's whatever floats your boat and what future you are wanting

The drugs one, depending on which drugs and how often, would not put me off. But I'm from a country where it's legal.
The other 2 things hard no.
All 3 in the same man - run OP.

Is this a bad joke?

I wouldn't consider him if he were literally the last man on earth. Your bar must be through the floor.

I’d cross the street to avoid for the first two points, the cross dressing wouldn’t bother me

I'd run a mile. And I can't run!

HE dumped you?
Wtf.