Husband & lapdance

[Thatwagon]

Husband on xmass party night ..wouldnt tell be before he left if he would be home ..stayed out all night..home at 7am .i was not happy straight away went to his pockets aside from all the drink receipts i found 2 cards for a private dance .
He says he cant remember being there but knows he did nothing wrong.
How can he not remember being there but know he did nothing wrong.?
I dont think he would have told if i didnt confront him.
I feel so sick angry about it all.
Its more the lies and not remembering and trying to convince me he did nothing wrong thats killing me.
We rowed ...we talked all at mine insistence he hasnt tried at all and im just so sick of him I cant look at him without picturing him with a lapdancer .
Please tell me what you would do in my shoes I have no one to talk to in real life and im really struggling.
Thanks in adavance.

Men like this are one level above brothel crawlers/punters.

And you do wonder of they might go in that direction too. Since they feel entitled to buy sexual titillation and sexual services. Like a burger on a drunken night out.

Talk about making a drama out of a crisis.

I'd think he was a pathetic excuse of a man.

Isn't that the whole point of AIBU?

Don't you DARE try to bring OP sex life into this!! There is NO excuse for this behaviour, it's ALL on him!

Well done on valuing yourself OP, it would be a deal breaker for me. Grubby, evasive and rather pathetic.

If he was a decent man and if he was having problems with his sex life, he would discuss it with his wife not pay for a bloody lap dance.

I can't believe someone is blaming his wife for this. What next it's ok for him to have an affair?

Society is programmed to blame women for everything,