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To ask you to show me your normal home…

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:53

Fed up with the Instagram showing perfect homes, when the real world is much messier..: so show me your normal homes… here’s my messy (and a bit dated) kitchen

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:56

Oh..: and I’d recommend a name change before posting lol

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wakeupandsmellthehoumous · 22/12/2023 12:56

Mine's way messier than the norm and when I take pictures inside the house of family etc I actively avoid showing the background. Pictures of inside my house are going nowhere near social media 😭 ( I'm working on the mess)

wakeupandsmellthehoumous · 22/12/2023 12:57

I think your kitchen looks nice and I think it's a good idea for a thread 🙂

readymealeater · 22/12/2023 12:58

What annoys me about my home is that is is very, very old and all the woodwork seems a bit battered and knocked up. So I could clean all damned day (I don't, btw) and it would still look a state.

So depressing!

SantaBallsack · 22/12/2023 13:00

I think your kitchen has nice character OP 😊

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 13:01

readymealeater · 22/12/2023 12:58

What annoys me about my home is that is is very, very old and all the woodwork seems a bit battered and knocked up. So I could clean all damned day (I don't, btw) and it would still look a state.

So depressing!

This is pretty much my problem with the kitchen. I think it dates back to the early 90s or late 80s. Completely different cupboards in each side of the kitchen. It was probably height of fashion when it was put in. It’s very practical though

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Changeofusernameforthis · 22/12/2023 13:06

My home isn't Insta-staged, ever, but it is usually tidy and visitor ready.

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ItsNotaCabbage · 22/12/2023 13:06

Lovely idea but I am too ashamed to share. I avoid social media as I am so jealous of people’s perfect homes. My home is tatty and dated because I can’t afford to do anything about it. It’s actually a nice house but needs so many cosmetic improvements. I have been doing it room by room but it’s a long term project because of the crazy costs. My hallway is papered with horrible textured wallpaper but if I strip the paper the plaster will come off. It’s a huge and expensive project.

I am saving to do it and am so jealous of people who can just pay to get this stuff sorted.

Ironlights · 22/12/2023 13:07

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:53

Fed up with the Instagram showing perfect homes, when the real world is much messier..: so show me your normal homes… here’s my messy (and a bit dated) kitchen

See I'd have way more stuff on top of the cupboards!

Toooldtoworry · 22/12/2023 13:07

@Changeofusernameforthis that is lovely.

Freefree · 22/12/2023 13:09

I will upload a pic of one of my rooms a little later, not home yet.
I like both those kitchens, love the dark blue of the second pic and I love ops pic as seems like a busy family kitchen where lots goes on

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:11

I'm making a beef and ale pie and had leftover broccoli and Stilton soup

I am not a tidy cook

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MyChristmasUsername · 22/12/2023 13:13

OP is probably well intentioned so not wanting to shame them for the post. But please everyone stop sharing the inside of your houses on the internet. Seriously not safe. No matter how anonymous you think this might be, you can never be sure what happens to data in the future. Once it’s out there it’s there forever.

Changeofusernameforthis · 22/12/2023 13:15

Toooldtoworry · 22/12/2023 13:07

@Changeofusernameforthis that is lovely.

Thank you 😊. I do love my kitchen, I think that's why I tend to keep it so tidy. It has a table and seating area at the other end which I spend most of my time in (hardly use the sitting room) and I'm not very good at relaxing if a room is untidy.

BoobyDazzler · 22/12/2023 13:15

Mines such a mess I couldn’t possibly post pictures of it 🤣

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:17

The other end of the kitchen

injave lots of mismatched rugs and old bath mats down for my old pug who struggles on the hard floor otherwise

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CrashingCymbals · 22/12/2023 13:18

This is the view from my sofa right now. The other side of the room is much worse!

We're lucky that we have a front room which is where we host guests, and I do keep that as visitor ready as possible. The kids toys still end up creeping in though!

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therealcookiemonster · 22/12/2023 13:19

of course. I post a picture of my 'normal' home and next thing I know, all my cookies are gone. no thanks.

Wisterical · 22/12/2023 13:21

Just go visit your friends and family OP 🤷🏻‍♀️

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:21

@CrashingCymbals I try to keep one room separate but it doesn't really work 😂

Isthatascratchonmygrandmother · 22/12/2023 13:25

Glad I looked through before posting mine. I was expecting 'in the style of Barbara Royle' kitchens 🤣

Elphame · 22/12/2023 13:28

Mine is was put in the 1970s and would probably fill most here with horror.

Natsku · 22/12/2023 13:34

Elphame · 22/12/2023 13:28

Mine is was put in the 1970s and would probably fill most here with horror.

I don't think mine has been changed or decorated since the 60s so I don't think yours would fill me with horror!

IClaudine · 22/12/2023 13:38

IfWhenWhyWhat I like your kitchen. Where is it from, if you don't mind sharing?

Icelandic9 · 22/12/2023 13:45

God my house is messier than all of these 😆

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