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To ask you to show me your normal home…

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:53

Fed up with the Instagram showing perfect homes, when the real world is much messier..: so show me your normal homes… here’s my messy (and a bit dated) kitchen

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FreshWinterMorning · 22/12/2023 13:47

There's no way on God's Earth that I am going to post actual photos of my house - also CBA to namechange. But this is pretty much what my home looks like @Noseyneeps (pics taken from google!)

Well, the lounge, kitchen/diner anyway. I think my home is 'normal.' Nice though. Smile

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PianPianPiano · 22/12/2023 13:47

MyChristmasUsername · 22/12/2023 13:13

OP is probably well intentioned so not wanting to shame them for the post. But please everyone stop sharing the inside of your houses on the internet. Seriously not safe. No matter how anonymous you think this might be, you can never be sure what happens to data in the future. Once it’s out there it’s there forever.

How is it not safe? I'm trying to think of what someone could do with a photograph of my kitchen that would be deemed unsafe? Even if they could somehow figure out where I lived, what could they do with that information?

TempyBrennan · 22/12/2023 13:49

I love real homes 😊

Comedycook · 22/12/2023 13:50

I love this thread....all my friends have perfect Instagram homes...and are constantly renovating. I love a normal house

FreshWinterMorning · 22/12/2023 13:51

MyChristmasUsername · 22/12/2023 13:13

OP is probably well intentioned so not wanting to shame them for the post. But please everyone stop sharing the inside of your houses on the internet. Seriously not safe. No matter how anonymous you think this might be, you can never be sure what happens to data in the future. Once it’s out there it’s there forever.

Yeah this. Shame - as I think the OP has posted this with good/pure intentions. But as I said - no way am I posting pics of my actual own home. Sorry @Noseyneeps Flowers

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:51

@IClaudine no problem its from howdens 😊

Themermaidspool · 22/12/2023 13:51

Not at home but absolutely love your kitchen!! So much more fun!!

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 13:53

Changeofusernameforthis · 22/12/2023 13:06

My home isn't Insta-staged, ever, but it is usually tidy and visitor ready.

It’s beautiful!!!

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DilemmaDelilah · 22/12/2023 13:54

This is my kitchen. I love it! Definitely not staged otherwise I would have shut all the drawers - and you can't see the washing up I haven't done yet.
I was 60 before I got the kitchen I wanted - and we don't have children at home which helps!

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 13:55

Ironlights · 22/12/2023 13:07

See I'd have way more stuff on top of the cupboards!

I’m very small. So can’t reach up there. DH puts chocolates up there so I can’t reach

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SweetFemaleAttitude · 22/12/2023 13:55

I am baffled by the posters thinking photo's of someones kitchen, could be used nefariously.

So that way of thinking, means Rightmove, where it names the actual street you live on, should not exist, or in fact, any estate agents if that's the case 😂😂

Warwickshireisnice · 22/12/2023 13:58

SweetFemaleAttitude · 22/12/2023 13:55

I am baffled by the posters thinking photo's of someones kitchen, could be used nefariously.

So that way of thinking, means Rightmove, where it names the actual street you live on, should not exist, or in fact, any estate agents if that's the case 😂😂

Hah true !

IClaudine · 22/12/2023 13:59

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:51

@IClaudine no problem its from howdens 😊

Thanks!

DilemmaDelilah · 22/12/2023 14:00

@Ironlights when I designed my kitchen I specified that the top cupboards should go up to the ceiling - just so that it was not possible to put anything on top of them! It makes it look so much tidier.....
And - I am very proud to say that over the last week we have been going through all the cupboards and drawers, sorting things out, reorganizing and cleaning. I'm feeling very virtuous 😁

Anjelika · 22/12/2023 14:00

Great idea for a thread. So refreshing to see normal homes! I'm sick of seeing the too good to be true ones. How anyone lives like that I'll never know. Even without 3 kids my house wouldn't look like some of them do.

StarlightLime · 22/12/2023 14:01

FreshWinterMorning · 22/12/2023 13:47

There's no way on God's Earth that I am going to post actual photos of my house - also CBA to namechange. But this is pretty much what my home looks like @Noseyneeps (pics taken from google!)

Well, the lounge, kitchen/diner anyway. I think my home is 'normal.' Nice though. Smile

Why would you post that?!

JustEatTheOneInTheBallPit · 22/12/2023 14:01

I’m really sorry about all of the mess, but you know what it gets like at this time of year.

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BewareTheBeardedDragon · 22/12/2023 14:02

🤣

Mumof2NDers · 22/12/2023 14:03

DilemmaDelilah · 22/12/2023 13:54

This is my kitchen. I love it! Definitely not staged otherwise I would have shut all the drawers - and you can't see the washing up I haven't done yet.
I was 60 before I got the kitchen I wanted - and we don't have children at home which helps!

Beautiful kitchen 😍. I now have kitchen envy! X

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 14:04

JustEatTheOneInTheBallPit · 22/12/2023 14:01

I’m really sorry about all of the mess, but you know what it gets like at this time of year.

very fancy!

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Mumof2NDers · 22/12/2023 14:05

My kitchen currently looks like a tornado he’s ripped through it. I wouldn’t mind but I had a day off work yesterday and blitzed it!

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 14:05

DilemmaDelilah · 22/12/2023 13:54

This is my kitchen. I love it! Definitely not staged otherwise I would have shut all the drawers - and you can't see the washing up I haven't done yet.
I was 60 before I got the kitchen I wanted - and we don't have children at home which helps!

Ooh! Very pretty! And much tidier than mine 😂

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 14:07

IfWhenWhyWhat · 22/12/2023 13:11

I'm making a beef and ale pie and had leftover broccoli and Stilton soup

I am not a tidy cook

Ah! This is gorgeous! But also v normal mess!

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Soontobe60 · 22/12/2023 14:08

MyChristmasUsername · 22/12/2023 13:13

OP is probably well intentioned so not wanting to shame them for the post. But please everyone stop sharing the inside of your houses on the internet. Seriously not safe. No matter how anonymous you think this might be, you can never be sure what happens to data in the future. Once it’s out there it’s there forever.

Dont be daft! What about people selling their homes?

Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 14:09

Other angles of the kitchen. As you can see, cupboards and worktops don’t match. Despite that, I do love my kitchen. It’s a great kitchen to cook in. And when friends come over we seem to spend all our time drinking tea in it

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