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One for the ladies.. my first Hollywood wax was horrendous

144 replies

minty7 · 19/09/2023 16:47

I thought my pain threshold was okay. I’ve had microblading, lip fillers, nose piercing.. but I’ve never felt pain like it.

I went for a Hollywood this morning and ended up getting an extended bikini wax because I couldn’t stand the pain any longer! I gave up. It honestly made me nearly cry and she wasn’t even at the worst bit yet. She did mention that because I had shaved last week, it’ll be more sensitive and also because my period was also last week.

It still really really hurts now and it feels burny/really uncomfortable.

OP posts:
Fallingthroughclouds · 19/09/2023 19:37

LookingForPurpose · 19/09/2023 18:44

@NowWhattt

The ring of stragglers/ public hair around your anus.

I wonder at what point do you decide you are going to make a career out of waxing strangers arseholes?

snackatack · 19/09/2023 19:38

Is a hollywood worse than armpit waxing (I tried doing that myself in lock down.. owww)

Daniki · 19/09/2023 19:40

First one is defo the worst especially if you've shaved recently as the hair is so course! It does get better I promise! But if you shave normally and have dark hair I'd recommend laser

ohpoowhatnow · 19/09/2023 19:49

It doesn't get any better ! Well maybe fractionally. I took two cocodamol once beforehand and that didn't even take the edge of 😂

NowWhattt · 19/09/2023 20:01

Fallingthroughclouds · 19/09/2023 19:37

I wonder at what point do you decide you are going to make a career out of waxing strangers arseholes?

😁😁😁😁

NowWhattt · 19/09/2023 20:05

LookingForPurpose · 19/09/2023 18:44

@NowWhattt

The ring of stragglers/ public hair around your anus.

Fucking hell , I’ve had my legs crossed and have now got my arse clenched.

Nah… I will stick to shaving my fanjo as that waxing pain is something that I am not prepared to endure.

NowWhattt · 19/09/2023 20:07

ohpoowhatnow · 19/09/2023 19:49

It doesn't get any better ! Well maybe fractionally. I took two cocodamol once beforehand and that didn't even take the edge of 😂

Shit.

It was bad enough getting my eyebrows waxed for my wedding.

Lastchancechica · 19/09/2023 20:09

NowWhattt · 19/09/2023 20:05

Fucking hell , I’ve had my legs crossed and have now got my arse clenched.

Nah… I will stick to shaving my fanjo as that waxing pain is something that I am not prepared to endure.

😂😂🤣🤣

Hanitiser · 19/09/2023 20:11

Yes. Horrendous.

I really, really tried with this but it did not improve. At. All.

I trim and tidy now. Used to shave but honestly can't be arsed with the itch/upkeep.

Lastchancechica · 19/09/2023 20:11

LookingForPurpose · 19/09/2023 18:44

@NowWhattt

The ring of stragglers/ public hair around your anus.

At certain age it becomes a halo 😇 🩶

bryceQ · 19/09/2023 20:13

The itching from shaving makes me want to cross my legs. I find waxing so fast and easy and it's blissfully smooth for ages

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 19/09/2023 20:18

I have been considering having some sort of pubic wax for many years (I just shave/trim intermittently) but threads like this I think have put the final nail in the coffin of that idea!
I've left it alone for a while now because I'm going grey down there now, and it looks a bit like a badger.

dontchaknow · 19/09/2023 20:22

When I first shaved it did itch the first few times. But not any more. In fact it itches when I skip shaving now.

NowWhattt · 19/09/2023 20:24

bryceQ · 19/09/2023 20:13

The itching from shaving makes me want to cross my legs. I find waxing so fast and easy and it's blissfully smooth for ages

I don’t do a bad job of shaving to be fair and luckily I get no itchy regrowth because I shave daily.

I would love to have a completely smooth fanjo but am just not brave enough to go through the pain of waxing.

Notellinganyone · 19/09/2023 20:25

Seriously why bother? Madness.

roastytoastysnowballs · 19/09/2023 20:26

A lot of it is down to the waxer

I can have a normal conversation with my waxing lady at all times

Once she went to Peru for a month..

I went to someone else

I still don't like talking about it

Lorieandrews · 19/09/2023 20:28

I had one done the other week and I didn’t feel it. Though I had c sections and walked within two hours.

I just think some women have less painful nerves there (that’s how the dr explained it! I had cellulitis in the same place and didn’t even feel or notice that either)

cardibach · 19/09/2023 20:31

Fillers always look shit (don’t give me any of your ‘you don’t know you’ve seen a good one’ bollocks). Waxing is totally unnecessary.
Don’t do any of it.
Problem solved.

Thindog · 19/09/2023 20:36

It is just fashion causing pain.
Years ago women plucked their eyebrows bald and sported full pant beards. Now it's the other way round.
People are odd.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 19/09/2023 20:37

Is a Hollywood much more painful than having just the bikini line done? I've never had a hollywood or any kind of professional wax, but I semi often wax my bikini line myself, with wax strips. I've never taken painkillers before doing so and I wouldn't actually describe the sensation as painful. I assume a hollywood must be much worse?

cardibach · 19/09/2023 20:39

BIossomtoes · 19/09/2023 19:01

It made me cry on the first occasion I had it done. Fortunately my bloke hated it and I never had to go back.

Sorry - are you saying if your bloke had liked you unnaturally hairless you would have continued doing something so painful it made you cry?

PermanentTemporary · 19/09/2023 20:41

I absolutely love the feel of post-waxing sex so I do it. I fully accept that it's a fashion choice I make in a patriarchal and porn-soaked culture. I can analyse the shit out of it but I still like it atm.

FirstTimeNameChanger · 19/09/2023 20:45

I am feeling indicated in my life choices never to wax off my pubes! Or shave them! Or sleep with men who would dare to express a preference about my pubic hair!
Seriously, try just leaving it alone. Sooooo much better than paying someone to rip out your pubic hairs

MartyFunkhouser · 19/09/2023 20:48

Once you go there, it’s hard to go back to hair.

My husband couldn’t give a fig. I do it for me. And oral sex which is on another level when there’s no hair.

MCOut · 19/09/2023 20:50

It might just be that you had a bad experience at this particular salon. I’m usually stick to hot wax unless I need it done quickly and then I’ll go for strip. I’m quite bad with pain but it genuinely is much better than I assumed it was going to be.

Only one did I have a Hollywood that was absolutely terrible. It was painful during the treatment and I felt like I had been burnt afterwards. I never went back to that salon again and have had no problems since

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