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To say it’s “cliquey” not “clicky”

222 replies

Fortunesmiles · 25/05/2023 08:14

Just that, really. I keep seeing things like “the parents at school are very clicky” - no! They form cliques, not clicks. Not normally one to comment on this stuff, but that one really makes me cringe!

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Pocketfullofdogtreats · 25/05/2023 09:50

@DemonicCaveMaggot Queue is basically a Q with a load of other random letters queuing up behind it :)

crackofdoom · 25/05/2023 09:51

demoniccavemaggot oh god, that gives me a flashback to when I used to live somewhere with "Quay" in the name 😬. Your kids have something in common with every call centre operative in the kingdom.

Outwiththenorm · 25/05/2023 09:52
Snapping West Side Story GIF by HBO Max

I always imagine the group described strutting about like this

AlecTrevelyan006 · 25/05/2023 09:54

Oddly I can recall the exact moment I first heard someone say ‘click’ rather than ‘clique’ - it was said by Jade Goody on Big Brother. I remember at the time thinking ‘what is she going on about’?

TrickyD · 25/05/2023 10:09

French pronunciation:
There used to be an advertisement for some potion made in ‘Laboratoires Garnier Paris’. DS used to complain that if you wanted Laboratoires you should be consistent and pronounce it Paree.

MsRosley · 25/05/2023 10:13

We've been infected by the US pronunciation. They say click instead of cleek.

OrderOfTheKookaburra · 25/05/2023 10:15

Don't be daft, this is MN, on here they're not cliques, they're quiches.... 🤣

Gawd, that brings back memories from many years ago!

ostentatiousocelot · 25/05/2023 10:24

I was really confused the first time I heard someone pronounce it"click"! But can't bring myself to pronounce paella correctly, even though I happily say choreetho...there is no logic sometimes. confused

Here's mine, though - how do you pronounce trough? Trow, or troff?

caffelattetogo · 25/05/2023 10:25

It always makes me think that the speaker/writer has been left out of a group because they are not very bright or socially aware and are bitter about it. In real life, I don't think cliques exist, they are just groups with things in common.

Cherryblossoms85 · 25/05/2023 10:25

I used to annoy my American boyfriend I didn't really like by deliberately pronouncing quesadilla wrong, with the L's like Dillon. Every time he'd be like "you know that's a Spanish word, right? They pronounce that differently and you should learn that" followed by long and boring droning on about the difference in pronunciation between Spain and south America, as if that was new and specialist information.

WuTangGran · 25/05/2023 10:36

ostentatiousocelot · 25/05/2023 10:24

I was really confused the first time I heard someone pronounce it"click"! But can't bring myself to pronounce paella correctly, even though I happily say choreetho...there is no logic sometimes. confused

Here's mine, though - how do you pronounce trough? Trow, or troff?

Easy! Rhymes with cough, lough, bough, sough, dough, and though.

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 25/05/2023 11:01

ostentatiousocelot · 25/05/2023 10:24

I was really confused the first time I heard someone pronounce it"click"! But can't bring myself to pronounce paella correctly, even though I happily say choreetho...there is no logic sometimes. confused

Here's mine, though - how do you pronounce trough? Trow, or troff?

There was an episode on The Apprentice (I think) where they all talked about pie-ay-ay. The anglicised pronunciation is definitely preferable.

My favourite different American pronunciation is boo-ey for buoy. Grin

OrderOfTheKookaburra · 25/05/2023 11:22

@WuTangGran
Easy! Rhymes with cough, lough, bough, sough, dough, and though.

You're having a laugh aren't you? They don't all rhyme!!!

OrderOfTheKookaburra · 25/05/2023 11:23

@ostentatiousocelot - it's troff of course!

OrderOfTheKookaburra · 25/05/2023 11:25

I once had a Canadian friend just about bite his tongue off proving to me that paw, pore, pour and poor were all pronounced very differently. Idiot....

Frenulumetta · 25/05/2023 11:34

Who bloody cares I say tomato u say tomatoe you say cliques I say twats

Esgaroth · 25/05/2023 11:35

Cherryblossoms85 · 25/05/2023 10:25

I used to annoy my American boyfriend I didn't really like by deliberately pronouncing quesadilla wrong, with the L's like Dillon. Every time he'd be like "you know that's a Spanish word, right? They pronounce that differently and you should learn that" followed by long and boring droning on about the difference in pronunciation between Spain and south America, as if that was new and specialist information.

😁

Napoleon Dynamite - Fix Yourself a Dang Quesadilla!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poO2BsVGdIU

mondaytosunday · 25/05/2023 11:41

It's pronounciation. Some people pronounce clique as click. Like niche: neeshh or nich

AlecTrevelyan006 · 25/05/2023 11:59

Pronunciation.

IAmTheWalrus85 · 25/05/2023 12:22

I think it might be because they aren’t aware of the word ‘clique’ and think ‘clique-y’ is related to ‘clicking with’ someone.

Handsnotwands · 25/05/2023 12:24

I might be bias but they’re very clicky

pandarific · 25/05/2023 12:30

I had an ex boyfriend who once pronounced Givenchy as ‘ga-venchy’

crackofdoom · 25/05/2023 12:32

pandarific But that's the proper pronunciation!

Nordicrain · 25/05/2023 12:32

bellac11 · 25/05/2023 08:17

I think its because generally people in the UK dont pronounce 'foreign' origin words in the accent in which they are spoken, so people dont say clique, they say click

People dont say choritho, they say choritso

So people think its spelt that way

Personally I cant stand it when words are said with the accent of the country of origin, it sounds ridiculous but then it will lead to people misunderstanding how to spell them

You hate foreign words being pronouced they way they ought to be pronounced? How odd.

pandarific · 25/05/2023 12:36

@crackofdoom really?? I’m 100% sure I’ve watched some of their perfume ads and it’s sounded like ‘Ji-vin-chi’.

I’ll have to go look now.

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