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To say it’s “cliquey” not “clicky”

222 replies

Fortunesmiles · 25/05/2023 08:14

Just that, really. I keep seeing things like “the parents at school are very clicky” - no! They form cliques, not clicks. Not normally one to comment on this stuff, but that one really makes me cringe!

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poetryandwine · 25/05/2023 21:12

I’ve never seen ‘paninos’ advertised. That’s sort of sweet but I would also just order something else.

If it were not for the many weirdnesses of the British class system (from which I as a foreigner seem to be somewhat exempt), I probably wouldn’t care so much about the Anglo

poetryandwine · 25/05/2023 21:15

premature post

…..I wouldn’t care so much about the silly Anglophone lisping. But in the context of the many, many class signifiers here it simply feels like a cheap attempt at one upmanship. That sounds ridiculous to anyone with even a basic level of Spanish.

Fairislefandango · 25/05/2023 21:21

I’ve never seen ‘paninos’ advertised. That’s sort of sweet but I would also just order something else.

Regardless of whether they are listed as 'paninos' on the menu, what do you say if you are ordering two of them?

CharlottenBurger · 25/05/2023 21:28

Tinybrother · 25/05/2023 20:51

I think it’s a speed thing a lot of the time. If you don’t have a particular sound in your everyday speech, then even if you can do it and aren’t for some reason embarrassed by it it’s likely quicker in speech to use a sound you use more frequently, especially as you are still well understood.

That's exactly it. If you don’t have a particular sound in your everyday speech. When you're learning a language, one of the key things is practice, practice, practice! For fluency among native speakers, immersion is important, the longer the better, 6 months is a reasonable starting point. I remember how hard it was to get the 'r' sound in French, or rather, as near as an English person can hope for.

CharlottenBurger · 25/05/2023 21:31

poetryandwine · 25/05/2023 21:12

I’ve never seen ‘paninos’ advertised. That’s sort of sweet but I would also just order something else.

If it were not for the many weirdnesses of the British class system (from which I as a foreigner seem to be somewhat exempt), I probably wouldn’t care so much about the Anglo

You don't see 'spaghettos' advertised either. The French don't worry themselves about stuff like this. They are quite happy to print spaghettis on menus.

Tinybrother · 25/05/2023 21:49

CharlottenBurger · 25/05/2023 21:28

That's exactly it. If you don’t have a particular sound in your everyday speech. When you're learning a language, one of the key things is practice, practice, practice! For fluency among native speakers, immersion is important, the longer the better, 6 months is a reasonable starting point. I remember how hard it was to get the 'r' sound in French, or rather, as near as an English person can hope for.

I don’t think you necessarily have to do that though if you don’t want to - when using eg the word loch as someone with an English accent I mean. I am half French and half British (bilingual) and i don’t expect people speaking English with an English accent to practise saying words that have been adopted into English like “croissant” in a French accent when everyone knows what they mean anyway

poetryandwine · 25/05/2023 23:18

In my region the use of the word ‘panino’ is very uncommon. This makes me sad. You have to order ‘a panini’ or be thought weird, unless you are European, and even then you risk a misunderstanding. If I want more than one, I order ‘X panini’ but I think most people order ‘X paninis’.

Trivium4all · 25/05/2023 23:39

Being fluent in several languages, I agonise about this sort of thing more than strictly necessary. It really bugs me to deliberately mispronounce words, or mess up grammar, in order to fit with standard English use, but on the other hand, switching languages for pronunciation or grammar is like moving from one place in my brain to another and feels pompous if it's just for one word. It's very frustrating! I tend to switch anyway more often than not, because I'm a bit tired of my name being chronically mispronounced, and because I'm a bit tired of monolingual anglophones appearing to make no effort (even though they probably are). I also recognise that this isn't rational!

AmateurDad · 25/05/2023 23:47

What Addams family song? What are you talking about?

AmateurDad · 26/05/2023 00:07

Have you been living on Mars? Everyone always said “I’m well”
until about five years ago when “I’m good” suddenly sprang up. To my ears it’s just as awful now as it was then

AmateurDad · 26/05/2023 00:10

Wrong. Its “Nn-doo-yah”

AmateurDad · 26/05/2023 00:11

Gules-means-red, for one. Post above yours

VonThorn · 26/05/2023 01:42

I remember a MN thread years ago which exploded into a massive argument about how to pronounce 'croissant.'

Half the thread thought anyone pronouncing it 'Cwahsohn' or something similar were pretentious arseholes. The other half were genuinely baffled about how else you could possibly say it. I mean, it's not an English word. You could go for 'Croy Sant' just to be bloody minded, but why on earth would you?

Classic MNGrin

Mother87 · 26/05/2023 07:27

thecatsthecats · 25/05/2023 08:18

It's no wonder they're excluded from the clique if they can't even say it right!

GrinGrin

AgnesX · 26/05/2023 07:37

JadedTeal · 25/05/2023 20:38

Jalapeño?

😄 Don't hear that one enough to get too wound up. Have to say it in my head before saying it out loud!

ChocolateRaisin09 · 28/05/2023 19:10

Saw this and thought of this thread 😂

To say it’s “cliquey” not “clicky”
Ameanstreakamilewide · 28/05/2023 19:11

I saw that recently and it took me 10 minutes to figure out what the bloody hell 'colon' was supposed to be.

CabernetSauvignon · 28/05/2023 19:15

I still haven't figured it out. Enlighten me?

Ameanstreakamilewide · 28/05/2023 19:16

She means 'cologne'.

CharlottenBurger · 28/05/2023 21:36

Ameanstreakamilewide · 28/05/2023 19:16

She means 'cologne'.

Remember the episode of 'Dinner Ladies' when one of the ladies tries on her new perfume, and she rushes up to the maintenance man and asks 'Can you smell my Charlie?'. I still miss Victoria Wood.

CharlottenBurger · 28/05/2023 21:38

Ameanstreakamilewide · 28/05/2023 19:16

She means 'cologne'.

Are you sure about that? 😀

Ameanstreakamilewide · 28/05/2023 21:44

I know that with Twitter, you never can tell!

But, the only reason i know is because the Tweet was part of a big thread with other people making similar comments. And after about 10 minutes, the context fell into place.

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