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To say it’s “cliquey” not “clicky”

222 replies

Fortunesmiles · 25/05/2023 08:14

Just that, really. I keep seeing things like “the parents at school are very clicky” - no! They form cliques, not clicks. Not normally one to comment on this stuff, but that one really makes me cringe!

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noodlezoodle · 25/05/2023 09:11

Clicky is the US pronunciation so presumably it's from watching US shows programs.

Porridgeislife · 25/05/2023 09:14

Chorizo isn’t the best example. There’s 2 broadly different ways to pronounce chorizo and both are correct depending on where you learnt to speak Spanish. Not all accents use a “tho” sound for z.

CurlewKate · 25/05/2023 09:15

Maybe "click" is a special
Mumsnet word for "group of people who have made an effort to be friendly to each other and chat how very dare they anyway I can't stand small talk so I'm better than them they are just mundanes and anyway I prefer the company of men they are so much more interesting." Yes, I can see why a short form would be convenient.

Tidsleytiddy · 25/05/2023 09:16

People genuinely believe the word is “click”. They’ve never heard of the word “clique”. That comes with never having read much

Tidsleytiddy · 25/05/2023 09:17

Clique would be pronounced “cleek” and not “click”

5foot5 · 25/05/2023 09:18

ShinyPikachu · 25/05/2023 08:22

I love when people say clicky because I imagine the group being like bats when they use clicks for echolocation. It's a lot more fun that way. 😁

Apparently reindeer make a clicking sound when they walk. Tendons snap over bones in their feet, and that's what makes the click. Experts think the clicking helps the members of a herd stay in contact, especially in snowstorms or, say, when it's foggy.

boomshakalakaboom · 25/05/2023 09:19

'We was' instead of 'we were'

Grinds my gears

CosyCoffee · 25/05/2023 09:20

I personally refuse to pronounce anything with a foreign accent. Hence I get my clothes from a booty-cue and go dancing at the disco-the-cue.

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 25/05/2023 09:23

There are so many examples on SM -
I don't no what too do.
The nobs on the cooker
And as for all the apostrophes sprinkled in plurals...
Yes, people don't read, but also they're ignorant because they're not taught. I worked in a school and the school reports had to be proofread because half the teachers couldn't spell. I blame autocarwreck too - it just wanted me to put teacher's.

Lemme · 25/05/2023 09:24

I find this fascinating. So you don’t like how some people pronounce it. Why? Because it’s irritating to you that they don’t know how to pronounce it ‘properly’? Looking underneath, what’s that about? Would you feel ashamed if you mispronounced it? Why is that? What do you think it would say about you? Presumably it’s misspelt through ignorance. Well, whose fault is that? Should we judge people because they didn’t have the same education as us? Or because they pronounce it as their friends do and that’s annoying because maybe you don’t like that demographic? Or maybe you don’t like change.

I say all this as someone who used to HATE people replying to ‘how are you’ with ‘I’m good’ instead of ‘I’m well’. In the end I got over myself because communication is important and I figured that as long as I understood what they meant, that’s what mattered, rather than shoving my prejudices and judgements in the way.

Tidsleytiddy · 25/05/2023 09:26

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 25/05/2023 09:23

There are so many examples on SM -
I don't no what too do.
The nobs on the cooker
And as for all the apostrophes sprinkled in plurals...
Yes, people don't read, but also they're ignorant because they're not taught. I worked in a school and the school reports had to be proofread because half the teachers couldn't spell. I blame autocarwreck too - it just wanted me to put teacher's.

Shocking but unsurprising. Makes my blood boil especially when correct spelling and grammar used to be so important

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 25/05/2023 09:26

@Lemme

I have never ever heard of "I'm well" being the socially correct answer to how are you! If you're good you're good- what's wrong with saying that?!

AllMyExesWearRolexes · 25/05/2023 09:27

Earlier this week I saw on MN a post in which the writer was temporarily short of funds & decided she would have to "porn" something...

bussteward · 25/05/2023 09:29

AllMyExesWearRolexes · 25/05/2023 09:27

Earlier this week I saw on MN a post in which the writer was temporarily short of funds & decided she would have to "porn" something...

Makes me want to ball.

CharlottenBurger · 25/05/2023 09:30

bellac11 · 25/05/2023 08:17

I think its because generally people in the UK dont pronounce 'foreign' origin words in the accent in which they are spoken, so people dont say clique, they say click

People dont say choritho, they say choritso

So people think its spelt that way

Personally I cant stand it when words are said with the accent of the country of origin, it sounds ridiculous but then it will lead to people misunderstanding how to spell them

English people saying 'choritzo' really grinds my gears! Where does the 't' come from???? You can say chorreezo or choreetho depending on what kind of Spanish you want to use. Do they think it's Italian, like 'chorizzo'?

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OCarumba · 25/05/2023 09:31

ShinyPikachu · 25/05/2023 08:22

I love when people say clicky because I imagine the group being like bats when they use clicks for echolocation. It's a lot more fun that way. 😁

😁😁

Tidsleytiddy · 25/05/2023 09:32

AllMyExesWearRolexes · 25/05/2023 09:27

Earlier this week I saw on MN a post in which the writer was temporarily short of funds & decided she would have to "porn" something...

I saw that!! What a sign of the times, alas

5foot5 · 25/05/2023 09:33

Wrongsideofpennines · 25/05/2023 08:51

I literally had this conversation with my husband this week.

I think its like people pronouncing nougat as nugget, and gillet with a hard g and t.

I love a hard g and T. Bit early in the day yet though.

Growing up I thought nougat was pronounced nugget because that's what my parents said. I think probably they had only seen it written down and never heard it said by anyone who knew the correct pronunciation. We only had it at Christmas anyway do it wasn't a big deal

Divorcedalongtime · 25/05/2023 09:34

Hasn’t that words morphed though? I know people used to say clique but now all I hear is click.
language change, it doesn’t bother me

JuneShitfield · 25/05/2023 09:35

I've heard chorizo pronounced a couple of ways (by Spanish people) — chor-eeth-o and hor-eeth-o. (On the second one there's ever such a slight soft digraph (is that the right word) emphasis on the start, so it's not a pure H sound. But close enough and definitely not a hard 'tch'.)

Tidsleytiddy · 25/05/2023 09:35

It bothers me because I know they’ve never seen the word written. They’re just repeating what they think the word is

OCarumba · 25/05/2023 09:36

SoShallINever · 25/05/2023 08:58

How does one pronounce Nduja?

Nnn duja

JuneShitfield · 25/05/2023 09:38

With some people it's low confidence I think. I used to know someone who spent a lot of time in Barcelona, but would pronounce all the areas and metro stops Englishly and literally the way they were spelled. Verdageur and Eixample were both particularly mangled.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 25/05/2023 09:44

The DC pronounced quay as kway for the longest time because they had only seen it written and never heard it pronounced. It was always port, harbor or dock in the US so it never came up.

I don't know what they made of 'queue'. I think they just backed away in horror from that one.

English is a tough language to learn.

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