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What’s all this about Facebook sending a friend request to anyone whose profile you’ve viewed?!

212 replies

fbnono · 12/05/2023 21:22

I am the worst for looking up people on Facebook and have done so several times in the last 48hrs. Just heard there was a glitch where Facebook was firing friend requests to anyone’s profile who you’ve visited! Can anyone confirm if this has happened to them before I panic?! 😂

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Malificent1 · 13/05/2023 06:37

I got a request yesterday from a friend of an acquaintance.

chocolateandvanillaicecream · 13/05/2023 07:01

Oh god this is bad. I did loads of stalking yesterday of people that I really wouldn't want them to know I'd looked! I can't see that any have been sent but I suppose they might have just rejected the friend request so it wouldn't show up anymore. I was on the desktop version on the computer, not the app on my phone- does this make any difference?

Toooldtoworry · 13/05/2023 07:06

Hellocatshome · 12/05/2023 21:35

It was only for a small period of today but is very much true. Unfortunately during that small window I checked out the Facebook page of teenage sons very new not really official girlfriend 🙈 we are now friends because she accepted. DS will hit the roof when he finds out.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I did the same thing, and it's not something I would normally do. She also accepted, as did her Mum 😳

Ironically it turns out her Mum has known my Mum over 20 years, so that was a happy coincidence because they've just got engaged.

LT2 · 13/05/2023 07:10

I had 5 people that I had apparently friend requested. I don't think I went on all their profiles though! They were all people in my 'people you may know'. I think I looked at one or two of them only.

PinkButtercups · 13/05/2023 07:31

Oh crikey!

I'm glad I didn't go on fb yesterday as I was busy but I looked someone up this morning quickly. Just had to double check it didn't add them as a friend. It didn't. Phew.

Newgolddream70 · 13/05/2023 07:36

hattie43 · 13/05/2023 05:45

It's happened to me . I friend requested my plumber Confused. Looking at my connections It's also happened before over the years to people I've never heard of .

😂

SmellyNelliey · 13/05/2023 07:38

Yes and she's messaged me asking why I've sent her a request...ive blocked her...she's the ex's 3rd baby mum who's only in her teens 😳 I'm mortified more at the ex doesn't see DD and hasn't for 9 years!! Yet he's put getting teens pregnant 🤰 🙄

OhmygodDont · 13/05/2023 07:51

QueefofSheena · 12/05/2023 23:17

This is why you need a separate account for stalking. My stalker account is a guy about 20 years younger in a town about 3 hours away whose account is totally locked down. Not that I’m weird or anything 🤣

I have a personal account and a nosey account too 😂

DdraigGoch · 13/05/2023 07:54

Just here for an update from @Hellocatshome

Sunflowers80 · 13/05/2023 07:58

OhmygodDont · 13/05/2023 07:51

I have a personal account and a nosey account too 😂

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I used to but after this I wouldn't trust facebook to glitch this and make it known who we are 🤣 I haven't had one for years though, this was when I was serious ex stalker. Over that one now.

AnneBerlin · 13/05/2023 08:08

I'm surprised I haven't seen anything about this anywhere else!

I just went back on the profile of someone who accepted my accidental friend request yesterday, and saw that we are no longer friends. I assumed she'd removed me as my add was a bit weird, I don't really know her. When I went to check I hadn't added anyone else, the activity log said it was me who unfriended her! Which I definitely hadn't. So it appears that accidental unfriending is also a thing, unless it was FB trying to "undo" the glitch 🤔

kessiebird · 13/05/2023 08:17

It's taken off my new friend this morning and the activity log states 'Kessiebird removed (friend) as a friend' I didn't remove her!

Also a very random person who is a mutual friend of dsis was requested by me! I definitely didn't click on her profile, no idea who she is.

BillyNoM8s · 13/05/2023 08:37

kessiebird · 13/05/2023 08:17

It's taken off my new friend this morning and the activity log states 'Kessiebird removed (friend) as a friend' I didn't remove her!

Also a very random person who is a mutual friend of dsis was requested by me! I definitely didn't click on her profile, no idea who she is.

Yep. I also "added" some randoms that I definitely didn't click on. They were friends of friends so I think the glitch was possibly worse than they've confessed to.

Toooldtoworry · 13/05/2023 08:43

AnneBerlin · 13/05/2023 08:08

I'm surprised I haven't seen anything about this anywhere else!

I just went back on the profile of someone who accepted my accidental friend request yesterday, and saw that we are no longer friends. I assumed she'd removed me as my add was a bit weird, I don't really know her. When I went to check I hadn't added anyone else, the activity log said it was me who unfriended her! Which I definitely hadn't. So it appears that accidental unfriending is also a thing, unless it was FB trying to "undo" the glitch 🤔

Just checked. That's happened to one of mine and not the other 🤷‍♀️

x2boys · 13/05/2023 08:47

Hellocatshome · 12/05/2023 21:35

It was only for a small period of today but is very much true. Unfortunately during that small window I checked out the Facebook page of teenage sons very new not really official girlfriend 🙈 we are now friends because she accepted. DS will hit the roof when he finds out.

Oh dear 😂😂

Casuaala · 13/05/2023 08:52

I can't understand why this hasn't been picked up on elsewhere. I can't see anything on twitter or in newspapers.

Summerwhereareyou · 13/05/2023 08:54

How utterly embarrassing.

QueenConsort · 13/05/2023 08:58

I added my exes ex wife and his brand new girlfriend of 2 weeks😬😬😬😟😟😟

milkshakebringsallthebuoystotheyard · 13/05/2023 08:59

This is so horrific, I'm laughing so much but OMG. Thank god I was at a funeral yesterday, I am SUCH a stalker! There are definitely one or two that I would absolutely die if they knew!

Cannot believe this isn't in the media. Relieved that I have none sent from yesterday, darednt look further back! Also a bit gutted that I didn't receive any 😂

Lindy2 · 13/05/2023 08:59

Thankfully no friends requests on mine.

I spent some time checking the profile and friends of a new friend my DD has. She has SEN so I need to subtley snoop a bit to make sure she's staying safe. How embarrassing would that have been if I'd friend requested her new friend and most of their family/friends too. 🙈

Minierme · 13/05/2023 09:00

Ahh, this makes a lot of sense. I got a weird friend request from someone I don’t know but who knows some people I know. Couldn’t think why they had tried to add me!

MamaSharkDooDooDooDooDooDooo · 13/05/2023 09:01

Omg this explains so much🙈
I searched for a woman who has been stealing from my elderly relative. Then saw she accepted my friend request and wondered wtf was going on 😩
I've also searched through her connections....ah jeez.

CalloohCallayFrabjousDay · 13/05/2023 09:02

Casuaala · 13/05/2023 08:52

I can't understand why this hasn't been picked up on elsewhere. I can't see anything on twitter or in newspapers.

It's now being covered...

QueenConsort · 13/05/2023 09:04

Where is it being covered?

I actually wanted to die last night, wtf will he think of me, crazy! I blocked them but they still got the notification 😬

jkld · 13/05/2023 09:06

If you google Facebook glitch it is being widely reported on but by relatively small media outlets. Meta has publicly admitted to the glitch and apologised.