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Randoms using my wheelie bin for their dog shit!

666 replies

dogpoobin · 17/03/2023 08:39

I'm fuming. Put my wheelie bin at the top of my driveway last night for collection today, it's fairly full so the top is slightly open. Just went out this morning (it hasn't been emptied yet) and noticed someone has placed two bags full of dog shit in my bin on top of my rubbish bags! AIBU or is this absolutely disgusting? I don't have a dog and I don't want dog shit in my bin.

OP posts:
DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 06:16

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 06:13

Whatever anyone’s views on the initial point are by now, it’s pretty clear why @DizzyLizzyKizzy was on this thread. I really dislike it when people show obvious glee in an OP being targeted and keep on goading them and telling them they’re angry. Playground bullying at its worst.

Well you're entitled to your opinion as am I!

I find it ridiculous that OPs ask an AIBU, which is frankly a non issue .... which is a bin being emptied within a very short timescale and then keep coming back like a petulant child, stamping their feet and saying "I know I'm right, so I don't care".

Now that's playground behaviour, if ever I saw it. 🙄

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 06:19

@DizzyLizzyKizzy
Sure

susiesuelou · 21/03/2023 06:34

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 06:13

Whatever anyone’s views on the initial point are by now, it’s pretty clear why @DizzyLizzyKizzy was on this thread. I really dislike it when people show obvious glee in an OP being targeted and keep on goading them and telling them they’re angry. Playground bullying at its worst.

Agreed entirely. Blatant bullying.

LaMarschallin · 21/03/2023 06:49

"Agreed entirely. Blatant bullying"

Also agreed.
It was a mistake to post on AIBU, but the OP acknowledged that.
My reactions wouldn't have been the same as hers but that doesn't deny the fact that she has a valid point.

ChocSaltyBalls · 21/03/2023 09:07

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 06:16

Well you're entitled to your opinion as am I!

I find it ridiculous that OPs ask an AIBU, which is frankly a non issue .... which is a bin being emptied within a very short timescale and then keep coming back like a petulant child, stamping their feet and saying "I know I'm right, so I don't care".

Now that's playground behaviour, if ever I saw it. 🙄

A non issue to you maybe. People are allowed to feel differently to you.

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:43

@ChocSaltyBalls and when you ask on AIBU, then you'll get opposing views!

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 10:51

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:43

@ChocSaltyBalls and when you ask on AIBU, then you'll get opposing views!

Opposing views are one thing, but rubbing your hands in glee at OP feeling got at and then taunting OP every time she responds is something else.

redboxer321 · 21/03/2023 10:52

The OP was also free to stop responding but they went on and on and on...

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:55

@ExasperatedbyJanuary pointing out she was telling a blatant lie? And had changed her question half way through..

If you're so concerned about OP, why are you continuing tagging and commenting?

How's that helping OP?

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:56

redboxer321 · 21/03/2023 10:52

The OP was also free to stop responding but they went on and on and on...

She has stop responding, I'm responding to the others tagging me and commenting about my views.

Is that not allowed?

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 10:58

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:55

@ExasperatedbyJanuary pointing out she was telling a blatant lie? And had changed her question half way through..

If you're so concerned about OP, why are you continuing tagging and commenting?

How's that helping OP?

What lie? That she did or didn’t ask whether she was being unreasonable?! Who cares! She’s not under oath. Why on earth is it your mission to grill her about that?

By contrast, my responses to you are to try to get you to see that dancing about in excitement when an OP is getting clobbered isn’t really a good look, I guess in the hope you won’t do it again? It’s bullying and it’s nasty.

JackiePlace · 21/03/2023 11:03

I wouldn't do this myself... nor would I be arsed to get angry about it.

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 11:07

@ExasperatedbyJanuary stop being ridiculous, how many times have OPs come on with a ridiculous AIBU, still frothing over 48 hours later and keep coming back k to say I'm right, I'm not listening to anyone else..

It's ridiculous!

Keep tagging me, OP will be receiving all the notifications.

Moomieboo · 21/03/2023 11:08

Absolutely ridiculous! It's a bin! Mine gets filled with nappies, catheter bags, gastric drainage bags, used catheters..... mountains of medical waste and my own dogs poo!

It's a bin for disposal! Plus it was just about to be emptied.

If I had a dog poo and was I the middle of a walk and your bin is out on the road for collection....my dogs poo is going in it! Along with my sweet wrappers, snotty tissues and coffee cups.

Get a life and find something important to stress about if stressing is what gets your rocks off!

Dog shit in a soon to be emptied bin ........ madness!

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 11:14

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 11:07

@ExasperatedbyJanuary stop being ridiculous, how many times have OPs come on with a ridiculous AIBU, still frothing over 48 hours later and keep coming back k to say I'm right, I'm not listening to anyone else..

It's ridiculous!

Keep tagging me, OP will be receiving all the notifications.

Just have a look back over your posts. See what kind of person comes across.

I don’t see why you think OP will be upset by a few notifications- if she checks then she’ll see some of us are sticking up for her 🤷‍♀️ Bit odd for you to suddenly be concerned about that.

I won’t engage with you any more. Tbf it obviously wasn’t just you - it was a proper pile-on. But you seemed to be enjoying it so much. It was unpleasant.

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 11:18

@ExasperatedbyJanuary I love the way more people are posting as you keep bringing this too the top!

Keep going, they're not all supportive of OP. As the last one showed.

When I get some spare time, I'll look back at your posts and let you know what I think of you.

But I'm a bit busy at the moment.

susiesuelou · 21/03/2023 12:09

There are some truly deeply unpleasant posters on this thread. @ExasperatedbyJanuary I agree with everything you've said.

bellabasset · 21/03/2023 12:31

I've just walked through the short cut to our local shop, one of the neighbours was wondering why there was water in her dustbins by her garage at the back of her rear garden. As she tipped the water out so came poo bags in the water and her bins stunk. Dog walkers frequent this cut through.

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 13:18

susiesuelou · 21/03/2023 12:09

There are some truly deeply unpleasant posters on this thread. @ExasperatedbyJanuary I agree with everything you've said.

She's off telling someone else on another post off now. She's the Mumsnet 👮‍♀️.
Grin

LadyHaHaHeeHaw · 21/03/2023 13:25

Christ @DizzyLizzyKizzy get a life. Are you really that bored that you have to run back to this post to report that?
That's really really pathetic tbh

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 13:40

LadyHaHaHeeHaw · 21/03/2023 13:25

Christ @DizzyLizzyKizzy get a life. Are you really that bored that you have to run back to this post to report that?
That's really really pathetic tbh

Thanks for tagging me, I was just doing what @ExasperatedbyJanuary did to me, it did make very interesting reading.

You've not bothered saying she's got too much time on her hands, funny that.

🤔

Milkand2sugarsplease · 21/03/2023 13:56

So you've asked a question that you don't really want an answer to, you just want people to agree with you.

It's a bin, waiting to be emptied and an extra bit of rubbish going in it. Hardly the biggest issue in the world.

Someone stuck a poo bag in my wheelie bin a couple of weeks ago, after it had been emptied and I still couldn't get worked up about it. Better than someone leaving it for others to step in.

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 15:08

@DizzyLizzyKizzy
😂Did you think I was seeking you out on other threads?! No, I meant your posts on this thread Seriously- have you been stalking me?! I’ve only just returned to the thread and am flabbergasted!

redboxer321 · 21/03/2023 15:41

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 10:56

She has stop responding, I'm responding to the others tagging me and commenting about my views.

Is that not allowed?

Sure. Do what you like. I wasn't suggesting that you should or should not respond to others tagging you. Not sure how you reached that conclusion to be honest. I was saying that the OP returned to the thread over again which is also allowed.
If ever there was a thread that needed to be put out of its misery...

DizzyLizzyKizzy · 21/03/2023 16:11

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 21/03/2023 15:08

@DizzyLizzyKizzy
😂Did you think I was seeking you out on other threads?! No, I meant your posts on this thread Seriously- have you been stalking me?! I’ve only just returned to the thread and am flabbergasted!

No if you check the thread you're policing, you'll see I was on it way before you!

Are you stalking me?

Seems strange, that you just so happen to be on that thread after me..
🤔

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