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To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.

919 replies

flashbac · 03/03/2023 20:20

This is abuse. What kind of parent takes their baby to a show like this?

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Codlingmoths · 03/03/2023 23:07

Lcb123 · 03/03/2023 20:48

Well don’t go yourself then. It’s a free world. I think you need to get some perspective on what child abuse actually is

It certainly includes exposing children to sexually explicit material. Most people understand this perfectly well. This group and their bullshit lies they think they can get away with now people are judging them ‘that session was just for tiny babies so it’s for the mums really’ - they are NOT tiny babies and some are toddlers in the pictures they have on their own website.

morningtoncrescent62 · 03/03/2023 23:11

Was/is this in the UK? I can't understand why it isn't illegal.

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 23:11

There is a pic of a performer in a ripped netting bodysuit with thigh high red boots in a pose and behind them is a very small girl copying the pose.

Childen’s brains are liKe sponges and absolutely they copy behaviour that is being receiving approval from adults.

HairyPooter · 03/03/2023 23:11

Think about it - what normal man do you know that would do this? If you asked your husband or male colleague to dress up in a thong and heels to perform for children, what would he say? He would say it’s creepy as fuck and no way. So why is it any different because they call themselves ‘gender fluid artists’ or whatever?

Well, imagine it was women dressed likes this and gyrating like these dudes in front of babies. It just wouldn't happen. Which begs the question why these parents think this is okay.

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 23:12

morningtoncrescent62 · 03/03/2023 23:11

Was/is this in the UK? I can't understand why it isn't illegal.

It was in SE London

Breakfastinbedonhols · 03/03/2023 23:14

HairyPooter · 03/03/2023 23:11

Think about it - what normal man do you know that would do this? If you asked your husband or male colleague to dress up in a thong and heels to perform for children, what would he say? He would say it’s creepy as fuck and no way. So why is it any different because they call themselves ‘gender fluid artists’ or whatever?

Well, imagine it was women dressed likes this and gyrating like these dudes in front of babies. It just wouldn't happen. Which begs the question why these parents think this is okay.

Because they think they are cultured, inclusive and cool as fuck. But in reality they just look like idiots.

Shodan · 03/03/2023 23:14

Anyone supporting this tripe is nothing more than a vacuous, pathetic sheep who is desperate to be seen as relevant and open-minded.

It would be risible if it weren't so bloody damaging.

I seriously cannot believe that there is a generation of parents out there who are so lacking in imagination and critical thinking skills that they subscribe to the hype around this.

Just fucking unbelievable.

BoreOfWhabylon · 03/03/2023 23:15

TheBiologyStupid · 03/03/2023 23:06

I wish I hadn't...!

There are other 'Drag Kids', e.g. Queen Lactatia, who started aged seven
m.youtube.com/watch?v=bdCXxUxI-WE

Heyboooo · 03/03/2023 23:15

UWhatNow · 03/03/2023 22:29

What do you love about drag? Genuinely interested….

What don’t you love about drag? 👵🏻

DumpedinKilburn · 03/03/2023 23:15

And this is good for mental health is it? I've looked up Desmond is Amazing, as suggested by a pp and he talks a lot about his mental health but if that's good mental health, then I'm a kiwi fruit.

AGovernmentOfLawsAndNotOfMen · 03/03/2023 23:17

Here’s another image from twitter
So what is that guy doing!!! To babies!!

To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.
Lettersandnumberz · 03/03/2023 23:19

HelloBunny · 03/03/2023 23:00

I know a woke mum who’s into all of this sort of stuff. She’s very vocal on SM. Nothing’s worth doing unless she can tell everyone...

🤔 does her SM username start with T and end in R by any chance?

SunShineAllMine · 03/03/2023 23:19

You know those saboteurs you went to school with and had as colleagues, they do the same to their children and some are women.

I don't understand why we aren't holding the politicians, police, SS and LAs feet to fire over this? They are paid to do a job and aren't doing it.

lifeturnsonadime · 03/03/2023 23:20

Heyboooo · 03/03/2023 23:15

What don’t you love about drag? 👵🏻

Well where to start with this one...

Woman face, offensive and oversexualised parody of what it is to be a woman?

But honestly consenting adults can do what they want.

But to involve children in drag is unnecessary and the child CANNOT consent.

Vebrithien · 03/03/2023 23:21

Lucinda Hole.

Try saying it aloud.

That's the performance name of the person doing the splits, in a thong, in front of babies and toddlers.

Called "Auntie Lucinda", by the organisers.

HairyPooter · 03/03/2023 23:21

SouperNoodle · 03/03/2023 23:01

I love drag storytime where drag queens come and read children's books to the littluns in libraries but this is absolutely vile.

What is about it that you like?

What does a drag queen (adult entertainment) add to story time (children entertainment) for you?

TheUsualChaos · 03/03/2023 23:21

This is like the peak of people trying to show how fucking woke and accepting they are. Fuck that. They are looking straight at some guys hairy arse crack with stupid grins in their faces ffs.

OneLongSmorgasbord · 03/03/2023 23:22

If adults want to go and watch this sort of thing at appropriate venues, go for it, no one will stop you. But this is something else.
This is just the next step in lowering boundaries, especially around children.

First Drag Queen Story Time (have a google and see how many sex offenders in the USA have been found to be part of it or click here for a partial list)
Rainbow Dildo Butt Monkey at the library
Family Friendly drag shows
Drag Kids Desmond Is Amazing, Lactatia (yes, really)
The Family Sex Show
Drag Queens giving sex education in schools

and now babies and toddlers watching this.

Notice how people are called prudes and accused of abuse and hate when they object. Look at the desperation of people saying it's faked.
There are too many useful idiots going along with this, just to look cool and open-minded. People need to open their eyes.

Fromwetome · 03/03/2023 23:22

Looked at both those photos. Only one baby seems to actually be watching it...so what's the point?

Heyboooo · 03/03/2023 23:22

lifeturnsonadime · 03/03/2023 23:20

Well where to start with this one...

Woman face, offensive and oversexualised parody of what it is to be a woman?

But honestly consenting adults can do what they want.

But to involve children in drag is unnecessary and the child CANNOT consent.

I didn’t ask about child-related, I just asked about drag in general.

Drag in itself is perfectly fine - you sound homophobic

passionpackaged · 03/03/2023 23:22

3peassuit · 03/03/2023 21:10

When my 2 were little there were times when I craved a bit of adult company and entertainment. It never occurred to me to relieve the tedium by watching some bloke doing handstands while showing off his arse cheeks.

😂
Same here.

Verbena17 · 03/03/2023 23:23

Currently going through in Tennessee…
Tennessee banning children from all drag events

TonTonMacoute · 03/03/2023 23:23

I just cannot understand what on earth those women are thinking, and if that makes me sound like a nun then so be it.

They have been groomed and brainwashed that this is okay!!

Baffling.

Nogreens · 03/03/2023 23:23

Stunning and brave. How empowering.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 23:24

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 23:11

There is a pic of a performer in a ripped netting bodysuit with thigh high red boots in a pose and behind them is a very small girl copying the pose.

Childen’s brains are liKe sponges and absolutely they copy behaviour that is being receiving approval from adults.

Here’s the photo of little girl copying.

Plus a few more of the blue outfit for whoever thought the image in the OP is fake:

Red outfit and blue outfit are at two different venues. Both events were organised by Carababarave.

To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.
To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.
To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.
To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.
To be upset that toddlers and babies are being subjected to this.