What's the most wildly inappropriate thing to ever happen to you?

[badassbaby]

I'll start...
When I was 19 I was working as a waitress in a holiday hotel.
I was having a wild, incredibly exciting relationship with the hotel manager, who was a good 15 years older than me.
Guests would fill out feedback forms on the hotel.
One day my boss (Restaurant manager) called me into his office. He showed me a feedback form that stated the guests weren't able to get a proper nights sleep, due to incredibly load love making all night long from the room above them.
The restaurant manager then pointed out that the room in question was the hotel managers room (his boss)
I can't remember what I responded, but when I think about it now, what the hell was he thinking of?!? And why question me about it and not the hotel manager?
I had the arrogance of youth so of course carried on exactly as before 😂
So what's yours?

I had a boss who used to photograph page 3 girls back in the day. He asked me to pose for him. Not for page 3, just for I don't know. And I did it. He hired a studio, a make up artist and a chaperone for me though I forget whether that was also the make up artist too. He also gave me money to buy underwear.

The shoots were topless but with knickers on. I got copies and I have no idea what happened to either the photos or the negatives.

Quite frankly I have no idea what my 19 year old self was thinking.

Oh wow!
Wildly inappropriate!
Do you still have the pictures?
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No. I hated them with a passion. They were very 80's despite this being in the 90's.

Not me, but at 17 I helped my 16 year old friend to have an affair with our sports coach, not school related though so at least there's that. He must have been 35 with a fiance. She lost her virginity to him in a remote carpark on top of his coat. I remember feeling a bit strange at the time about his fiance, but it feels absolutely disgusting now!

A couple of years ago I was waiting on the bus. Middle of day, only one there, fairly busy area. Next minute I see a figure in my peripheral vision assuming they were waiting on a bus too. All normal. Tried to get my attention. I thought he was just going to ask for the time, or if I knew where such and such bus was going etc

I asked "can I help you?" And with one of the creepiest grins I've ever seen said "I saw you passing by in my car and I thought you were pretty, can I could give you a lift? Where are you going? My car is just round the corner.."

It was one of those situations where I was so dumbfounded I didn't know what to say, so just gave this stupid nervous laugh. Thankfully the bus arrived just in time! But that was weird and a bit unnerving and the fact I was on my own. It was a horrible vulnerable experience

Yep that's wildly inappropriate!!!!😳

Wildly inappropriate and utterly creepy 😱

@badassbaby It was quite unnerving. It's one of those situations where, unless you've been through it, caught off guard, broad daylight, going through your everyday innocuous things, you really don't know how you'd react. Before that, this scenario would have gone completely different in my head. But in reality, you really don't know what you would do. It's definitely made me be a bit more alert

So many creepy ass men out there 😱
Thank god nothing happened to you xxxx

I have many but one that’s springs to mind is my 50+ year old boss telling 16 yo me that I had “just made him cream his trousers” when I bent over to pick something up in the office. This was said quite openly in front of an office of men and women and no one said a word of rebuke. But it was the 90’s and shit like this was a common occurrence!

Oh also, I remember a phase of a few of us at age 16 truanting and spending the time hanging around at our friends house (also 16) along with her 35 yr old boyfriend. Her mum was also usually present, happy to have us there and was the one who’d introduced her dd to the guy.

My driving instructor was also our next door neighbour so he knew our family well, and was the same age as my grandfather.

When I passed my test I came out of the test centre where he was stood with a couple of other instructors and gave him an excited hug. Another instructor said "is that all you're getting?" To which he replied "oh we're stopping off up the woods on the way home!" Dirty old bastard. He'd known me since I was a baby 🤮

In 1997, when I was 18, I had a brief 'relationship' with my then-best friend's mother's 37-year-old ex-boyfriend. The mother introduced me to her ex when we all had dinner at her house one evening (she was very much a 'cool mum').

43-year-old me is now genuinely boggled by the utter inappropriateness of the whole thing. The past is, indeed, a different country.

Yuck, creepy driving instructors. Mine always got the conversation round to sex. I remember him telling me that his first wife convinced him that women don't like it and he was in his 40s when he discovered that they actually love it. He used to put his hand my thigh when he was telling me to indicate or pull over or something.

Also when I was 17 I had a boyfriend the same age and he cheated on me with his friend's dad. He used to sleepover at his friend's house on the sofa and after everyone was in bed the dad would come and sit on the edge of the sofa and talk to him. A few times when my boyfriend was drunk they kissed.

many over the years but this one was the most recent. I work in a hospital and knocked on the door of the doctors on shift office to get something prescribed. The doctor inside told me to come in and shut the door, he then asked me out for a drink. He is married and I was very newly qualified at the time. I didn’t tell anyone 😞

Setting aside the downright abusive stuff, though this was still pretty creepy.

When I was 16, I went on holiday in Spain with my much younger brother. They often took him back to the room earlier and I was very much addicted to chatting online, so I’d stay up in the hotel in the e-cafe.

One night, for a reason I’ve never understood, one of the waiters came up to me and just snogged me. Didn’t say a word before. I had probably noticed him as he had a big birth mark under his eye but I’d never spoken to him. He then asked me to meet him outside after his shift. I rushed back to the room to avoid him.

I told my mum the next day and she just keep teasing and nudging me anytime we saw him on the rest of the holiday whilst I was trying to hide.

Slept with PE teacher (I know)

He asked me how many other teachers I'd slept with, I mean wtaf

This!
But not just my boss, he was a friend of my fathers who had only recently died plus his wife was pregnant.

17 year old on a YTS scheme.

I have loads of inappropriate stories, I once gave a Spanish plumber a blow job in a store room in a hotel. I was 15 and on hols with my parents 🙄

Another 19 yo with 50+ boss. He was constantly flirting, then insisted I work late one night knowing I had no transport home, offering to take me. He made "jokes" all shift about having his way with me on the way home, I politely chuckled at him and made comments about his wife not liking that.

I was very naive, it wasn't until another co-worker told me very simply he was going to drive me home instead, he'd already told the boss. That I realised the boss wasn't joking. Very grateful to that co-worker and ashamed at my stupidness.

Oh just also remember, when I was 13 my mum heard the boy next door fancied me and she thought he was a nice lad, so she kept sending over there in the evenings to spend some time with him, offering to pay for cinema tickets so he could take me out and inviting him over telling us we were welcome to go upstairs.

The "boy" next door was 26.

Whilst out in a night club at 15 with my much older sister (mid 20’s), I snogged a bloke, assuming that was the end of it. However he was invited back to my sisters with us where I was staying over night and encouraged to stay the night with me. Ended up sleeping with him in my nieces bed.

Had sex with a teen boyfriend on a ATM in the middle of a busy town after an Un18s club night even though we were both totally pissed.

Late 70s, I was 16. Involved in some fundraising for a children's play centre. Met up with some of the other much older fundraisers for drinks in a pub. My parents were away that weekend so I thought I'd stay out a bit later than normal. I got chatting to 2 men, one was about 30 and very good looking. The other one was about 50.They claimed to be showbiz agents and asked I would like to come to their hotel for a drink. I accepted 🙄 went to this scruffy guest house in town. Had a drink then they started talking about it being bed time. I started to get a bit worried. Dying for a wee I went to the toilet. I could hear them talking outside the toilet one of thensaid something like " we could put her in a nice dress ". I was so nervous I couldn't even wee. I came out of the toilet and said I need to get home. They didn't try to stop me. 3 mile walk home so I set off walking, still desperate for a wee. About 1.5 miles from home I passed the pub we had been in and 2 guys who had been playing in a band there were loading equipment into a van and recognised me. They asked where I had been and I told them. They offered to take me the rest of the way home. On the way home one of them said how silly I had been to get into a vehicle with 2 strange men, and I'd just done it again!! Omg I started really panicking then. Luckily they were 2 genuine blokes, started laughing and took me safely to my doorstep, with a warning NEVER to go anywhere with strange men!!
I still can't imagine what the hell I was thinking that night!!

I’m so glad that we realise how inappropriate these scenarios were but sad they we went through them. I really hope my DD will understand this stuff isn’t ok. I’ve got loads but the one that makes me mad is how disgusting and sexual my 50 year old driving instructor was to 17 year old me. He used to ask me to wash his car in a white T-shirt (I didn’t) and when I was upset after failing my test he told me he wanted to lean over and kiss me!

Christ almighty some of these are just fucking awful