I just want a TRA to come out and say ‘yes rise, I think you were raped by a woman, by ‘her’ penis, you should refer to your rapist with she/her pronouns, and if you ever took them to court and they were convicted they should be locked up in a woman’s prison’.
I bang on about my experience (I suppose I ‘weaponise it’ a la JKR) because I want a TRA to say this out loud, just to show what their cause advocates for.
Because even though my brave and stunning rapist lived as a man when he attacked me, he ‘always knew she was a woman’. And the fact that he now runs a group for gender questioning teens, well that’s just fine, because now he’s ‘living his (sorry her) truth’. Now he’s living as a woman I’m sure ‘she’ presents no risk to any teenagers, I’m sure the horrendous things he put me through were just a blip in his journey to finding his true self. Fucker.
So I’m fine being a TERF, and I’m fine being a bitch, if being these things mean that I’m on the side of women, then they’re a badge of honour. I will never fuck over women for the approval of men. Whether they’re right wing women, left wing women, women who voted Leave, or women who voted Remain. I don’t care. I will stand for women and I will until the day I die.