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To hate dry texters?

168 replies

WeeEdinburghHen · 06/08/2022 18:36

I don't know why but it irks me. I don't get how you can be dry or why they are. I feel like if they're not matching the way I speak then what's the point ..

OP posts:
Wallywobbles · 06/08/2022 20:45

I hate emojis. My teens say I must be angry if I use punctuation.

AhaLyn · 06/08/2022 20:47

It’s a sad day that punctuation is now associated with anger. Lack of punctuation annoys me!

CounsellorTroi · 06/08/2022 20:59

I don’t judge people by their texting style.

ldontWanna · 06/08/2022 21:12

K

LittleBearPad · 06/08/2022 21:19

CounsellorTroi · 06/08/2022 20:59

I don’t judge people by their texting style.

I do 😁

butterflied · 06/08/2022 21:22

EmmaC78 · 06/08/2022 18:45

I am proud to be a dry texter, I hate people that go overboard with emoji's and xxx's, it's totally pointless.

This! It makes me roll my eyes. Use your words.

I especially hate it in business communication.

butterflied · 06/08/2022 21:24

Wallywobbles · 06/08/2022 20:45

I hate emojis. My teens say I must be angry if I use punctuation.

I hear this too. So weird to me.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 06/08/2022 21:26

🐑👌🍯?

SunshineLaughter · 06/08/2022 21:35

I'm guessing you're quite young. Absolutely nothing wrong with a simple text - xxx or oooo or emojis. I prefer it.

FlibbertyGibbitt · 06/08/2022 21:51

Can you remember though when texting first came out there were NO emojis ??? How did we manage then? ( misses point of thread )

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 06/08/2022 21:58

Oh dear, I've always dabbed my texts with a piece of kitchen paper to make sure that they are dry before I send
them, because the guys in IT said if texts are wet they can stick together and very occasionally short the Internet out.

Bwix · 06/08/2022 21:58

I don't like soggy texters. So I guess we're even.

bloodywhitecat · 06/08/2022 22:00

Words and no kisses here (unless I am messaging the kids). I hate random kissers.

AllFreeOwls · 06/08/2022 22:02

Maybe they are wondering why you don't match the way they speak...?

PinkiOcelot · 06/08/2022 22:04

I’d no idea what you were talking about until someone explained. However, my SIL uses loads of emoji’s in her texts and I’ve no idea what she’s on about half the time!

WhenDovesFly · 06/08/2022 22:09

I message with this guy. When we started 2 years ago he used to put one x at the end of his messages and I felt I had to match him. After a while he upped it to xx and again I matched. This then became xxx which became a chore to add after every single text. When he increased it recently to xxxx I deliberately reduced mine to xx to make a point. He's still putting xxxx and it drives me mad. Just why?

Giveaschitt · 06/08/2022 22:10

WhenDovesFly · 06/08/2022 22:09

I message with this guy. When we started 2 years ago he used to put one x at the end of his messages and I felt I had to match him. After a while he upped it to xx and again I matched. This then became xxx which became a chore to add after every single text. When he increased it recently to xxxx I deliberately reduced mine to xx to make a point. He's still putting xxxx and it drives me mad. Just why?

I don't even know if this is a piss take or not...

Bellezza · 06/08/2022 22:12

I’m probably a “dry” texter but I do think undemonstrative texts can come across as a bit unfriendly if you’re not careful. Had a misunderstanding with mum today when she had suggested something and I’d replied saying I’d let her know, and she replied:

“Gracious.”

and I couldn’t understand it but she sounded pissed off. Was she sarcastically saying I was gracious to have said I’d let her know? Or was it more like “good gracious”. Either way, I thought I’d somehow offended her so decided I should probably call and sort it out. Turns out she had been trying to type “gracias” 😂

Germolenequeen · 06/08/2022 22:14

**ForTheLoveOfSleep · Today 21:26

🐑👌🍯?**

👏

bigbeautifulmonster · 06/08/2022 22:16

I thought you meant texter as in pen.

Those kinds of dry texters give me the irks too.

Weirdlynormal · 06/08/2022 22:32

Is it like fry humping?

Weirdlynormal · 06/08/2022 22:32

Dry FFS

bigbeautifulmonster · 06/08/2022 22:38

Dry sexters

Lougle · 06/08/2022 22:42

Oooh you'd love my FIL. Since he found the emojis, every key word has one. "I'm going to the shops 🛍️ and buying a newspaper 🗞️ after breakfast 🍳. It's hot 🌡️ and sunny 🌞 today!"

Theo1756 · 06/08/2022 22:50

Does this mean people who use multiple emojis and kisses are wet texters? Ugh

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