Sharing bed sheets, is it me?

[MakeMineALarge1]

Ok I really don't know if I am being weird here, but I have my sheets on my bed that I share with my husband and my daughter has hers that she shares with her boyfriend.
I bought myself some new bedding last week, I have used it once, washed it etc and now she has put it on her bed!
I don't know why but it makes me uneasy, obviously its washed between uses etc, I can't verbalise it but if makes me uncomfortable.

Ah now this wouldn’t happen in my house as I have a no size bed and DD has a double. I have no issue with the sheets being used by my family though, providing they are washed in between.

*kingsize

Do you have a bathroom bin?

She's got it easy hasn't she ... 24 and living at home with her boyfriend? . Why do you allow this? I have an adult DS and no way would he even dream if moving his GF into our home. There are flat shares, spare room.com etc ... too many DPs seem to secretly enjoy having their adult DC living at home with them and make a faux pretence about 'how annoying' the DC are.

[quote godmum56]@CarrieHughes
"Yes, if more than two I'd be EXTREMELY SHOCKED.
More than 5 EXTRAORDINARILY SHOCKED.
More than 7 I might give up on my diet and get a takeaway ;)"

fess up, you are hoping aren't you [/quote]
guilty blush

She should not be taking any of your stuff, coats, shoes, handbags, whatever. At 24 or 16. (Unless you offer or you agree she can borrow whatever.)

[quote kittensinthekitchen]@CarrieHughes

More than 5 would leave me SHAKING AND CRYING.[/quote]
Hahaha I'd forgotten about that one!
Sorry OP, we'll stop derailing the thread now

@Ragwort he doesn't live here with her, he stays over sometimes.
They are both working full time

@limitedperiodonly yes we do have a bathroom bin?

My sheets are my sheets. Wouldn't want anyone else using them.

@Justkeeppedaling

Do you ever stay in hotels?

So you'd be fine with house keeping staff 'borrowing' your shoes, cardi, books??

I do not mind sharing clean bedding. However, I would really mind if I bought something that I made clear was mine and then found that it had been borrowed.

@Justkeeppedaling
I love staying in hotel
The sheets aren't mine.

I genuinely couldn’t get too worked up about it ! We have five double beds in our house and I just use whatever is clean in the cupboard when bed changing.

Very weird that. How do you feel about clothes you buy and wash they could of been something someone worn and returned and you wouldn't know. But I suppose that's okay cos you don't know but still...

I'd have no problem sharing sheets with my little kids, they sleep in my bed anyway occasionally.

But I wouldn't want to share sheets with my teen.

He has his own sheets. The thought of sharing sheets with a teen or a shagging couple makes me feel a bit grim.

Yet don't think twice about sleeping in a premier inn.

So I have double standards, clearly.

@Squirrelblanket

I think you should call the police to report it and then burn the whole house down.

😂😂😂

@LittleGwyneth

I imagine if you say 'Darling I'd rather you didn't use my bedding - I shag your father on that' she would probably stop doing so.

Yep, that will do it!

Just keep your bedding somewhere separate 🤷‍♀️

All bedding is kept in one place

Three teens, two have partners sleeping over, four same size beds in my house - all sheets in pile after laundering in utility room, all and any go in any beds. We do all stick to our own duvet sets though.

Do you bring your own sheets to hotels?

[quote MakeMineALarge1]@TravellingFrom we haven't had overnight guests for ages, but I think I'd buy new.[/quote]
Would you buy new for every guest? Or is it okay for guests to sleep in sheets slept in by someone else?

Would you expect new bedding to be bought if you went to stay at someone else's house?