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To be saddened, and yet also angry, that the Harry Potter 20th Anniversary Reunion show totally blanked JK Rowling?

295 replies

SkyBlueBlues · 08/01/2022 14:13

I mean, she did create the bloody thing! Hmm

Just watched it. 100 minutes of the young cast who were the main characters (Harry, Ron, Hermione, Malfoy, Neville Longbottom, The Weasley brothers, etc,) gushing over one another. Laughing and hugging and kissing, and reminiscing and brushing tears from their cheeks, as they whispered 'we're family... always have been, always will be.......'

Not ONE mention of the woman who created it all, and gave them the lives they have now. In fact many people were interviewed, including Ralph Fiennes, Helena Bonham Carter, Gary Oldman, Robbie Coltrane, Bonnie wright, Alfred Enoch, Toby Jones, Mark Williams, Jason Isaacs, etc. Not ONE of them mentioned JK Rowling.

All we got featuring JK, was two 10 to 15 second clips of footage from an interview she did 3 years ago. The narrator mentioned her ONCE! That's it! None of the 'stars' mentioned her, or thanked her for ANYthing. As I said, Harry Potter exists because of HER. Yet she was not deemed worthy of a mention or a thank you.

AIBU to think it's sad and also bloody infuriating, that she has been blanked in this manner? IMO, it's clearly because of the accusations of her being 'transphobic,' (which I don't think she is frankly,) and I am dismayed and somewhat disgusted, that these young people whose careers exist because of JK Rowling, are now treating her like a pariah.

I am a huge fan of Harry Potter, both the books and the films, and this has sullied it all for me now.

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BellatricksStrange · 13/01/2022 16:12

Transphobia is bollocks. There is nothing wrong in stating the truth. I couldn't care less whether men want to wear dresses and makeup, but they're still men, and when women cut off their breasts and grow beards, they're still women. There's nothing hateful or unkind about saying that. It's just the simple truth.

Furries · 19/01/2022 02:21

@SkaterChick

If you read the links do have her tweets in the article's.. her actual words.

There's this. Saying that every who menstruates is a women? No they're not.
Trans men are men, and they might menstruate too.

That is not transphobic. That is simply stating biological fact.

Seriously, the sooner people get their heads around the fact that biology matters, the sooner some meaningful conversations can take place with regards to how to navigate this minefield.

Those conversations can start by acknowledging the fact that biology bloody matters.

SEOeieio · 19/01/2022 03:47

I think they might as well not have had a reunion, if they're so dreadfully ashamed of the story's and characters' creator. It's ridiculous to try to somehow write her out of history or barely mention her, as though she's tangential to the Harry Potter movies' existence.

They should have included and properly acknowledged her or just not done the stupid thing. I have no interest in watching the reunion, largely for this reason, but also because I hate reunion/anniversary shows, as a rule. Grin

Broblem · 19/01/2022 04:01

They should have included and properly acknowledged her or just not done the stupid thing. I have no interest in watching the reunion, largely for this reason, but also because I hate reunion/anniversary shows, as a rule.
But if she was invited and declined, as reported, then what can you do? Issue a summons?

TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 05:57

JK was mentioned quite a bit and they also showed interview footage so on that basis YABU

The cast do not owe her anything so I find all of the snide insults about certain cast members a bit pathetic really, most were acting before Harry Potter anyway.

I like JK but I think a lot of her defenders need to think before typing, first the nonexistent poll and now this.

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 06:08

@TokyoDreaming

JK was mentioned quite a bit and they also showed interview footage so on that basis YABU

The cast do not owe her anything so I find all of the snide insults about certain cast members a bit pathetic really, most were acting before Harry Potter anyway.

I like JK but I think a lot of her defenders need to think before typing, first the nonexistent poll and now this.

@TokyoDreaming The cast do not owe her anything Bullshit! They owe her a lot! They owe their success in the movies to her.

but I think a lot of her defenders need to think before typing
But her attackers don't need to think before typing their vile and hateful posts and accusations?

It seems to me you are victim-blaming/attacking those who stand up for the wronged person.

And considering the vile hateful things written about her by journalists, dare you blame people for believing the poll was real? Seriously? dare you blame us?? After all, why would we be surprised?

As I said, you're attacking the wrong people and I think it's you that should think before you type.

TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 06:37

Migrainesbythedozen

No they don't, do I owe my first employer for taking a chance on me?

And her defenders are being so nice about certain cast members aren't they? Hmm

The poll never existed, I don't understand why some people didn't understand that at the time.

Like I said, I like JK so wind your neck in.

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 06:41

@TokyoDreaming

Migrainesbythedozen

No they don't, do I owe my first employer for taking a chance on me?

And her defenders are being so nice about certain cast members aren't they? Hmm

The poll never existed, I don't understand why some people didn't understand that at the time.

Like I said, I like JK so wind your neck in.

@TokyoDreaming

No they don't, do I owe my first employer for taking a chance on me?

So why do we have speeches thanking Producer, Director, Script Writer, Creator etc?

And her defenders are being so nice about certain cast members aren't they?

Have you seen what her attackers have said about JKR? Even going as far as death threats? Hmm

Yet again, considering journalists of that very paper (Guardian) have either attacked JKR or left her out of things (such as mentioning her birthday when they mentioned other famous people having a birthday on the same day), dare you blame us for assuming it was true? Seriously???

Wind your own neck in, after giving your head a wobble. Hmm

TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 06:45

Jesus Christ someone has woken up with a grump on Grin

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 06:48

@TokyoDreaming

Jesus Christ someone has woken up with a grump on Grin
That would be the person who ordered me to 'wind my neck in' as a way to silence me when you didn't like to be challenged. Look at your own attitude and how you speak to others. Hmm
TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 06:55

That would be the person who ordered me to 'wind my neck in' as a way to silence me when you didn't like to be challenged. Look at your own attitude and how you speak to others. hmm

Excuse me?

You were attacking me.

I like JK, that doesn't mean that I think in black and white.

Is she transphobic? No.

Do some of her defenders need to give their heads a wobble? Yes.

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 07:03

@TokyoDreaming

That would be the person who ordered me to 'wind my neck in' as a way to silence me when you didn't like to be challenged. Look at your own attitude and how you speak to others. hmm

Excuse me?

You were attacking me.

I like JK, that doesn't mean that I think in black and white.

Is she transphobic? No.

Do some of her defenders need to give their heads a wobble? Yes.

Excuse me? You were the one who attacked me. Go re-read our posts. Out of the blue you told me to 'wind my neck in' when I said nothing of the sort to you before. *TokyoDreaming Wed 19-Jan-22 06:37:06 Migrainesbythedozen

No they don't, do I owe my first employer for taking a chance on me?

And her defenders are being so nice about certain cast members aren't they? hmm

The poll never existed, I don't understand why some people didn't understand that at the time.

Like I said, I like JK so wind your neck in.* Stop gaslighting, your posts are there for all to see. You like most of her attackers need to give your head a wobble and stop personally attacking people.

TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 07:08

Yes I'm really attacking JK.

Did you miss where I said she's not transphobic?

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 07:13

You just conveniently attack people who defend her instead.

A person receives death threats and has hateful articles written about them, has their address posted on the internet by her attackers, and you choose to say it's the ........ defenders, that should think before they speak?

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 07:13

*death threats and rape threats

TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 07:18

Some of her defenders yes, because they made themselves look like right tits when it came to the non-existent poll.

And that's before I even think about the snide comments I've read aimed at cast members, some of you guys whether you love or loathe JK, you're as bad as each other sometimes.

I'm not the only poster to have said that, so why am I the target of your ire?

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 07:28

@TokyoDreaming

Some of her defenders yes, because they made themselves look like right tits when it came to the non-existent poll.

And that's before I even think about the snide comments I've read aimed at cast members, some of you guys whether you love or loathe JK, you're as bad as each other sometimes.

I'm not the only poster to have said that, so why am I the target of your ire?

  1. Yet you say nothing about the RAPE AND DEATH THREATS that are far worse than anything any of the defenders have ever said. To even suggest people defending a wrongly attacked woman are 'as bad as' those who write rape and death threats is absolutely disgusting! You should really re-think that one. Nothing is 'as bad as' let alone worse, than rape and death threats. Someone calling the main trio 'ungrateful brats' for example (one of the comments I read) is *nowhere even remotely near as bad as DEATH THREATS AND RAPE THREATS. And to suggest it is, is disingenuous and absolutely disgusting and an insult to women who receive death and rape threats.
  1. For the third time, it's already been explained to you that no one can possibly blame us for believing the poll existed, given the HISTORY of the guardian. Do I have to explain this a fourth time? Like I said, dare you blame us for that??? Do you honestly think it was such a stretch, given the Guardian's history? After all, we wouldn't have been surprised, given their M.O and history.

Perhaps if you weren't so insistent in throwing shade at the defenders, and letting the side that writes death and rape threats go without comment.....

Migrainesbythedozen · 19/01/2022 07:31

Yes, people who merely say something as innocuous as the trio are 'ungrateful' are really "as bad as" people who make rape threats and death threats..... Confused

WandaWomblesaurus73 · 19/01/2022 08:17

@TokyoDreaming

JK was mentioned quite a bit and they also showed interview footage so on that basis YABU

The cast do not owe her anything so I find all of the snide insults about certain cast members a bit pathetic really, most were acting before Harry Potter anyway.

I like JK but I think a lot of her defenders need to think before typing, first the nonexistent poll and now this.

What exactly are women saying that you think they shouldn't be saying?
TokyoDreaming · 19/01/2022 10:23

What exactly are women saying that you think they shouldn't be saying?

I haven't said anything remotely like that.

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