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To ask why a man may have a single long fingernail?

206 replies

parentsonthenet · 23/11/2021 12:59

Is there a thing to do with having a single long fingernail as a man?

I just caught a glimpse and didn't want to stare but looked like all nails cut down except from nail on little finger.

It was disproportionately long compared to the cut ones too so not like it had just grown quicker than the others.

Grossed me out what is this?

OP posts:
JeanBrash · 24/11/2021 19:01

It's called a DNP

Dainty Nose Picker

SecretKeeper1 · 24/11/2021 19:04

You can ask him now OP: “Why have you got that long fingernail? You play guitar? Oh thank god, I thought it was for coke hahaha”

CaptSkippy · 24/11/2021 19:18

If it's just the little finger and not the thumb or index finger, it's definitely not guitar.

Perhaps for picking his nose?

wherethewildthingsare · 24/11/2021 19:48

My first thought (which I have heard from specialist workers) is for a man to use on a woman who has undergone female genital mutilation

VestaTilley · 24/11/2021 19:50

Electric guitar player usually, though sometimes it’s to do with taking cocaine off it usually Angry

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 24/11/2021 19:52

My non-coke snorting DS plays guitar and keeps all his right hand nails long .

So I'm going with coke

LisaD76 · 24/11/2021 19:57

It’s for snorting coke, pinkie nail wouldn’t be used for guitar playing, I remember years ago having broken all my nails except for my pinkies and my m.d telling me to cut it off as I looked like a coke sniffer, had no idea before then.

Lightswitch123 · 24/11/2021 19:58

Feeling gross just thinking about this 🤢

Fluffmum · 24/11/2021 20:02

Guitar player

WeeTattieBogle · 24/11/2021 20:04

I’ve seen it many times on men from a different culture. In fact it almost seems the norm. It makes me feel quite ill.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 24/11/2021 20:07

For picking nose and ears. Often a thing in certain countries/cultures for a long time.

Grendalsmum · 24/11/2021 20:07

If he's a guitarist he'll have some serious callouses on the fingertips of his other hand ...

MorganKitten · 24/11/2021 20:07

Coke nail

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 24/11/2021 20:20

There was a midwife when I had my second child, a man with a long pinkie nail.

Luckily he only did my routine check ups.

Makes be feel ill to even think about it.

HaroldSteptoesHorse · 24/11/2021 20:20

I knew a woman who had one long fingernail it was always dirty!

NovemberNovemberDarkNights · 24/11/2021 20:24

@parentsonthenet

Can you ask him please!

Seriously79 · 24/11/2021 20:25

Nose picking finger!

evilharpy · 24/11/2021 20:28

I know a guitarist who keeps his right index fingernail long. He broke it once before a gig, had a panic and then went to a nail shop on the high street to have one fake nail put on Grin apparently they thought it was hilarious.

whataboutbob · 24/11/2021 20:31

If they are from China or south east Asia it’s traditional and a status thing, it says “ I don’t do manual work “.

Beaconoflight · 24/11/2021 20:54

Nose/teeth picking ?

wibblywobblytummytumtum · 24/11/2021 20:57

Excellent tool for rolling a spliff!

Mollymoostoo · 24/11/2021 20:57

@emmaw1405

It can be seen as a symbol of status and being upper class in some cultures - it indicates that you are not a manual worker so can grow your nails. The little finger is the least used finger so easiest to grow the nail.
This I work with foreign students and a lot of the Indian and Vietnamese students have one long finger nail for this reason.
Helpel · 24/11/2021 21:06

My male nail technician has a long pinky nail, for scraping away acrylic and polish errors...

happygolurkey · 24/11/2021 21:06

@Stellaris22

DH plays the banjo so will have a couple of nails long for a specific style of playing, does look odd. But it wouldn’t be the pinky finger so it does seem weird.
yes, this is what i was going to say. you keep only one fingernail long (sometimes two) to play clawhammer banjo
Gilmoregale · 24/11/2021 21:44

I'm sure I read a horror story about exactly this feature many years ago....