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To ask why a man may have a single long fingernail?

206 replies

parentsonthenet · 23/11/2021 12:59

Is there a thing to do with having a single long fingernail as a man?

I just caught a glimpse and didn't want to stare but looked like all nails cut down except from nail on little finger.

It was disproportionately long compared to the cut ones too so not like it had just grown quicker than the others.

Grossed me out what is this?

OP posts:
DoncasterHombre · 23/11/2021 17:12

Feckin' weird, whatever it is. How does he scratch his balls without snagging them on it is what I want to know?

To ask why a man may have a single long fingernail?
Collaborate · 23/11/2021 17:23

I play the guitar and mainly finger pick on acoustic. I confirm having a pinkie as the only long nail has nothing to do with the guitar. If anything many guitar pickers don't use the pinkie, and some will keep that short but have the rest of them long on the plucking hand.

silverbubbles · 23/11/2021 17:43

I noticed that a lot of men in SE Asia had this one long finger nail. I thought it was to do with cleaning your arse after a shit - when you are from a culture who don't use loo roll!!!

Clymene · 23/11/2021 17:45

There was a guy at school who had one because he had a beautiful Afro it it meant he could scratch his head without squashing it. Well that's what he told me.

Livpool · 23/11/2021 18:00

Coke head

Gonnagetgoing · 23/11/2021 18:04

Having said that I’m sure (god I sound depraved!) I knew some men who had small coke spoons.

NowWhatUsernameShallIHave · 23/11/2021 18:19

Cocaine habit

CricketCat · 23/11/2021 20:40

@silverbubbles

I noticed that a lot of men in SE Asia had this one long finger nail. I thought it was to do with cleaning your arse after a shit - when you are from a culture who don't use loo roll!!!
Wow. Dumb shit comment of the year goes to @silverbubbles.
silverbubbles · 23/11/2021 21:42

@CricketCat

why do you think it such a dumb comment?
It was often the left hand that had this long nail........

beekeepershat · 23/11/2021 21:44

(Not envy) Envy this whole thread

Newmum29 · 23/11/2021 21:47

It’s coke.

EishetChayil · 23/11/2021 21:54

@silverbubbles

I noticed that a lot of men in SE Asia had this one long finger nail. I thought it was to do with cleaning your arse after a shit - when you are from a culture who don't use loo roll!!!

How would a long presumably sharp fingernail work for wiping your arse?

VitalsStable · 23/11/2021 21:57

I used to date a Maltese mam, his dad had a long pinkie fingernail too. Neither did coke or tried to insert it into my bottom.

I thought it was cultural.

motherofcatsandbears · 23/11/2021 22:03

Ear cleaning

silverbubbles · 23/11/2021 22:05

@EishetChayil

scraping perhaps ??

TheCatterall · 24/11/2021 01:15

My chaps 62, we live in a big standard town in Lancashire and not in a hot bed of coke activity.

He has a long (by long I mean I can see a bit of growth just over the tip of his finger) nail on a pinky.

It’s just something he’s always done. Ear wriggling. Ear wax collecting. Belly button poking. Itches and scratches. Tooth picking. All manner of vile manly things are done. Not noticed his coke habit yet or him sticking it or anything up his bum. Shrug*

To each their own and all that. Honestly as long as it’s clean what the dickens has it got to do with us? There would be uproar if a man ripped apart a woman deciding to go against the grain with body habits.

SticksOutLikeDogsBalls · 24/11/2021 01:19

Growing up, my Greek stepdad used to keep one of his pinky finger nails long (he didn't play guitar). I asked him why, I was about 10 at the time, he told me it was to pick his nose ..... Really charming man!

CricketCat · 24/11/2021 07:13

@silverbubbles don’t act proud of your ignorance. Just because a whole culture of people (more than all the tissue users combined) don’t use tissue paper, it doesn’t mean they grow their nails to scrape shit out of their arses. Have you heard of water?

I don’t understand why dumb shits have to make everything about race and culture without having a clue about the culture they’re talking about.

Sceptre86 · 24/11/2021 09:31

My old GP had this. He was a keen guitar player.

silverbubbles · 24/11/2021 09:35

[quote CricketCat]@silverbubbles don’t act proud of your ignorance. Just because a whole culture of people (more than all the tissue users combined) don’t use tissue paper, it doesn’t mean they grow their nails to scrape shit out of their arses. Have you heard of water?

I don’t understand why dumb shits have to make everything about race and culture without having a clue about the culture they’re talking about.[/quote]
Calm down - this is such a funny reaction!! You have no idea of my culture! Why are you being so defensive about those that use water and hands to clean themselves? Do you have a problem with it? Seems like it worries you?

I am more aware than you that its common place to use water to clean yourself - this is common across way more than one culture.

Why is it upsetting you that I have suggested that someone could use water and nail to clean themselves than water and fingers. Nails V Fingers???

I thought it could be a possibility for the purpose of these long finger nail especially as they are often on the left hand.

Seems odd that you aren't worried about all these people being labelled as coke heads!!!

FateHasRedesignedMost · 24/11/2021 09:40

So it can be used as a tool eg to prise open lids. Most men cut their fingernails short so one long one is practical?

HailAdrian · 24/11/2021 10:11

Vampire

Bertiebiscuit · 24/11/2021 17:30

🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢

starlight13 · 24/11/2021 17:38

It's bloody gross.

Morgysmum · 24/11/2021 17:41

That's a bit odd, if it was his thumb, I would say he plays guitar. Sounds odd, but a guy I use to work with, had his thumb nail longer than his others, I had to ask and he said he played the guitar, so his nail was like a pick.