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To ask why a man may have a single long fingernail?

206 replies

parentsonthenet · 23/11/2021 12:59

Is there a thing to do with having a single long fingernail as a man?

I just caught a glimpse and didn't want to stare but looked like all nails cut down except from nail on little finger.

It was disproportionately long compared to the cut ones too so not like it had just grown quicker than the others.

Grossed me out what is this?

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Nomorepies · 23/11/2021 14:16

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Arren12 · 23/11/2021 14:16

If its a thumb nail it my be for rolling cigarettes or spliffs

Udouhun · 23/11/2021 14:17

Picking your hole

WalkingOnTheCracks · 23/11/2021 14:17

Okay, I know this is unheard of on MN, but I’m going to say, unprompted, that I might be wrong.

I’ve played guitar for decades, and I’ve never seen a guitarist with only one long nail, on the pinky finger of their picking hand. But as it’s been suggested here so many times, I did a bit of research - and apparently some flamenco players swear by it.

So if the guy also wears a lot of ruffly sleeves and very tight trousers, that might be it.

tensmum1964 · 23/11/2021 14:18

Yep guitarist. I live with one 🤣

Draculahhh · 23/11/2021 14:19

Vampire?

tensmum1964 · 23/11/2021 14:21

Not pinky finger though. My partner has a longer nail on his thumb.

Nothavingfunrightnow · 23/11/2021 14:28

I know someone who has this. He is neither a coke head, nor Asian nor a guitarist. He is a fucking vain, self centred Twat, though. So fain and self centred that I find him interesting and amusing. He can be quite kind if it suits him.

His name doesn't start with S, does it, OP??

potniatheron · 23/11/2021 14:30

I've read that it's a pimp thing and also, in gay culture, to signify you are open to casual pick ups and prefer to be a recipient

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 23/11/2021 14:30

Is it his little finger? It's my dad, and it's for making covered buttons. It's to push the fabric down into the die. Grin

CricketCat · 23/11/2021 14:31

I thought it was make shift ear bud/scraper.

But see it’s for guitar…but the men I’ve seen with it don’t looo like musicians 🤷‍♀️

Finknottlesnewt · 23/11/2021 14:34

Very common in Thailand/Malaysia/Burma/Japan

Signifies not a manual worker . It's a class thing .

gwenneh · 23/11/2021 14:36

@tensmum1964

Not pinky finger though. My partner has a longer nail on his thumb.
Same. The side of his nail hits the string as he plays. He gets annoyed if it breaks and he has to file it down.
3scape · 23/11/2021 14:36

Does his name start with a T? I know a guy who has an online female persona. He keeps his pinkie nail long and 'she' frequently will show only the side of her hand (with one manicured sometimes painted nail) on a drink, or a mouse or a dated document but nothing else due to "online weirdos" lol. Biggest online weirdos I know as well.

HereticFanjo · 23/11/2021 14:38

Guitar player. It looks gross!

JaneJeffer · 23/11/2021 14:40

LTB

Allsorts1 · 23/11/2021 14:52

Omg coke nail - I’ve heard it all 🤣🤣

Envoitrevisage · 23/11/2021 14:52

I had a few artist friends who had a long little nail to enable them to paint without their hand touching the canvas. They sort of used to rest their hand on the edge of the page with their little finger nail as the touch point.

CovidMakesThingsHard · 23/11/2021 14:52

Coke nail is my vote

Lekky12 · 23/11/2021 14:57

Mr brother has this. Nose picking tool.

ItsSnowJokes · 23/11/2021 14:59

@Finknottlesnewt

Very common in Thailand/Malaysia/Burma/Japan

Signifies not a manual worker . It's a class thing .

Now this could make sense as my grandpa was in Burma during the war for about 8 years. I wonder if this is why he always had it. Although now I'm concerned he was a closet snob!
Twins3007 · 23/11/2021 15:01

my nail man has a long nail on his little finger he uses it as a tool to go round nail when putting varnish on

Threewheeler1 · 23/11/2021 15:06

My slightly mingy older brother cleans his ears with his Envy
I'd assume guitar for a normal bloke

StrongSunglasses · 23/11/2021 15:14

I’ve heard of a coke nail lol … looks like it’s a thing tho. I’ve never seen this on anyone I know who does it tho.

Depends who it was on - the guy who does my nails has a long fingernail which he uses as a tool during the process.

A friend of mine used to live in HK and said that one long nail on a man is for digging deeply while nose picking.

StrongSunglasses · 23/11/2021 15:16

*never heard of a coke nail