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Designer bag-not tacky

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Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 27/07/2021 22:43

I really want a special bag, a piece I can keep forever-designer but classy, not showy or tacky. I’ve never had this before. I’m thinking soft leather, definitely not shiny or brand new looking and quite large to use everyday
Is if just shallow and a waste of money?
Any ideas?

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ShrikeAttack · 28/07/2021 00:07

What about the Proenza Schouler Arch?

NumberTheory · 28/07/2021 00:10

[quote Shushimwatchingemmerdale]@NumberTheory Well, she’s 3 and off to pre school in September, so isn’t too too full with baby bits[/quote]
The general rule still applies - is your life about to change again with her off to pre-school? Or in another couple of years when she starts primary? Or might you have another baby? Or go back to work? Or move country? Or...

If so, and you want a forever bag that will be everyday use for some years, maybe hold off a bit and see, or lower your budget and get something that you expect to replace in a few years. But I'm only urging caution if that 1500 is a stretch and if you will feel bad about it if you end up finding it doesn't suit in a few years.

ISeeTheLight · 28/07/2021 00:16

Delvaux- it's a luxury Belgian brand. Eg the "So Cool" shoulder bag in calf's leather. Timeless and practical.

Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 28/07/2021 00:20

Thoughts on this?

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ShrikeAttack · 28/07/2021 00:24

Hmm, not mad about it OP.

Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 28/07/2021 00:27

@ShrikeAttack Too plain and simple

Arrgh, there’s nothing perfect, maybe that means I shouldn’t get one/hearts not really in it 🤷🏻‍♀️I mean, for the amount you pay, you have to really love it, right

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entropynow · 28/07/2021 00:27

@Ghosttile

£15? You can get a bag for life for £2 you spendthrift.
That's why it's my smartest Grin
Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 28/07/2021 00:28

@Mookie81 🤣🤣🤣Is that a bag..what is it?!
Yes, some of their designs are a little out there

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yacketyyak · 28/07/2021 00:29

I love this... and it's in the sale!
Not flashy at all

www.tedbaker.com/uk/Womens/Accessories/Bags/CIARRAA-Leather-double-pouch-crossbody-bag-Dark-Tan/p/243468-DK-TAN

Mookie81 · 28/07/2021 00:31

[quote Shushimwatchingemmerdale]@Mookie81 🤣🤣🤣Is that a bag..what is it?!
Yes, some of their designs are a little out there[/quote]
It's literally a rock wrapped in string! Grin

Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 28/07/2021 00:32

@Mookie81 😅For £250…why?!! 😆

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Shushimwatchingemmerdale · 28/07/2021 00:33

See, that’s when I feel a bit wanky about it all and maybe should just get a nice bag from Zara or summat 🤣

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CallMeRisley · 28/07/2021 00:35

I don’t get it… when people say “a designer bag is an investment” and “it holds its value” but then on this thread people are saying Mulberry bags are now tacky and outdated so they obviously haven’t held their value? And someone said “Mulberry is the new Burberry” implying this has happened with another brand. I mean, personally I think spending over £1000 on a handbag is pretty obscene, just my opinion and I wouldn’t usually comment on a post about it as it’s obviously not my thing. But I don’t get the thing about people saying bags hold their value when they clearly don’t, it’s a volatile market linked to fashion and trends?

ShrikeAttack · 28/07/2021 00:40

Some bags appreciate in value @CallMeRisley, you just have to pick the right one!

Even if they don't they're beautiful things to enjoy, I think most people buy them for that reason rather than an eye on the re-sale value.

dryasaboner · 28/07/2021 00:40

I want a Celine Boston

MyMabel · 28/07/2021 00:47

What about a Kate Spade? She made/makes some lovely things!

MyMabel · 28/07/2021 00:51

I love these in particular 😍

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bettytaghetti · 28/07/2021 01:25

If you like the idea of something like an LV neverfull then what about a Goyard St Louis? Much subtler and not quite so many fakes around.

Propercrimbo2020 · 28/07/2021 07:02

Also have a look at WLC auctions online, they have some lovely bags (and other things).
I’ve used them before and can highly recommend.

Claricestarling1 · 28/07/2021 07:13

Prada hobo bag...just about to buy this one myself but can’t decide between black and brown!!

CareBear50 · 28/07/2021 20:18

Polene is a beautiful parisienne brand set up by siblings. Its v up and coming.....but prices are currently less than your budget

CareBear50 · 28/07/2021 20:25

Sorry.....forgot link

uk.polene-paris.com/products/numero-un-trio-sauge

Youcanhavehim · 28/07/2021 20:27

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MorganKitten · 28/07/2021 20:49

Always a Birkin