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AIBU?

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Someone has parked over my H bar and blocked my car in ...

475 replies

WatfordGap · 23/07/2021 15:22

Earlier this year, I had an H bar painted across my dropped kerb because people kept parking over the edge of the dropped bit, meaning I couldn't get in or out of my drive (the drive is narrow and at an angle on a very narrow street with cars parked opposite).

So far, it's pretty much done the trick. But today I went out for an hour and came back and someone has parked a good foot or so over the end of it, meaning that I can't get my car off the driveway. Unfortunately for them, I was not using the vehicle which was (and still is) parked on the drive, but another one. :)

So I've parked across the rest of my H bar. There's now enough room between my front bumper and their rear one to get a matchbox in. There's about a foot between them and the car parked in front of them.

Today is my last day at work for 2 weeks. Do you think I should have an early glass of wine to celebrate? Grin

OP posts:
peridito · 23/07/2021 20:32

ooh look what I've found ,especially for the OP !

www.amazon.co.uk/DM-Novelties-Parking-Sticker-Stickers/dp/B078BH18D3/ref=sr_1_21?dchild=1&keywords=No+Parking+Stickers&tag=mumsnetforu03-21&qid=1627068439&sr=8-21

and I think we need a new acronym on MN . GAL

JesusIsAnyNameFree · 23/07/2021 20:33

@peridito

Obviously in the minority here .Just ignore it .Better yet can you move your car a little so that it's easier for them to drive away .

You say that the marking has mainly done the trick so why go out of your way to make someone else's life difficult ?

I presume you've made a one off payment to have the kerb dropped and the marking carried out .I return part of the public highway becomes an area that you want to keep free just for you 100% of the time .Not a bad deal .

Be the bigger person and forget this minor infringement .

Why is it always the wronged party that has to be the bigger person? The person blocking part of OPs drive knows they're completely in the wrong parking there and do not give a fuck, so why should OP make their lives any better? She wouldn't even be able to move the car off her drive if she needed to, ffs.
harverina · 23/07/2021 20:36

Came late to the thread and have had such a lovely half an hour reading all of the fabulous comments!

Can’t believe some people think YABU OP!!

Even if you don’t know what an H bar is, all drivers know they should park in front of a drive!

The person who has parked there doesn’t give a shit about the OP or anyone else in her house, so why should she be kind to them and take the time to write them a note!!

And ok, the OP doesn’t need out right now but she could at some point. You can’t pre-empt an emergency 😂

Any update?

SnapAndFartAllDayLong · 23/07/2021 20:36

I'm a Dry cleaner, some of those bags may fall into my bag 😇😇🤣🤣🤣🤣

harverina · 23/07/2021 20:36

@harverina

Came late to the thread and have had such a lovely half an hour reading all of the fabulous comments!

Can’t believe some people think YABU OP!!

Even if you don’t know what an H bar is, all drivers know they should park in front of a drive!

The person who has parked there doesn’t give a shit about the OP or anyone else in her house, so why should she be kind to them and take the time to write them a note!!

And ok, the OP doesn’t need out right now but she could at some point. You can’t pre-empt an emergency 😂

Any update?

*shouldn’t park in front of a drive!
starfish4 · 23/07/2021 20:36

Lets hope neighbour comes back soonGrin

harverina · 23/07/2021 20:39

Oh no I’ve just seen the update!!!

Can’t you hire a car and squash them in?

Hopefully the neighbour has just popped out and will be back soon

dexterslockedintheshedagain · 23/07/2021 20:41

Has wanker car gone?

SurferWoman · 23/07/2021 20:46

Oh well, it was the best parking diagram I've ever seen on MN.

Setting new standards OP.

godmum56 · 23/07/2021 20:49

@Shuffleuplove

Perdito do you iron your knickers? You do, don’t you?
with spray starch
Ninkanink · 23/07/2021 20:52

I wish I was the type of person to iron my knickers. I’m sure I’d be much, much happier if I kept myself constantly busy with utterly pointless shit like that.

lazyarse123 · 23/07/2021 21:00

@girlmom21

I can't believe I've read through all of the OP's comments and there's no update!
Update at 20.07. Maybe xposted.
theshadeofgreen · 23/07/2021 21:06

Oh OP PLEASE hire a car.

Or book a food delivery or a taxi and pay them extra to just sit there until the wanker car tries to moveGrin

BlaBlaSmthSmth · 23/07/2021 21:21

@theshadeofgreen

Oh OP PLEASE hire a car.

Or book a food delivery or a taxi and pay them extra to just sit there until the wanker car tries to moveGrin

This is the most reasonable suggestion on this thread. Totally worth the expense OP 😉

Or a skip, you could hire a skip.

StoneofDestiny · 23/07/2021 21:31

Total sympathy for you OP with inconsiderate drivers around.

MilesOfSand · 23/07/2021 21:35

I don't want to be the bigger person.

I love this a little bit Grin

theshadeofgreen · 23/07/2021 21:45

@BlaBlaSmthSmth a skip trumps a taxi. I take my hat off to you.

Redshoeblueshoe · 23/07/2021 21:48

A skip sounds perfect

MaMelon · 23/07/2021 21:49

If I were you OP I’d be out there with my deckchair, blanket, bobble hat and thermos of cocoa - I’d plonk myself on the road right behind his car and he’d have to run me over before I moved for the fucker.

Bargebill19 · 23/07/2021 21:50

Two wheelie bins with a notice asking them not to park in the reserved space….
(Hat, coat 🚗)

DancyNancy · 23/07/2021 22:13

Now...to really see it through you could have moved your car that's across your drive into the space in front of the wankers. Then reverse your drive car put enough to block the back.....checkmate!

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 23/07/2021 22:46

Dancynancy took the words right out of my mouth. At the very least leave a shirty note on the windscreen, OP.

ArrrMeHearties · 23/07/2021 22:46

Bravo 👏👏👏 Well done op for a stellar move Grin

mofro · 23/07/2021 22:51

@Sparklingbrook

Here’s an h bar though.
Cheers, saved me a Google search 🤣🤣
user1471447863 · 24/07/2021 00:42

@WatfordGap you say they have parked a foot over the H-bar, but have they actually encroached on the dropped curb? And I mean the section of pavement that has been lowered to meet the level of the carriageway, not the slanty bit (it's just there as a necessity but isn't part of the dropped section).
The H-bar is just to highlight the presence of the dropped curb but means nothing in itself.
Also what way round is your car parked on your driveway? If you are reversing out then yes it will be more difficult with tightly parked cars but you shouldn't be reversing out into a road.