Thanks for the new thread!
I'm keeping fingers crossed for the gun control moves. I just wish they'd expand the 'red flag' laws to include close friends as well as family and medical professionals.
My BFF's 'd'H is unbalanced and abusive. He has any number of firearms and has threatened her with them in the past. I never find out about these 'incidents' until after they happen. I tried to 'red flag' him when she told me about one the day after but was told because I wasn't a 'close relative' I couldn't, and she won't do it herself nor will any of her family members. This is how family annihilators manage to do what they do. Those closest to them are too afraid of them to say anything.
In other news, FEMA is reimbursing for Covid funeral expenses up to $9000 as part of Biden's Covid relief plan. Not expected, but very helpful especially to families of limited means.