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AIBU to think women should not be banned from Social media for asking the question - Thread 2

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Thewithesarehere · 27/01/2021 21:30

Many women have been suspended from sm for asking the question:
“Do you believe that male sexed people should be allowed access to changing rooms and showers for female sexed people and teenagers?”
Seems like a perfectly reasonable question which we should be allowed to ask.

Let’s vote with our AIBU. Smile

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/01/2021 16:11

we need a wide eye emoji

We do. I did have a look, but nothing really suitable!

MaudTheInvincible · 29/01/2021 16:12
Grin
MissingLinker · 29/01/2021 16:12

WHAT'S A WOMAN, @ROOTYT00T?
Apologies for the Caps but this is the most basic question in all of this.
On here, it's Adult Human Female, while men are Adult Human Males.
I'd have said that was a pretty decent definition but it does exclude Trans women. Who aren't female.

AryaStarkWolf · 29/01/2021 16:12

I did a quick google of gynophobic. In so doing I came across this word Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia - completely off tangent, but thought I might share. I need a bit of light relief sometimes.

Just googled the meaning of that, how very cruel of whoever named that phobia Grin

DialSquare · 29/01/2021 16:13

This is the only one I could find.

AIBU to think women should not be banned from Social media for asking the question - Thread 2
AryaStarkWolf · 29/01/2021 16:14

@Ereshkigalangcleg

we need a wide eye emoji

We do. I did have a look, but nothing really suitable!

Something like this?
AIBU to think women should not be banned from Social media for asking the question - Thread 2
JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:15

and this one - perhaps this is the problem really? Ommetaphobia

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/01/2021 16:15

Perfect Grin

JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:16

@AryaStarkWolf - I know, right? :)

AryaStarkWolf · 29/01/2021 16:17

@JoodyBlue

and this one - perhaps this is the problem really? Ommetaphobia
Grin
JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:21

@AryaStarkWolf that is cute and creepy in equal measure, but I like it.

AryaStarkWolf · 29/01/2021 16:22

[quote JoodyBlue]@AryaStarkWolf that is cute and creepy in equal measure, but I like it.[/quote]
I think it captures both the mood and our naive lady-ness perfectly

Impatiens · 29/01/2021 16:24

While the bug is on its tea-break - anyone know if threads about JKR are against the guidelines?

midgedude · 29/01/2021 16:26

There is no ban about discussing JKR. As always , respectfulness and if there is negativity, it should not be spiteful or dishonest

ListeningQuietly · 29/01/2021 16:28

@RootyT00t
If the sex change surgery
which is undertaken by a tiny, tiny minority of Transwomen
changes their essential being

what about transplant surgery?
Does the recipient suddenly become the donor?

JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:29

Guidelines for discussion are on the feminist chat forum, pinned to the top. There are 5 "rules" that are quite sensible I think.

Impatiens · 29/01/2021 16:32

Thanks midge

CorvusPurpureus · 29/01/2021 16:34

The odd thing is that all the trans activist types I know, would think Rooty was being transphobic as fuck with all this talk of men feeling like women & changing into women.

So there's that Grin.

Whatwouldscullydo · 29/01/2021 16:42

Ha yes cor

You don't have to have gender dysphoria to be trans nor should having surgery or taking hormones be required to "join the sister hood" . Many are perfectly happy with their bodies and widening the bandwidth of being a woman. Its transphobic to imply otherwise.

IamBarbaraofKent · 29/01/2021 16:50

I am the real Barbara of Kent, middle name Hyacinth.

And I voted YANBU, although I would never use anything so common as social media.

AIBU to think women should not be banned from Social media for asking the question - Thread 2
JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:52
Grin
lifeturnsonadime · 29/01/2021 16:58

Well I popped out to walk the dog and Barbara of Kent entered the room!

RootyToot no one is denying the existence of trans and this is most definitely not about an obsession with toilets.

JoodyBlue · 29/01/2021 16:59

I think there is more than one Barbara of Kent @life Wink

BarbaraofKent · 29/01/2021 17:02

@IamBarbaraofKent

I am the real Barbara of Kent, middle name Hyacinth.

And I voted YANBU, although I would never use anything so common as social media.

Imposter!
DialSquare · 29/01/2021 17:05

I inadvertently introduced Barbara to the Innocent Smoothie thread! She's everywhere!

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