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How have I only just realised this?

185 replies

ColdemortReturns · 19/01/2021 10:50

I'm 40.
I've just realised that I was born bang on, to the date, 9 months after my grandmas 50th birthday.
She had a huge party, I've seen the photos.
I was born on my due date.
My parents had a good time didn't they?
Baaaaaaahhhhhhh. Can never look at those photos again.

OP posts:
Santaiscovidfree · 19/01/2021 11:03

My dd's is 25th September!!
Grin

FraughtwithGin · 19/01/2021 11:04

Pure coincidence.

lidoshuffle · 19/01/2021 11:05

Loads of people I work with have September birthdays; obviously one too many port and lemons over Christmas/New Year!

MrsMoastyToasty · 19/01/2021 11:06

I was born 40 weeks after New Year's Eve.

smoothchange · 19/01/2021 11:08

If you were born exactly 9 months later, conception didn't take place at the party.

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 19/01/2021 11:08

I was born 9 months after my mum's birthday and our oldest was born 9 months after our wedding anniversary.

ColdemortReturns · 19/01/2021 11:08

@Santaiscovidfree

My dd's is 25th September!! Grin
I've a friend who's birthday is 25th Sep! Never thought if it before I know her parents too....
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Ch3rish · 19/01/2021 11:08

That's not how it works though is it?

40 weeks from your last period not 40 weeks since conception

It's been a while since I was pregnant but I think I've got that right Grin

smoothchange · 19/01/2021 11:08

@MrsMoastyToasty

I was born 40 weeks after New Year's Eve.
So conception was mid January?
smoothchange · 19/01/2021 11:10

@lidoshuffle

Loads of people I work with have September birthdays; obviously one too many port and lemons over Christmas/New Year!

This is so odd. People have sex all year round. With or without alcohol. Why would September birthdays be attributed to that?

Plonque · 19/01/2021 11:11

Myself and DSis both have the same birthday month, our days are a little over two weeks apart (I was early!) .... nine months after DM birthday!

GingerAndTheBiscuits · 19/01/2021 11:13

My eldest is a St Patrick’s Day baby Blush

Plonque · 19/01/2021 11:14

My child was born in September and I remember my fertile days were the second week in Dec, nowhere near Christmas (we were trying really hard)

autumntimebrowns · 19/01/2021 11:17

There was a definite bulge in my school year in September after the dreadful and famous weather of the 1962/3 winter Smile

YouBoughtMeAWall · 19/01/2021 11:18

@ColdemortReturns

I'm 40. I've just realised that I was born bang on, to the date, 9 months after my grandmas 50th birthday. She had a huge party, I've seen the photos. I was born on my due date. My parents had a good time didn't they? Baaaaaaahhhhhhh. Can never look at those photos again.
Well technically you’d need to be born one week before 9 months after your grandmothers birthday for the conception to have happened that night. Because the 40 weeks/9months + 1 week is from the last period, not conception. Were you a week overdue?
Indecisive12 · 19/01/2021 11:20

So your Mum would have been on/finishing her period on your Grandma’s 50th?

Bluesheep8 · 19/01/2021 11:24

Eh? Confused

merryhouse · 19/01/2021 11:26

Surely that means you were conceived 2 weeks later?

jambeforeclottedcream · 19/01/2021 11:29

My Parents had fun on Valentines... I was overdue but if I'd been on time

ProudAuntie76 · 19/01/2021 11:30

As teenagers my boyfriend and I realised we were born on the same date.

His parents invited my parents and I round to their Wedding Anniversary party.

What a coincidence...

It was MY parents wedding anniversary.

What were the odds of that?!

Born on the same day. Parents married on the same day. How WEIRD. What a COINCIDENCE.

Wait.

What’s EXACTLY 9 months after their wedding anniversaries?

Our birthdays that’s what.

Parents had sex on wedding anniversary. Shocker.

Thunderblunder · 19/01/2021 11:30

DS was conceived after a condom broke while having sex on boxing day.
He was born on the following 21st september a few days after his due date.

StormBaby · 19/01/2021 11:30

All my babies were born on the numerical number they were conceived on, regardless of due dates. They were all overdue. In fact, I used this formula to correctly predict my own sweepstake at work for my third, as I knew what day he would be born 🤣

PlanBea · 19/01/2021 11:31

The September birthdays aren't helped by the school admissions starting in September - so those who have a preference for eldest in the school year try and aim for a September baby. Plus add in Christmas/new years for the unplanned September babies! But it would be ~38 weeks later baby would be due as it's based on last period and assuming a 28 day cycle.

PistolKnight · 19/01/2021 11:31

www.whenwasiconceived.com

JorisBonson · 19/01/2021 11:33

I was a valentine's day conception. I HATE that I know this 🤣