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Carole Middleton the ultimate mum raising a future queen?

222 replies

Brightonbabe5 · 02/01/2021 01:11

I'm currently reading Harry & Meghan's book Finding Freedom... Meghan's parents particularly Doria have been applauded for putting such an emphasis on Meghan's education, ensuring she got into an expensive Catholic school & ensuring she worked very hard at school...
Surely the Middleton's should get the same praise but they were ridiculed & accused of being upwardly mobile... Kate & Pippa both attended excellent universities so they obviously worked very hard also..
The other parents in the girkd private school weren't too complimentary about Carole either with snipes about the girls uniforms, sports equipment etc too perfect. I reckon the other parents were jealous.
In my opinion Carole has done an amazing job raising out future queen & should be given more credit...

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Woahisme · 02/01/2021 01:13

Meh, surely it's just circumstances isn't it?

If you grow up to be a decent human being with kindness and empathy, I'd say your parents must have done a good job, regardless of your social status.

Sheleg · 02/01/2021 01:18

Eat the rich!

Monty27 · 02/01/2021 01:20

😂

TimeToParty · 02/01/2021 01:21

Surely the source of the opinions matters here?

In Meghan and Harry’s book (which I suspect is likely to be positive about Meghan and Harry), the praises of Meghan’s mother are sung.

In the British press (who are notoriously shit with digging up non-stories and opinions from nobodies), Kate’s mum was slagged off.

And not only that but they are also just opinions. And actually whose opinion matters with regards to Carole’s parenting? Surely only her children and husband’s? Maybe another relative if they for some reason needed to get involved.

wellthatsunusual · 02/01/2021 01:22

I'm sure she's a perfectly decent mother who wanted the best for her offspring. Although personally I wouldn't agree that marrying the future king is in any woman's best interests.

I'm not sure she deserves any specific praise for having raised a daughter who married a prince though.

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/01/2021 01:22

In Meghan and Harry’s book (which I suspect is likely to be positive about Meghan and Harry), the praises of Meghan’s mother are sung.

Clearly this. If I was quoted in a book, I'd be nice about my mum. Hardly surprising.

Purplethrow · 02/01/2021 01:24

I’m sure if Kate and William wrote a book , Kate’s parents would receive the same praise.

LowestEbb · 02/01/2021 01:24

The fuck

bringle · 02/01/2021 01:25

In my opinion Carole has done an amazing job raising out future queen & should be given more credit...

What's that got to do with a book about Harry & Megan though?

SantasAnus · 02/01/2021 01:25

Surely you can see the difference between a mixed race American family, compared to a middle class, white, privileged, can afford to send their kids to St. Andrews uni family?

Not exactly anything to write home about is it?

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 02/01/2021 01:26

If I wrote a book about myself I would praise my mum, not Sarah's down the street mum who did x.

Also the criticism for Carole and Kate came from the British press, not her daughter or family.

You're comparing apples with pears.

Brightonbabe5 · 02/01/2021 01:30

The US & British press have been very kind to Doria who's daughter also bagged a prince... Carole has been slagged about everything most notably being a social climber & orchestrating Kate & William's relatuonship!

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AccidentallyOnPurpose · 02/01/2021 01:33

@Brightonbabe5

The US & British press have been very kind to Doria who's daughter also bagged a prince... Carole has been slagged about everything most notably being a social climber & orchestrating Kate & William's relatuonship!
And? What exactly is your problem?

The British press might've been fairly mellow with Doria, but they had plenty to say and criticise about Meghan. So swings and round abouts really.

ViciousJackdaw · 02/01/2021 01:33

I couldn't agree more OP. After all, she's just so much better than us isn't she? I bet her farts smell like Jo Malone candles and when she goes for a shite, it comes out in a perfect sphere.

katy1213 · 02/01/2021 01:34

Looking at the end product, I think Carole did the better job.

bringle · 02/01/2021 01:34

I wouldn't say the press has been particularly favourable to Megan.

The existence of a book that is probably PR driven praising Megan's mother doesn't have any impact or detract from Carole's mothering skills. It's not a competition.

bringle · 02/01/2021 01:36

The US & British press have been very kind to Doria who's daughter also bagged a prince... Carole has been slagged about everything most notably being a social climber & orchestrating Kate & William's relatuonship

Would it make you feel better if they were less kind to Doria? You could always start a Carole M, ultimate mother appreciation society...

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 02/01/2021 01:37

@ViciousJackdaw

I couldn't agree more OP. After all, she's just so much better than us isn't she? I bet her farts smell like Jo Malone candles and when she goes for a shite, it comes out in a perfect sphere.
At least they don't smell like Gwyneth Paltrow's candles Grin
bringle · 02/01/2021 01:38

vag!

Brightonbabe5 · 02/01/2021 01:38

It's not but the British press have been awful to Carole over the years, as have parents from the schools the dc attended & even locals who claim to know them.. Michael Middleton is never rediculed... Kate & Pippa themselves have taken an awful bashing eg "Wisteria Sisters" etc...

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FingersCrossedForAllOfUs · 02/01/2021 01:42

@Brightonbabe5 - Just to repeat my comment on your other identical thread. Why have you got 2 threads going on this? One in AIBU and one in chat? Confused

MakeWorkYourNewFavourite · 02/01/2021 01:46

This post though.

MrsTerryPratchett · 02/01/2021 01:46

@Brightonbabe5

It's not but the British press have been awful to Carole over the years, as have parents from the schools the dc attended & even locals who claim to know them.. Michael Middleton is never rediculed... Kate & Pippa themselves have taken an awful bashing eg "Wisteria Sisters" etc...
Maybe don't read the gutter press. I can never understand why people do. It's hate filled crap with a healthy dose of racism, sexism and xenophobia.
bringle · 02/01/2021 01:47

I got confused by two threads.

I think the press has been a mixture of good & bag which is to be expected.

AccidentallyOnPurpose · 02/01/2021 01:48

Ultimate mum. What did she do really? She raised two fairly decent girls that married well, and managed not to have them hate her in the process. There's hundreds of thousands like her in the world.