@TinRoofRusty I think I know the married CF person in that OPs story. Had a full weekend "festival" style event for the wedding, but didn't hire anyone to help set up, run it or clear away the structures afterwards apart from a few catering staff for four hours on the main day. The rest of the event was run by three or four "guests" including my friend, who essentially worked their arses off for free, for about four days.
The groom then had the nerve to have a go at my friend on the Monday morning. She was sat down having a (well deserved) fag break and he snarked at her that the kit wasn't going to pack itself away. Having not actually helped to do any of the work himself.
That wife and groom pair were well matched, that's for sure. I still despise them for the way they treated my friend. I personally cut contact with the CF couple after an incident at a festival a couple of years prior to their marriage.
In that story, a big group of us were attending a festival together. We all travelled and arrived separately. By around 7pm, everyone had already arrived and set up their tents when CF couple arrived. They had a massive elaborate teepee style thing which needed several people to put it up.
So, CF couple asked us all to pitch in and help us to construct this ridiculous thing. And then dropped the bombshell "ok so if you could all get on with that, we are going to get something to eat. Thanks!"
I laughed at her and sat down on my arse, where I remained. Watching the other guys in the group scramble to put up their tent, while they swanned off to have a nice meal. Fuckers.