To ask you if you have a real life crush on anyone?

[Rainbowb]

And would you do anything if you could completely get away with it?! Mine is my daughter’s swimming teacher, he has the sexiest smile and is so good with the kids. Totally gives me the flutters but I’m guessing he’s not into overweight bespectacled women in their forties!

One bonus of my Tom(boy, It's a woman) is that I look so much nicer at work these days. I've tried to make an effort with make up, done my hair It's a good job we have a uniform otherwise I'd be coming in in a mini skirt and push up bustier (joking okay maybe only sort of )

Ha!

Sucking only if you promise that if you turn out to be his wife, then we can do the swapsies game????

shoemaker I’m totally with you on where you are with your DH.

@Asimovsfutureishere2020 You got "star trekking"??? Wow.

He was trying to communicate something deep and meaningful to you. My Tom has also mentioned star trekking even though he's meant to be an intellectual.

He's just a boy trying to tell a girl about Klingons and - heartbreakingly - she didn't get it. I bet he's gutted now. Despairing that he'll ever find a woman who understands.

@Soapytoad Do you think I'd be on this thread if I were married to a man with perfect arms???

I'd be putting them to work all day. Lifting, carrying, pulling stuff. Random stuff. It wouldn't matter. I'd just sit back and watch.

Love this thread!

My Tom is one of the dads at my DD’s school. He’s a former sportsman and is drop dead gorgeous - swoon! I had to talk to him this morning and try and keep a straight face whilst fantasising about what I’d like him to have been doing to me...

We are both married so it’s obviously a no go, even if he were interested which I’m sure he’s not! Things are up and down with my DH so
I’ve found comfort in crushing from afar on a few Toms over the years 😁

I’m a scrub nurse and have a massive crush on one of the surgeons. He’s just sex on legs. He’s tall, has a booming laugh, sexy Irish lilt, rugged, bit unkempt, filthy sense of humour, kind and caring to the patients.

I’m absolutely pathetic around him. Zero banter, can barely string a sentence together. I have the dirtiest fantasies of him bending me over the operating table after hours and fucking me hard from behind. Recently divorced too. I’m sure half the hospital must be lusting after him and he doesn’t even know I exist. Love the way he pronounces my name too.

@Asimovsfutureishere2020 Another Tom bites the dust

I have a work Tom, he is just lovely. Tall, strong, handsome, capable. I developed the crush on a work trip to Paris, how cliched! Even if I can’t have him (and I cant, we are both married), I would want him as a friend. Am pretty sure it is mutual, we get on like a house on fire but he has started leaving the room when I come in as I think he has it as bad as me and is trying to do the right thing and create distance. Which is good and decent and just makes me want him more!
Would absolutely go there as have no self control. Tom is being strong for both of us!

To add to the cliche, in past careers Tom has been a nurse, and a cop. Honestly the fantasies are off the scale

Omg I have a meeting with my Tom on Tuesday, just us! Eeeek! I’ve booked a small room, hehe. Of course it’s a genuine meeting to discuss an issue with work that’s to do with his team and mine, but last time we met about this issue he told me there wasn’t anyone decent (he said except you, you’re a 10) in the office! So let’s hope I can steer the conversation to non work after 5 mins! Shouldn’t be hard as he’s easily distracted. Lol. God can’t the weekend hurry up, roll on Tuesday! I shall report back Tuesday evening :) Mission Tom!!

@Honsandrebels - oh God. That’s tough. Stay strong! Or don’t! Lol

Wow, so many Toms.

#doctorTom and #postmanTom

@Rebellenny "He looked like a chubby Jude Law with more hair. Ok not everyone a cuppa"

We do not judge on this thread. If there's one thing we've learned it's that Toms come in all shapes and sizes.

@Darbs76
Don't steer the conversation. Toms are startled fauns, remember?

No sudden moves. No steering. The only way to hook a Tom is indifference.

Oh, and a #ParisTom.

Yep. I have a lovely do too!

I had a bus commute crush - he used to sit in front of me, looked sexy as hell in his suit and had the most kissable neck.
Saw him in dress down clothes and it ruined it for me!

I have a crush on my post man. But I'm married and would never act on it... if I was single, I'd be inviting him in for a cup of tea ☕️

@Showerpuff

Tall, you say? Strong arms? Which hospital does he work at and what is his speciality?

If he is orthopaedics, I may need to visit...

Enjoying this thread. I should have kept my crush as a crush. Instead I made it clear I had a crush on him, which he then acted on....repeatedly...over the course of 6 months...then disappeared. It's taken me a year and a half to get over him and I still fantasise about him now!

Yes. He is married so I would never act on it but he is kind to everyone and has the loveliest smile.

May have found new crush. Currently in cafe.

#waiterTom

Yes, yes I do need water. Oh you’ll get it for me? How kind...

Does it count if they are being paid to be nice to you?

Ethical dilemmas, eh?

@Peanutbuttermouth what do you mean he acted on it?