To ask you if you have a real life crush on anyone?

[Rainbowb]

And would you do anything if you could completely get away with it?! Mine is my daughter’s swimming teacher, he has the sexiest smile and is so good with the kids. Totally gives me the flutters but I’m guessing he’s not into overweight bespectacled women in their forties!

My FWB but I wont do anything about it as I know he isnt the relationship type and my head rules my heart overall.

mmm #paristom. On another work trip and should see him for work dinner tomorrow. Have bought new dress.

@Honsandrebels

Wow! Keep us posted.

Enjoy @Honsandrebels

I have gone off my Tom because he is too much of a lefty.

#exTom

But I'm sure another one will be along pretty soon.

He wears gloves? That's a man who is conscious of hand hygiene in these dangerous times.

He's a keeper.

#cleanTom

We're living in different times, looks aren't the priority any more.

Hygiene is everything.

#handsanitiserTom

Bin him immediately.

I have a celerity Tom, but I’ve been doing a bit of work for him over the past few months.
He is intelligent, perceptive, personable, warm, friendly , witty , utterly gorgeous, with the sexiest voice/ accent I have ever heard. Sigh.

He’s on tour now since last week and won’t be back for a few months so I have some time to calm down and regroup.
I’m very happily married and wouldn’t cheat, but boy this thing has a life of its own. He’s single ( divorced from a woman 10 years older than him, so he’s not averse). But as he is worlds sexiest man I don’t think he lacks interest.

Did i mention he’s a millionaire?

@Ohyesiam

Give us a clue.

Peter Andre?

My tom is in a 'protect and serve' kind of role and we only meet when things go pear-shaped. Can Toms read minds?

@wizzywig

They certainly can! They know things you haven't even thought yet.

@wizzywig

Yes, Sucking is correct.

I am currently working on the theory that they implant the crush on us to boost their own egos and make us feel responsible. I will update you all when I have evidence to prove I am correct.

#notbarmyatall

Also @wizzywig you need to read up on WWKD.

Annoyingly, yes. Someone utterly unprepossessing who you wouldn't notice in the street - balding, averagely attractive, fellow school run parent. I am very happily married, so is he, and I'm 99% sure the feeling isn't mutual. I also know him slightly in a professional context, which is especially annoying because meeting with him regularly would be good for my career progression but I don't dare stoke the flames by seeing him alone. I think there's definitely something to the competence theory - he is passionate and knowledgeable about his specialism and an extremely good communicator. I wasn't at all attracted before I heard him speak at length about what he does. I don't dare dwell on it for too long, I'm hoping to starve the attraction to death by ignoring it as much as possible. He's absolutely lovely, though.

Damn damn damn! He must not know my inner thoughts and desires!!

@wizzywig

He created them, wizzy. He knows.

One of the kids at church 😳 He's 18. I'm 40. Obviously I would never act upon it, even if I were single.

@earlgreymarl After I told him I had a crush on him we started to sleep together, we had an fwb type situation for 6 months (that really only ever benefitted him!) and then he disappeared.

I suppose I got it out my system but I think next time I'll enjoy a crush from afar!

One of the kids at church 😳 He's 18. I'm 40. Obviously I would never act upon it, even if I were single.

I find that a bit creepy tbh. He's not much more than a kid- I don't find youngsters sexually attractive.
I would have found an 18 yo attractive when I was close to that age- but whan you are 40????

Rebellenny

Exactly- my DS has one or two friends who are attractive, funny, warm and kind. I may have had a crush on them when I was close in age, but they just don't trigger that "fancy" or "crush" response in me- as yousay I see them as kids at 18.
Now show me a muscular intelligent man greying at the temples- that may do it- but an 18 year old......???