Sex or no sex

[WhateverName2]

Am i the only person in the world who is slowly dying in this fucking heat? We havent had sex in 9 - nine - days and have children free oppertunity today. But it is so hot!!! I know my dh is looking forward to kids free night- but it is so hot! I cant be bothered...

9 days is nothing 3 months here 😤

Share a cold shower?!

Or al fresco a bit later

Al fresco?

Sex in a cold shower and then going to bed damp with a fab directed right at us. Not alluring but my goodness it’s the way forward.

In the garden

Fan even. Fab lollies aren’t cutting it.

9 days.....You are in a better situation than most of the country....have a night off

Have sex with a fan directed on you then have a cold shower after to cool down.

Id rather have a Glass of wine and a chat. But he really want to. He is back in an hour. I feel guilty for not wanting to, now we have the chance. But it is 27 degrees - inside!!

9 days is a baron spell and a half.

LTB

Not my need. More his. And 9 days is a lot.. for him..

It's too hot! DH is looking particularly fuckable today but I feel so sweaty and ming!

Sweat can be washed off, I’d go for it

We've been having a good phase lately. Had sex yesterday afternoon and nearly died in the heat. DH is looking at me hopefully but there's absolutely no chance. I can't even stand the kids hugging me today.

I feel hot, sweaty, weak, lazy and did i mention hot!! Just want to sit under the trees on the garden with a cold glass of wine. Not exercising several minuts in an hour. But he will be disappointed- possible being huuuuuuuurrrrrt - and that makes me think "ok just get it over with" - and that is wrong.. right??

Lol I'm thinking we should try...DH looks good in the sun...but lying here trying to get DS to sleep and so hot I don't think I can even move! So a no from us, it's meant to cool down tomorrow??

No. Nope. Not happening.

Too bloody hot 'n' sticky, and not in a good way.

Wouldn't he rather wait and have sex with an enthusiastic partner? No one should have sex if they don't want to.

Cold shower before and after

Weird isn’t it? I love to get hot and sweaty, but I don’t want to start from hot and sweaty...

He doesn’t sound great in that respect - sulks if he doesn’t get the sex he wants? Doesn’t care if you don’t want it too, just wants you to offer it up as a service? Ugh.

God I don’t want another being to even touch me in this heat let alone have sex when I’m not in the mood.

Let him go wank in the shower and stretch out in front of the fan yourself

In all seriousness OP, if you don't want to have sex then don't. You shouldn't have to justify it to your DP - a no should be enough. He shouldn't try and co-erce you by sulking, moaning etc. If he does then he's no 'D'p

I'm pregnant, my partner is suffering with his Asthma so no nooky for us at the moment! I personally can't think of anything worse than bother sweaty human touching me in this heat at the mo 😂