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To think this is really odd behaviour

354 replies

MelbaToast · 28/12/2018 01:40

Been with BF together a while now (about a year). The reason why I'm wondering this is because he has never invited me to his house. Ever. Our whole relationship has taken place from my house and a couple of bars in between our houses, which we go to once a month. He told me this was because he was doing work to his house. The other week I was really direct and asked him when he was going to invite me over and he said when the work is finished, ie, mid 2019. I've driven past his road a couple of times and there is scaffolding outside, so I do believe he's having work done. I just find it really odd that he wouldn't want to show me where he lives. He's also never introduced me to any of his friends (I'm digging my heels in with this one and not introducing him to any of my friends until he initiates).

I think my concern is that he has someone more serious that he doesn't want me to know about.

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SomethingAboutNothing · 28/12/2018 23:44

Hope you are ok OP.

GimmeGimmeHellYeah · 28/12/2018 23:46

Hope everything is ok

Courts1988 · 28/12/2018 23:49

Oh wow this doesn’t sound good

BumbleBeee69 · 28/12/2018 23:53

Crikey why am I nervous ?!

cushioncuddle · 28/12/2018 23:54

I really hope it works out.

Amelia1909 · 29/12/2018 00:14

Why Monday's and Fridays? Is that your choice or the only time he says he's available? Good luck xx

Doyouavocado · 29/12/2018 01:38

I really need to know what/who was behind the door…

Hubblebubbletripletrouble · 29/12/2018 01:43

Me too!

Petitprince · 29/12/2018 05:05

Hope you're ok op?

Newmummy1234 · 29/12/2018 07:09

Hope you’re ok OP!

rainbowstardrops · 29/12/2018 07:16

How did it go @MelbaToast?
I'm hoping all was as it should be and you've stayed over with him.

ApolloandDaphne · 29/12/2018 07:30

I do hope you are ok OP.

The4thSandersonSister · 29/12/2018 07:38

Froth-bait.

Rachierach11 · 29/12/2018 07:46

Hope everything’s ok op? X

HugoBearsMummy · 29/12/2018 07:50

What was the outcome OP?

Imalittleelf · 29/12/2018 08:18

Either this was made up
Or
The guy is a psycho and has locked op up in the basement he has been preparing for her
Or
His name is actually Christian grey and they have been in the red room all night (which he has secretly been building)

SymphonyofShadows · 29/12/2018 08:30

What did the paperwork you ordered say OP? That should have been pretty instant if you ordered it online. Something stinks here and I’m not entirely sure it’s the ‘boyfriend’

gingerrubber · 29/12/2018 09:02

i vote for the option they have been busy shagging all night 😂

QOD · 29/12/2018 09:13

🤔

DuckPancake · 29/12/2018 09:20

Hope everything's alright OP

AHintOfStyle · 29/12/2018 09:21

Hope everything is OK

Petalflowers · 29/12/2018 09:21

Hope you are okay.

Bunnybigears · 29/12/2018 09:29

Even if its all legitimate do you want a relationship with him?

Bouncebacker · 29/12/2018 09:31

Hoping you got some answers OP!

melissasummerfield · 29/12/2018 09:41

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