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To ask you: All In or All Out?

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Quietrebel · 04/10/2018 09:54

All seems to indicate that it's now crunch time for the UK. In the style of another active thread, I'd like to ask you all what you'd go for if given a binary choice between No Deal at all with the EU or Remain.
No blame game or mud slinging, just simple polite answers please.

OP posts:
LeNil · 06/10/2018 15:27

Remain

Nannymcfee13 · 06/10/2018 15:29

Cattenburg, if DC want to do that, neither you or the EU will be able to stop them. Proof of this is the number of British citizens from non EU countries.

Thomasinaa · 06/10/2018 15:38

UK workers will be at the back of the queue for jobs, behind all EU workers.

1tisILeClerc · 06/10/2018 16:07

Although this is getting rather off topic, I am always puzzled why people expect companies of government to 'provide' jobs. What happened to entrepreneurs?
Find a gap in what is currently available and slide right in.

1tisILeClerc · 06/10/2018 16:07

Companies OR government

mumeeee · 06/10/2018 16:08

Remain

Mummyundecided · 06/10/2018 16:08

Remain.

nonetworkaccess · 06/10/2018 17:00

Remain

WomanOfTime · 06/10/2018 17:10

No Deal

panzotti · 06/10/2018 17:28

As a European working in London I am a bit puzzled by the fact that
A. The Irish border problem has not been dealt immediately ( as if we have forgotten all the troubles there )
B. People moan that the EU "does not help" in the negotiations.
The UK voted to leave and the EU is not bound to any negotiation: they are negotiating because it is in their interest to do so. A no deal situation is not convenient for anyone but the negative effects may be spread among 27 countries.
Still, it would be a stupid decision on both sides but by the looks of it it is what will happen with all the consequences.

Childrenofthesun · 06/10/2018 17:40

Remain. It would be oh-so-British though to end up crashing out because it would be "too embarrassing" to change our minds.

Another shout out for the People's Vote March 12pm, 20th October, Park Lane

tempester28 · 06/10/2018 18:13

Remain and work to make the EU better

Knittedfairies · 06/10/2018 18:14

Remain.

ginghambox · 06/10/2018 18:15

Remain and work to make the EU better
How the fuck is that going to happen?

JellyBears · 06/10/2018 18:28

Leave 100% I want to live in a democracy and the people voted to leave so we shall.

1tisILeClerc · 06/10/2018 18:30

{Remain and work to make the EU better
How the fuck is that going to happen?}
If the UK had as much as half a brain the UK would stay in the EU and play properly like a grown up rather than a teenager standing on the sidelines.
This prospect has been comprehensively blown.

Stormishborn · 06/10/2018 18:49

Remain

mummabearfourbabybears · 06/10/2018 19:16

Leave. I voted remain but by our democratic vote, we voted leave. So that's what we do. Because we are not communist Russia and I will be forever grateful for the fact that we do actually live in one of the fairest, most inclusive countries in the world.

lljkk · 06/10/2018 19:23

OP asked for No Deal or Remain. Saying "Leave" isn't answering OP's question.

Moussemoose · 06/10/2018 19:27

mummabearfourbabybears ok and "one of the fairest, most inclusive countries in the world" held an advisory referendum. After attempting to follow the advise it's not working so the sovereign parliament decided to hold another referendum.

How does that make us "communist Russia"?

If you want to be part of a democracy you have to oppose and engage.

mummabearfourbabybears · 06/10/2018 20:05

HmmI didn't say we were communist Russia GrinGrinGrin

JadziaSnax · 06/10/2018 20:24

Remain

Moussemoose · 06/10/2018 20:28

Communist Russia = The Soviet Union.

I'm sorry I tried not to correct but I couldn't manage.Blush

mummabearfourbabybears · 06/10/2018 21:17

Lljkk actually the title is 'all in it all out' so . . .

mummabearfourbabybears · 06/10/2018 21:18

*or Confused