I think my friend should pay, she thinks we should split it?

[Welshgal1]

Driving a friend 4 hours away for an operation (cosmetic) and will use 2 full tanks of fuel in my car, cost of a hotel, food while I'm there and I'm using a days annual leave.
She wants to split all costs down the middle, whereas I think I'm using my holiday entitlement and 2 days of my time (which I am more than happy to give up) but don't think I should be paying for fuel, or for the hotel? I've said I'll pay for all my own food.
Her logic is we're both going so why should only she pay, she's already paying lots for surgery.
My logic is I wouldn't be going if it wasn't to do her a favour so don't see it fair to split costs.
Whats the right thing to do here? Don't want to be mean but trying to be fair...

What a brilliant message, well done op.

Have a lovely weekend away. This would be the weekend that you conceive!

Awww. Have a brilliant time, OP. 🙂

I shouldn't be on Mumsnet after 10pm but I had to finish reading about TITZILLA- what a result, well done OP

Titzilla - that's GENIUS.

Have a lovely weekend away. This would be the weekend that you conceive!

@ScrumpyBetty Was trying to figure out TITZILLA then.. get so lost in the MN acronyms and then I realised

Yay! Happy trip

Please make sure you come back after your surprise trip away with your lovely DH/DP

Enjoy your baby dancing

I want to know who is going to take her now.

Best. Update. Ever.

Have a lovely trip.

OP sorry I forgot to say .....

BRAVO 👏🏻 this was for sure the update of the day!

The cheeky fuckery that that CF tried to play was truly outrageous and you did us all proud by replying the way you.

There are a couple of us here that are requesting you to find out who is going to take her now? Could you be so kind to update us all if you find out? Can you find out? Did she pay them? Did it cost her more?

..... we will be waiting. Much appreciated.

Lol 😂

Thatsallthanksbyeeeeeee

I can't rest properly until you tell us the percentage of the probability of you being able to find out who will take her now

Bloody well done OP!! You are awesome

That is, indeed totally awesome.

You rock, OP.

Have a lovely time away with your DH

You are awesome, OP!!!
Your ex-friend didn't deserve to have you as a friend I still can't believe the brassneck of said ex-friend...
Enjoy your break away with your DP xxx

I’ve been reading this thread and until now haven’t commented.

Reading your updates has made my day. Go you! Good riddance to the massive tit; hope she saves a bit of money to buy a clue.

Enjoy your time away with your hubby!

Perfect response, well done OP! Hope you have a lovely trip :)

A very happy ending! Have a lovely, lovely time!

The CF'ery continues.. a mutual friend just sent me a screenshot of a Facebook status (cringe) of Titzilla herself

"When your friend betrays you and wastes £13k of your hard earned money by forcing you to cancel non refundable medical procedures.. do I sue the bitch or just rejoice in the fact she's struggling to get pregnant and hope karma makes the bitch infertile 🤷🏻‍♀️"

I'm lost for words!!

She could have used public transportation.

Omg she keeps on proving she does not need surgery as she is a mahoosive tit, already !

She's poison. Her status to her'friends' will show them that - anyone who talks like that is a disgrace

Unbelievable.