I think my friend should pay, she thinks we should split it?

[Welshgal1]

Driving a friend 4 hours away for an operation (cosmetic) and will use 2 full tanks of fuel in my car, cost of a hotel, food while I'm there and I'm using a days annual leave.
She wants to split all costs down the middle, whereas I think I'm using my holiday entitlement and 2 days of my time (which I am more than happy to give up) but don't think I should be paying for fuel, or for the hotel? I've said I'll pay for all my own food.
Her logic is we're both going so why should only she pay, she's already paying lots for surgery.
My logic is I wouldn't be going if it wasn't to do her a favour so don't see it fair to split costs.
Whats the right thing to do here? Don't want to be mean but trying to be fair...

That's fucking vile.

She make all the choices that led to your decision.

She decided to have superficial surgery.
She decided to get 13k into debt
She decided to demand something unfair of you
She decided to cancel it (what is an extra £200 if already in debt 13k).

She sounds thoroughly unpleasant and is showing how vindictive she is. I hope your mutual friend unfriends her. If Amy friend of mine posted something so vile to wish harm on a baby or not to be able to have one is not want to see anything else she had to say.

Also sue you? Yeah I'd love to see that in court.

🌷 for you OP.

She obviously needs surgery because she thinks she's ugly but she's looking in the wrong place - her ugliness is inside.

Yikes

Post on her FB "have you heard of a fucking taxi?"

AS if she cancelled the lot, the poisonous bitch.

Oh god, I would not expect anything less from tgat CF. she has just shown her entire Facebook friends how nasty she is. Wonder if anybody else will offer.

Wow. Guess she had no other friends to help out; I wonder why?

Mutual friend was horrified, especially once I explained the situation! She's keeping an eye on what's being said but will be blocking after.

I can't believe the amount of dimwits commenting telling her to sue me! Atleast 10 people agreeing she should!

those 10 people could offer to drive her..

What on earth do they think she could sue you for?

These people can be her taxi and nursemaid then can't they?

Can your friend suggest that on FB?

She’s priceless, isn’t she?

It must be tempting to post ‘You ok hun?’ .

Wow! I'm glad you binned her. Now, you see the real her.

Dear God!

Nasty nasty woman. I hope you're ok x

Mabey those 10 people can take time off work and spend the weekend helping her then. They do not have a clue as to the truth, she just outs what she wants everyone to hear on FB, and omits the important parts.

When I saw you mentioned being promptly un-friended from FB, I wondered what kind of woe is me/I’m a victim crap she would post. That type can never not complain on SM!

She’s not only a terrible person, she’s stupid too. What adult borrows money for elective surgery, is so tight they can’t afford the other steps involved, and makes an appointment before confirming transport and aftercare?

I think she’s being ultra dramatic. Wouldn’t the worst be that she reschedules and they might charge her a re-schedule fee? Although who cares as whatever it is is her own doing.

Glad you got away from that! What a beast.

She has definitely crossed the line now; from CF vile bitch in two sentences. On what basis would she sue you?

Wow! Your mutual friends needs to comment something herself, telling everyone else the actual story. Everyone needs to see this utter wanker for what she is.

Omg she’s vile.

You’re well rid.

That is truely the worst thing I’ve ever heard of when it comes to Facebook. Beyond appalling, I can’t believe people would be associated with it by commenting on it other then to say ‘delete this you horrific excuse for a person’.

Hope you are ok

Your mutual friend should post a link to this thread.

Disgraceful!
Maybe she cancelled and is now going to save up for a personality transplant???? Hopeful??

She's making out the 'medical procedures' are life threatening in all the comments! People saying 'you're having surgery?' And she's like 'Yeah well was having surgery. Not anymore. My health isn't important to her apparently!" People then asking if she's okay and she's saying "time will tell hun.. hopefully.. no thanks to her though"

She could still have got public transport what a dick!!!

We all know that Titzilla hasn’t actually cancelled but is putting this up to moan and hoping it gets back to you. She had nothing witty or remotely intelligent to reply to your funny message, so she resorting to posting primitive bullshit. Part of me is hoping that it will all go tits up for her… She’d deserve a shitty result.