I think my friend should pay, she thinks we should split it?

[Welshgal1]

Driving a friend 4 hours away for an operation (cosmetic) and will use 2 full tanks of fuel in my car, cost of a hotel, food while I'm there and I'm using a days annual leave.
She wants to split all costs down the middle, whereas I think I'm using my holiday entitlement and 2 days of my time (which I am more than happy to give up) but don't think I should be paying for fuel, or for the hotel? I've said I'll pay for all my own food.
Her logic is we're both going so why should only she pay, she's already paying lots for surgery.
My logic is I wouldn't be going if it wasn't to do her a favour so don't see it fair to split costs.
Whats the right thing to do here? Don't want to be mean but trying to be fair...

Well done, Welsh!

Well done. Your “friend” sounds dreadful.

Just fab

This thread has made my day! OP what a legend you are! 👏 👏 👏

That is an EXCELLENT response! I especially love the ps bit. I'd love to have seen her face when she got that .

Has she replied?

brilliant reply would have loved to have been a fly on the wall when she got that

She very likely won't reply, probably sulking like my DDs (9 and 6) would do.

Awesome response OP! Would have paid to see her face as she read that!😂😂😂

There really was no need to be that rude op. You've lost the higher ground now. How sad.

Hahahahaha not really. Go you!

I had a moment of fiery confidence and sent it and now I'm staring at it in disbelief. I have never spoken out like this in my life!
So glad you had a moment, you've made our evening. Go girl. 🍷🍷
She gives CFs a bad name 😆

Well done @Welshgal1
Did you block her?

Well done op

She should pay UNLESS where you are going is a spa or something which you will use, while she goes under the knife.

Rtft qwerty. You won't regret it!

I dare you to tell her you're going to diend the ££££ you save on botox! Can you imagine

Welsh gal you are brilliant! Well done you.
And well done to whoever suggested that brilliant reply up thread!

600+ messages and some still don’t read the thread.......🙄🙄

Brilliant reply OP.

I've been left on read ever since.. and promptly unfriended on facebook

My OH was so proud of me for finally telling her to shove it (he's hated her since the day they met years ago due to her attitude) that he has planned a surprise trip for the days I was meant to be in London

Can't stop smiling ever since

That text has made my night! Well dont Welshgal1! Enjoy your suprise trip :)

If only it didn't break facebooks terms to post a photo of a massive tit

Your husband is awesome :) enjoy your trip!

*OH

Enjoy your weekend away ! :)

The trip isn’t to London near the clinic is it 😂 just happen to walk past as she steps out all bandaged up.

Your DH sounds fab. I hope you have a great time on your trip, and that you make a baby while there 😉

have a fab weekend away x