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Softzilla: You play; you pay!

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 11/04/2018 19:07

Before you all get excited: no party yet (I was trying to keep when it was vague so more anonymous but i give up) . I have had a message from softzilla.
'So are we calm enough to sort this oot for tomorrow? 'Hmm

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itssquidstella · 15/04/2018 20:59

@moaningmeanowlark wasn't it TPF - tactless pregnant friend?

itssquidstella · 15/04/2018 21:00

@moaningmeadowlark wasn't it TPF - tactless pregnant friend?

itssquidstella · 15/04/2018 21:00

@moaningmeadowlark wasn't it TPF - tactless pregnant friend?

Moaningmeadowlark · 15/04/2018 21:48

Ah yes. Thanks! X

ReanimatedSGB · 15/04/2018 23:21

This is one of the ways that mad twats like Softzilla get away with their horrible behaviour: most people tend to happily bumble along doing nice non-drama stuff, and if there's all this drama, most people's reaction is... not to be too bothered, be a bit bewildered but willing to be nice about it (if they are the one who's suddenly being told 'YOU DID BAD THINGS BE SORRY).

StormTreader · 16/04/2018 17:32

I'm loving the shoe of solidarity - I assume they are all flats that we take off and beat Softzilla with until she starts behaving?

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 16/04/2018 19:39

Lol no beating! No violence on my watch! All quiet now so might be the end of the thread.

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paradyning · 16/04/2018 20:20

I think you are lucky to have avoided the daily fail!

summerlovingliz · 16/04/2018 20:24

Be sure to let us know if/when softzilla rears her ugly head.. we are invested Wink

summerlovingliz · 16/04/2018 20:25

Be sure to let us know if/when softzilla rears her ugly head.. we are invested Wink

hdh747 · 19/04/2018 21:13

Any news, all quiet and good?

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 19/04/2018 23:14

Tomorrow is our usual group day. Tho I haven't decided if I'm going. Have been drinking so might be a tad hungover....

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Babyblade · 20/04/2018 08:21

Be brave - hold your head up high. This situation is not your making.

Ellendegeneres · 20/04/2018 09:50

You’ll be fine!

DarkPeakScouter · 20/04/2018 10:58

Good luck

ohfourfoxache · 20/04/2018 11:09

You have done nothing wrong.

Go, hold your head high and try to enjoy yourself

louise5754 · 20/04/2018 13:24

Did you go?

louise5754 · 20/04/2018 13:24

Did you go?

africanprincessinscotland · 20/04/2018 16:28

Yes did you go???

CoffeeCoffeeCoffeeCat · 20/04/2018 21:23

Never been more interested in whether a stranger went to a mum group before!

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 20/04/2018 21:35

Yes I went! She didn't tho. I got asked by a couple of people where she was. I hadn't realised that people seem to think of us as being close friends. I have always seen others from the group more than her.

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RandomMess · 20/04/2018 22:32

I think she has spun a line about you being close hence her wanting to "treat" her... sort of that's how she wanted it to be?

RandomMess · 20/04/2018 22:32

I think she has spun a line about you being close hence her wanting to "treat" her... sort of that's how she wanted it to be?

prettybird · 20/04/2018 22:44

I hope you said, in a surprised but not nasty tone, "I have no idea as I only ever so her at these soft play meet-ups because she's not a friend^ Confused Didn't she tell you whether she was coming as she knows you better"^ Grin

Or the short version, "Oh gosh, I don't know. Did she tell any of her friends if she was coming?" Wink

GabsAlot · 20/04/2018 23:08

erm they thought u were close?

where have they been the past couple of weeks