to be angry at DH? *Title edited by MNHQ*

[gertiegildergoesbananas]

I work full time but had taken a day's leave today as it's been mega stressful recently (miscarriage and a LOT on at work) and I wanted to spend a day with my son.

Anyway, I went out this morning to run errands with DS who's 3 and had taken chicken out to defrost for dinner at about 11am.

Came back later, tried to tidy up and get house organised.

DH came in and started to prep dinner and chicken hasn't defrosted through! He's just walked out in a huff and has gone to get himself dinner and hasn't even asked if I'd like anything. He'll probably sit at McDonald's and come back quite content and I'll be starving and I'm bathing DS and will be putting him to bed. I know there will be a chorus of "oh but just text him!" But surely it's rude to just leave someone dinnerless.i realise in the grand scheme of things this is a non problem but it's just selfish.

Only thing to do is phone out for a luscious take-away and not get him any.

I'm fuming at him. What a knob

Did he say 'i'm going to get myself' something to eat'? Or do you both have a 'usual' at McD's and he'll automatically buy for both of you and bring git back?

If it's the former, yep rude, thoughtless and selfish.

He just stormed out saying "I'm away to get something to eat"

Put the chicken in a sealed bag or container and rinse it with cold water- helps it to thaw.

I would slap yourself up a delicious meal and serve him ZERO!!!!

Definitely time for your favourite indian/Chinese whatever takeaway!

bring it back. No doubt the git will be back

If he comes back having eaten, and without anything for you, I would order a home delivery Chinese takeaway and enjoy every last mouthful. And no, I wouldn't share any of it, even the prawn crackers,

Kill him.
He's horrible.

I'd hang fire, he might bring you something back!

Chicken breasts only need plopping into a bowl of cool water to speed up the defrosting process.

Oh well, when your husband has finished his sulk and comes back from McDonalds, you can then take the car and enjoy a burger in peace yourself, yes?

What is it with selfish entitled pricks on mumsnet today who can't think of anything other than themselves
My blood boils at the utter selfishness of them
With their kayaks and inability to cook a meal from other things if the chicken isn't defrosted
Aaaaaaah

He's just come back with a chicken kebab for himself and fuck all for me

I would ask him where your food is.

I stuff the kebab where the sun don't shine !

Wanker 😠😠 What sort of an arse does this? Hope it chokes the fucker

WOW
Just wow
I would actually grab it out of his hand and shove it in the bin and scream in his face
But I'm a bit angry hearing all this shit and women just putting up with it
I would also never cook for him again

What a miserable git.
Give him hell, op!

Full rage is what you need now.
Fuck being diplomatic

I've just told him what a selfish prick he is and his response was "think what you want"

I'm going to choke the cunt in his sleep

I would chuck that kebab over his head. And a drink in his face. Proper Peggy Mitchell style.

So selfish !!!!

What a fucking prick.

And I would never do a nice thing again
And if he complained I would remind him of the kebab
But I can hold a grudge too