to be angry at DH? *Title edited by MNHQ*

[gertiegildergoesbananas]

I work full time but had taken a day's leave today as it's been mega stressful recently (miscarriage and a LOT on at work) and I wanted to spend a day with my son.

Anyway, I went out this morning to run errands with DS who's 3 and had taken chicken out to defrost for dinner at about 11am.

Came back later, tried to tidy up and get house organised.

DH came in and started to prep dinner and chicken hasn't defrosted through! He's just walked out in a huff and has gone to get himself dinner and hasn't even asked if I'd like anything. He'll probably sit at McDonald's and come back quite content and I'll be starving and I'm bathing DS and will be putting him to bed. I know there will be a chorus of "oh but just text him!" But surely it's rude to just leave someone dinnerless.i realise in the grand scheme of things this is a non problem but it's just selfish.

No food for you? That's just twisted.

You've recently had a miscarriage. I hope you're considering not having another child with him. Please don't sleep with him until he deserves you.

What a prize arsehole. I've been married 17 years and DH brings me a coffee in bed every morning. Even when we've argued badly and gone days without speaking there has never been a morning where he hasn't brought me a coffee.

What the what?!

Am I getting this right? It was his night to cook dinner, he didn't get the chicken out of the freezer before he went to work, got a strop on because it wasn't fully defrosted when he started preparing the meal, and instead of just defrosting it in the microwave or cold water, he stormed out of the house to get takeout for dinner for himself, and nothing for you?

I'm with Starlighter. Walk over, pick up the kebab and throw it out the window. What a fucking douchebag.

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Go run yourself a nice bath while your delicious takeaway is en route and ignore the twat until he apologises, however long that may be!

I'm seething just reading this. I dread to think how I'd react if this happened to me. All I know is that he would not be eating a single morsel of said kebab. Appalling behaviour.

Selfish git! This would be ltb territory for me. My dp knows full well not to come home with food without some for me! Even when he's been on a night out he brings me something back just in case I'm still awake.

Definitely order yourself a takeaway.

Make him a drink complete with laxatives he won't buy a fucking kebab again

Sorry, I read it as though you told him the chicken hadn't defrosted and that's why he walked out.

In that case, he's a knob. Is this usual for him or has the miscarriage affected him more than he'd admit?

You know, this isn't normal behaviour and you arne't expected to put up with it,.

Order yourself a take away and sleep on the sofa tonight, then tomorrow, think about what to do next. This level of disrespect doesn't just go away.

Hopefully it gives him the shits! Whilst at work so you don't have to suffer the stench!

If DH did this to me I would be frantically booking an appointment at the doctors and looking up symptoms for personality changes caused by brain tumour.

Is this typical behaviour because it is unbelievably shitty? Also, considering what you have been through recently, it's very very cruel.

Sorry for your recent miscarriage and your very unsupportive husband.

I can't even contemplate why anyone would be with a man who would ever treat them like that?!
He sounds absolutely disgusting, the way he speaks to you-why do you feel you deserve so little OP?

I'm afraid I would have yo start keeping the itching powder in his underwear drawer. And not in a packet.

OP, in your position I'd ring a friend and see if she fancied going out. I wouldn't even want to look at that selfish sack of shit.

He is a cunt.

This level of disrespect doesn't just go away.
Becotide
THIS IN SPADES

Good grief!! What is it about all the ghastly DHs on here at the moment??

• cycle holiday bastard
• kayak instagram prick
• and now this. What shall we call him - kebab arsehole?

OP is this normal for him? Does he have any redeeming qualities? He sounds horribly selfish. Any chance you can call up a friend nearby and breeze out of the door leaving him to look after your son whilst you go to a restaurant?!

That's so tight and selfish!

think what you want does he even realize how out of order he is?

Why are you with him?

What an arsehole!! X

Ha! WhoCanSay! Great minds!

Words fail me. What pathetic, selfish, uncaring behaviour towards someone he's supposed to love and the mother of his child. Seriously, I'm disgusted.

I'm hating him for you, absolute prick xx