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To not get why guys send dick pics?

197 replies

Emboo19 · 29/07/2017 17:48

My very lovely single friend is spending the day with me and my DD.
She's trying online dating at the moment and is messaging a few people. She's been showing me some messages etc today, and almost every other message is a intimate photo mostly of the guys dick. She hasn't lead up to this, no sexting or anything, although most have asked for a return picture sending.
Is it supposed to be a turn on? Do any women actually think it is?

I love my boyfriend, all parts of him. But a pic of that wouldn't get me turned on or anything.

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coconutpie · 29/07/2017 17:50

Shock That is disgusting!!

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 29/07/2017 17:50

Modern equivalent of the flasher in the park for lazy bastards...don't think they expect it to impress...just a sexual peversion.

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AnyFucker · 29/07/2017 17:51

Men adore their dicks

They think women worship them as much as they do

They are wrong

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gamerchick · 29/07/2017 17:51

Bless, they're very proud of their little men aren't they? Grin

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Sparklingbrook · 29/07/2017 17:52

I know, I find that really odd. Why would anyone do that, are they expecting a reply? Confused

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jay55 · 29/07/2017 17:52

I don't get it at all. Are we meant to be impressed or sympathetic depending where on the size spectrum they are?
It's just another reason I can't do online dating.

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MipMipMip · 29/07/2017 17:52

I always assumed they don't understand what ridiculous, unalluring things penises are. They all seem so proud of an object half the world is born with.

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LadyPenelope68 · 29/07/2017 17:52

Thing is, taken away from the rest of the person they are bloody weird, ugly looking things. It's really not going to attract someone is it.

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Crunchymum · 29/07/2017 17:53

Do men nor know how fucking ugly their dicks are? Confused

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Crunchymum · 29/07/2017 17:54

nor = not

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Anecdoche · 29/07/2017 17:54

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GreenTulips · 29/07/2017 17:54

They start younger as well - Several 13 year olds seem to think it's funny - it isn't

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BlahBlahBlahEtc · 29/07/2017 17:54

I've been sent my fair share of dick picks.

They look like 'Aliens' to me.

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DorisMcSweeney · 29/07/2017 17:54

Do they send pics of them floppy or firm?

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MrsTerryPratchett · 29/07/2017 17:54

It's low level sex offending in my book. And should be treated as such. Most of the rapists I worked with (when I did that) had flashing in their past. Then it escalates.

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WiganPierre · 29/07/2017 17:54

Yuck! Disgusting Confused

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Sparklingbrook · 29/07/2017 17:55

I have had a really long talk with my teen DSs about how it's a really stupid thing to do. But TBF they didn't take any convincing.

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PurpleMinionMummy · 29/07/2017 17:55

Agree with anecdoche.

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Maudlinmaud · 29/07/2017 17:56

I don't get this. When I was on twitter some men used the dms to send them. No build up, nothing, just ...surprise!
Odd and rather grim.

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Banderwassnatched · 29/07/2017 17:57

Agree with MTP. I've volunteered with offenders and it starts with stuff like this.

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ArmySal · 29/07/2017 17:57

I don't get it at all. I've never had one either, thank God.

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Smeaton · 29/07/2017 17:58

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LaurieFairyCake · 29/07/2017 17:58

I think every woman in Britain should agree to send this picture with no comment as soon as they receive a dick pic.

  1. It will reintroduce them to hair again

2. If they jerk off over it, it's a monkey
3. It's a monkey
4. It's basically fuck off you weirdo
To not get why guys send dick pics?
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Coffeetasteslikeshit · 29/07/2017 18:00

I don't get it at all, and would run a mile from any man who sent me a dick pic.

However, I have a single friend who seems to like them, so obviously some women do.

The only reason I can think of for her liking them while I don't, is the difference in our viewing habits. She's a big fan of porn whereas I don't watch it. This may not be the reason but it's my best bet.

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MrsTerryPratchett · 29/07/2017 18:00

3. It's a monkey That really made me laugh.

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