BigBadgers - with difficulty! Yes I am amazed at the double think too. Like it's OK for some people to be immigrants (white, English speaking generally). I don't want to fall out with all of his family, I had to leave the room before I exploded into a rant, but I think they were in no doubt what our opinions were.
GingerIvy - yes its tricky, I don't want to hide the things I believe in, but I don't want to create a rift. We were supposed to be going to visit them in America this year, planned before we had any idea Trump would be elected....
Also, we have friends who live in New York who have been protesting against Trump and I want to give my support to them too.