To disageee that a bride can't decide?

[mummytofourbabies]

Was invited to a wedding and have since received an email from the bride telling me that all guests are forbidden from wearing a hay or fascination?
Wtf?
Does this actually happen now?

Ah shit zombie thread! Whoops should have RTFT

Can you wear a headband? A hairclip? I'd be tempted to wear something that doesn't blatantly breach the rule but is a nod to disobedience.
As in 'This isn't a hat, it's a headband!'

But only if I didn't like the bride!

This isn't a zombie thread, batteries - it was started on Tuesday this week, I think.

No I suppose no but it had moved on considerably and come to a pause before it then popped back up in active threads. So a little zombie-ish. I feel like my comment was irrelevant after reading the whole thread anyway!

I now understand why I don't get invited to many weddings, 'mourner' is my default look

I think a floor length velvet hooded cape would be perfect over a dress of some kind. Warm and definitely not a hat or fascinator.

I'm getting a Scottish Widows advert on this page #styleicon