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Claridges Breastfeeding Policy

638 replies

ifgrandmahadawilly · 02/12/2014 20:31

Aibu in posting this here, in the hopes that the people of mumsnet let Claridges know how unreasonable they are being?

www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-health/11267989/Mother-forced-to-cover-up-with-large-napkin-while-breastfeeding-at-Claridges.html

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bigbluestars · 02/12/2014 20:41

"A spokeswoman for Claridge’s said: “Of course breastfeeding is allowed at the hotel, we just ask our guests to be discreet.” "

The law upholds even non-discreet breastfeeding.

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 20:42

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2250297-Claridges-asks-BF-mother-to-COVER-UP

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 20:43

Really Bigblue have you got that actual legal...thing?

I dont think you can get more discreet than that woman was .....

bigbluestars · 02/12/2014 20:50

It doesn't matter if you are discreet or not, a woman still has the right to breastfeed. The law makes no disctinction between "discreet" and "non discreet" breastfeeding.

"In England and Wales the Equality Act states that it is sex discrimination to treat a woman unfavourably because she is breastfeeding." NHS

Hatespiders · 02/12/2014 20:52

The Equality Act 2010 states that it is illegal to discriminate against any woman breastfeeding in public. Claridges could actually be brought to book over this incident. It is only permitted to ask a woman to leave if she is also causing a disturbance or annoying people in some other way (eg swearing or being aggressive) The photo of the woman and her baby is charming, and the 'modesty napkin' utterly ridiculous. Discrimination pure and simple.

bigbluestars · 02/12/2014 20:54

If this was scotland Claridge's staff could be arrrested by the police.
Here is is a criminal offence to ask a breastfeeding women to cover up or stop.

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 20:54

Interesting well lets hope they do take claridges to task over it!

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 20:55

Really Big, good for scotland shame its not like that here.

FrancesNiadova · 02/12/2014 20:55

This is the 21st Century.
Baby is hungry.
Mum feeds baby.
No problem.
FFS! Angry

SpaghettiMeatballs · 02/12/2014 20:55

Totally unreasonable. Both my DCs would have pulled that napkin straight off.

pointythings · 02/12/2014 20:56

Time for a feed-in in Claridges? They need to drag themselves into the 21st century and fast. Discrimination is not classy.

ApocalypseThen · 02/12/2014 20:56

I can see no reason why a woman should consider modesty in breast feeding if she isn't that way inclined. I read the comments on the guardian's CIF and they were actually disgusting, in some cases, perverted.

carbolicsoaprocked · 02/12/2014 21:01

Totally time for a feed-in, Pointy. Utterly ridiculous - as if bf isn't difficult enough as it is.

LokiBear · 02/12/2014 21:02

Things like this make me really angry. The managers of Claridges should be ashamed.

pointythings · 02/12/2014 21:02

Such a shame my bf days are behind me, I would so be there as long as it was on a weekend but mine are 11 and 13... Let's hope that they get such a shitstorm of bad publicity that they change their idiotic and illegal policy.

SaucyJack · 02/12/2014 21:02

Can we afford a feed-in in Claridges?

spiderlight · 02/12/2014 21:02

I wish I was still breastfeeding. I'd go to Claridges specially.

DixieNormas · 02/12/2014 21:04

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MindReader · 02/12/2014 21:04

A 'feed-in' in Claridges is a GREAT idea! Grin

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 21:14

I read the comments on the guardian's CIF and they were actually disgusting, in some cases, perverted.

Oh so its not just daily mail readers who are leaving nasty comments then, the Guardian readers are too....but they are supposed to be the nice ones?

Well I have emailed Claridges asking them how their actions have complied with the 2010 Equality Act, which states the BF must not be made to feel discriminated agaisnt.

ItsBeginingToLookAlotLikeChris · 02/12/2014 21:14

The managers of Claridges should be ashamed.

They have acted outiside the law they should be brought to book

whois · 02/12/2014 21:18

Redic. That stupid 'modesty napkin' thing is awful. She looked pretty discrete to me.

Whoever asked her to cover up should be sacked, and sent to live in Saudi or somewhere else more in line with the staff members modesty values

Lomega · 02/12/2014 21:19

I saw this on Facebook and was appalled to see people commenting things like "You say it's natural, so is pooing, we don't do that in public!"

I mean, are people that thick?? Really?

The Equality Act 2010 should have been shown to Claridge's. I don't go there anyway but certainly won't now. What is the world coming to.

bigbluestars · 02/12/2014 21:21

"She looked pretty discrete to me. " and if she wasn't "discreet"? Why would that matter?

Loletta · 02/12/2014 21:27

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